I can't tell you what to do, it's your decision ultimately.
My recommendation: Drop him. Choices reveal priorities. You were a priority when it was time to have sex, now the baby living or not is an option.
Other than timing, what's the difference between a baby now and later? Especially when later (marriage, kids) isn't guaranteed? You two aren't married. So you abort the child and you two break up, he walks away with clean hands and your body wrecked, lowering your odds of getting a man in the future.
You have to deal with all the risks, he doesn't... and he can't even physically be there even though he's half the reason this is an issue?
Drop him.
He's not even discounting your feelings/thoughts, that at least requires his attention - he's flat out dismissing them.
You're getting an extremely good view of who he is as a person when you're in a dark place right now, you'd be a fool NOT to drop him.
Be safe and good luck.
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You should leave him and keep the child. There are many good wholesome ministries that are able and willing to help you with whatever you need including prenatal care, find housing, obtain baby supplies etc.
Please look up Abby Johnson ministries
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Send them a message explaining your situation and they will most definitely help you
I would never have kids, or associate for that matter, with someone who is okay with killing some of them, especially if it's for his own convenience. That's just me though.
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Wow, I got a question; well, sitting down, get sheet of paper start written you a letter.
Think and talk pro and con your life and future you like.
What did you want to do?
If you need some to yell that I am hereHave you told him that I need more support from him I get u shouldn't have to but clearly not everyone is ca9ablr of stepping up and supporting
Why do you feel like you have to have an abortion?
And if he wants to have kids with you in the future, why can't he be a father now, when you both have already made a child together?he doesn't want children and he doesn't care about you get your abortion and once your better get on with your life
Why did u end up having a baby if u we’re gonna have exams and stuff…?
doesn’t seem like the good time to meThe best would be to break up with him and keep the child. There are many people who would help you.
Go for it. It's your life.
Aborth both the baby and him.
Yes, dump him
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