I don't think I can deal with the stress of a break up now but I would feel its mean waiting till after my exams to break up with my boyfriend. Obviously I'm worried he will change, he even said it himself won't you be upset if I change for the next girl. I will but Its gone on for too long 4 months, I have told him multiple times I'm not happy and he hasn't treated me better. I don't have time to be a crying mess after a break up but I also don't have time to be in my current uncertain upset state of mind. Should I leave now or after my exams? Our relationship is in Limbo at the moment and has been as of Wednesday.
I left his place on Wednesday morning It's now Friday. My exams are not this Saturday (tomorrow) they are next Saturday and the following Monday.
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It's understandable that you are feeling uncertain and stressed about the timing of a potential break up with your boyfriend, particularly with exams coming up. Ultimately, the decision of when to break up is a personal one that depends on your individual circumstances and priorities.
If you feel that the stress of a break up now would negatively impact your ability to focus on your exams, it may be worth considering waiting until after your exams to break up. This could give you the time and space you need to focus on your studies, without the added emotional stress of a break up.
On the other hand, if you feel that the uncertainty and stress of your current situation is impacting your mental health and well-being, it may be worth considering ending the relationship now. It's important to prioritize your own needs and well-being, and to make a decision that feels true to yourself and your values.
Regardless of when you decide to break up, it's important to do so respectfully and honestly, and to communicate openly with your boyfriend about your feelings and concerns. Good luck with your exams and take care of yourself.
Damn this got me in my feels. Do whichever will increase your focus on exams. If leaving will free your mind and allow you to focus better than do that. If you feel he can support you through the times of exams then iguess wait til after
Leave now and focus on your exams.