Not really posing a question here just stating some facts.
When you walk away from someone, you're taking the entire relationship and essentially throwing it into an emotional grave. There it will rot and decompose, a painfully awkward process for everyone involved but eventually things will get better. As it's often been demonstrated that death brings new life.
As for me I cremate my relationships, I litteraly take all the love letters, photos and sometimes gifts and burn them in a bonfire, not as anact of celebration but as a way of cleaning up my past to make way for a better future. For out of those ashes a new me ascends with more wisdom and love from the painful lessons of the previous relationship.
On the occassions I didn't have a bonfire, I would return to those relationships only to discover nothing changed and that our problems has only gotten worse due to the past break up. You can't stab someone in the heart with an emotional dagger from Hell and walk back in like nothing happened.
Sex burries your problems, it doesn't cure them and bringing a kid into this world only reveals the incompatibility of two individuals, it does not make you stronger.
My best advice is make like Uncle Scar and RUN AWAY AND NEVER RETURN. As there is only an exceptionally rare breed of individuals that can pull off Tim and Veronica's friendship on TLC 90 Day Fiancé
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