Why my ex came back after months of no contact?

[mojito]

My ex wants to get back together, even though it's been months since we broke up and had no contact. If he misses me, why do you think he hasn't called for months? Did he suddenly remember me just like that? Why did he come back after months? What does this mean? Please help. Should I forgive?

[ManOnFire]

This is exactly the reason why I tell people not to go back to their ex or try to have any contact with them anymore. If it's been months like in your situation, and now this person is reaching out - and probably not even talking about fixing where things ended - it's because they most likely are coming back to you because no one else wants them. It's also disrespectful because it's like on their end they assume you're already desperate to hear from them or would be happy to, or that you yourself didn't already move on with someone else and you're happy now.

If you get back together do you think you'll stay together for good this time? Do you think you will be happy again? It's up to you to decide but I personally don't think you should reconnect with him.

[Mangospacho]

I wouldn’t forgive someone who did the same thing to me - not right away, at least. Let a few months go by, and if he can wait around as long as you waited for him, then things could probably work out. Also, during that waiting period, you’re free to start dating anyone you want because that’s basically what he did. If he’s okay with you doing this and is understanding about it (because he just misses you so much) then you can think about taking him back. If you’re gonna forgive him, you can without dating him immediately like he wants.

[sage2021]

Well, I've read all the other opinions and the census is that he just wants sex and a place to live right now; then he will ride off into the sunset like he did last time.
He sounds like he has a hidden agenda as far as what he really wants from you.
You can take a chance and hope things go better this time around and hope he's not just using you.
Have a long conversation with him and just tell him that if he is planning to escape again, then just don't bother to come back.

[DermalPunch]

Don't fall for this. He didn't want you then and he doesn't want you now. This is about him and him alone. He'll be gone again very shortly after you give in.

[ArrowheadSW]

I know a lady who had a guy "return" periodically. My advice would be to be very careful and see what he is up to. This lady would get back with him, only to be hurt after so many times. However if you are OK that it might just be temporary then I don't want to judge.

[molonski2]

You are his " back stop " his wicket keeper , he would come back , get himself off then simply leave again , so don't fall for it , just tell to fck off , and get his jollies elsewhere.

[D_Bone_Steak]

He. Wants. To. Get. Laid. He probably had something else going on for a while and then his other options dried up. So he comes back to you.

Just be real about it and don't let yourself get conned into thinking it's much deeper than that.

[katiesmuff]

I agree with the others that all he is after is a place that is warm and wet to soak his dick in and get rid of all that built up sperm, then he would be gone again.

[Softlife808]

He doesn't like you. The woman he really wanted didn't work out and to temporarily fill that void he's reaching out to you. When she's available again then he will drop you again.

[In_Trance]

Wants to smash

He has no other options and thinks you're easy

[melanieeeB]

He is probably just trying to get some pussy ...

[FreyaRed]

You're literally the waiting room for him.

[spartan55]

He missed the sex. Don't be a fool.

[Freyke]

Nah what's in the pas, should stay in the past.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Block him and move on

[Minahh]

He wants to ruin your life more

[digitalguy01]

He want some good fuck for good old times sake.

[Preeti161101]

Not bad