Even after 8-9 months of breaking up when he sees me he stares at me, reminds me of my things that he sees and my laugh and how he’s hearing it after so long. He compliments on me too. He touches my head in an adoring way too. He asks about my friends. He tells to his friends when he gets reminded of me. He still has my chat pinned on top. He also says he’s moved on but it doesn’t seem like it when he does all this.
He broke up because he’s figuring out life and didn’t want me to suffer whilst he’s figuring out life cause he thinks I’m used to a lifestyle that he’s not used to and it got him scared eventhough I did everything to make him feel okay.
So do you really think it’s true he said he lost feelings because I don’t see it when I see him? Will he come back?
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It’s definitely possible he still has feelings for you and when you split up with someone that’s when you realise how much they really meant to you. Do you talk regularly or did you cut contact? If you talk regularly then it’s also possible he’s looking for someone else but he’s keeping you hooked on him to keep you as an option. Could be an ego thing too
No we do not talk regularly. We met like once a month cause we are in the same friends group. You really think he’s keeping me as an option?
I mean I don’t see why else he would sweeten you up so much when you meet. Especially reminding you of all the good times. I would keep the conversations with him short and quickly rejoin your friends to avoid much interaction. If he has any sort of feelings for you then you acting uninterested in him and not giving him much time would possibly flip the switch and make him want you more. Also him breaking up with you to figure out life I think is an excuse because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings so he wouldn’t give you the honest answer. In my opinion if someone loves you, they wouldn’t put themselves in a position where they could lose you. So he either thinks he’s got you wrapped around his finger and that you’ll always come back or he’s not valuing you in the way that you should be valued.
Yes both things can be true he can lose feelings for u and they can come back or he can miss you once he is around u whilst not having the same feelings
Stop interacting with your ex
We are in the same friends group that’s why we met like that. Why? Pls explain 🥹