Do you believe that it is possible to fall in love with someone in such a short period of time? I think she didn't love me... She says the opposite but I don't believe her :( Why did my girlfriend cheat on me in such a short period? What do you think?
The whole purpose of taking a break is to sleep with other people.
Dude, she had the guy lined up for sexy time before she even wanted the break. He's been there as "just a friend" or "just a nice guy" the entire time and probably still is. They're called back-burner men. Like on the stove. When you get moved to the back burner they get moved to the front.
If it was fantastic and a much better deal than you were, she wouldn't be back to trying to put you back on the front burner.
I mean think about this... who pushed for the break to begin with? She's going to say it's not cheating because of the break... meanwhile, the agreement was probably not including sleeping with other people. I think she probably went along with that stipulation just to keep you in line, but she the entire time already knew what she was going to do.
Like I don't know the details and some of my assumptions might be wrong... but dude, I would bet my private parts she had that guy in the background the entire time. All the romance stuff was going on before the break ever even took place.
I would advise you to just use her but start looking for something new. Like, break up with her mentally at least if you're not going to break up with her completely yet. This phrase "A woman is never yours, it was just your turn." should be learned. These women just want commitment only to keep you from fucking other women. It doesn't take much at all to change and they'll spread their legs for another guy. Is what it is.
How long were you going out before you took a break on the relationship?
If it is a short period, then I would gather a guess and say you were likely smothering her. Very few people take a break early on in the relationship.
If you'd been together a year or two and took a break to regroup and she used that period to screw around, then you are better off without her.
She obviously did not take a break to think about the relationship, she did it with the specific intent to cheat and let you down softly with the hope that you could possibly get back together.
I don't by into the bullshit, oh we weren't together when I screwed around on you, we were on a break. It is just an excuse for that person to do exactly what the intended to do.
To me, that's worse than a regular cheating hoe. The fact that she would agree to a break/truce to figure out whether the relationship is worth saving and step out on you like that. I would not give her the time of day, if she tried reconnecting.
Sorry dude, but she did not love you, based on screwing with your heart as bad as what she did. People like that deserve whatever's coming to them.
Don’t feel bad the last guy I was with told me he needed “time” 3 weeks later he went out of town and found a girl out of state. I was pissed when I found out but I tried to be nice as I used to work with him. No I didn’t leave my old job because of him, I left because there was safety issues. Anyways breaks can be a good thing. It can help a relationship or maybe she thought that hey we are on a break he probably ain’t coming back. That’s what I would think at least because breaks can be a couple weeks or even a couple months. Shit technically I’m still in “I need time” and “I think we should take a break”. The time has been over a year so in January 2022 and the break has been since December 2019.
BREAK technically means break up. i don't see any other meaning for it. she can do whatever during that break because technically you're not together and are obviously having issues. and what was the cheating? a random hookup? if not, she may have been talking to them way before this "break"
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u "On a break" is an ambiguous term that couples rarely clarify, either because they are planning to poke someone else during the break, or they are wanting to break up without calling it a break up. Did you discuss expectations for "the break?"
in my opinion, anyone who allows "breaks" in their relationship is an idiot - they never go well.
I have a talk with every girl I am considering for a relationship, and I tell them that they are free to leave the relationship at any time. I may ask them to reconsider leaving, but I will never try to force them to stay (it can't be done anyway). BUT, I make it clear that that once they leave, there's no coming back, so she should take the decision to leave very seriously.
This sets boundaries and expectations and largely avoids this kind of problem.
Two things you need to learn.
1.) Never take a break. Either work it out or break up and be done with it. Going on a break essentially means pause for a minute while I go fuck this other person who I have had my eye on for a while. Your girl had him lined up and used the break to explore her curiosity.
2.) People like your girl will have their eyes open for options and will exploit them if the relationship starts to go south.
Dump her. Take time to heal and grow for yourself and be stronger for the next woman in your life. Get rid of her.
Listen to this man! This is great advice.
A break is just a cowardly break-up , it’s actually really common sadly. Also in my opinion you cannot love someone until you know and understand them so generally speaking that rules out falling in love really quickly unless you can spend every minute of every day together , communicating , facing challenges enough to truly understand each other. So , your probably right , she didn’t love but you likely didn’t love her either. You dodged a bullet though , people who haven’t learned that cheating is damaging and immature shouldn’t be in relationships
A break is the same as saying, "We're technically together, but we're not right now, so it's OK to cheat".
I guess we live and learn. Think about it like this. The next time you date someone that wants to take a break, you'll know exactly what their intentions are. You'll know that they're planning on cheating.
That girl was not worth your time. She doesn't even deserve you! If she asks to take you back, tell her, "I don't date cheaters. I date girls who respect me!"
I dated a girl once who claimed she was raped by another guy. That's just another a girl making an excuse because she had sex with another guy and didn't want it to sound like she was cheating.
Girls play a dirty game sometimes. I'm sorry she cheated on you. You can do so much better than that girl!
Lol. I saw a post that was reverse genders to this. All the girls were pissed but now a lot of them are saying it's okay lol. Crazy. Just dump her ass dude. She is a hoe anyway. Do you really want to be with someone like that? You don't. And trust me she won't change. I've studied changed and if you haven't studied the odds of you changing are like a million to 1. Dump that that hoe and move on. Forgive her but move on. She is not capable of being in a good relationship and neither are you. You need to go figure out your shit again. Dont go into another relationship as the same person
Let's take a break.
You were a fool if you believed that crap.
That is your cue she has another guy she wants insid of her. A break is a break up. What are you waiting around for her for?
Go no contact with her and move on and date others.
When someone wants a "break," they really just want to try to get someone else and want their partner to wait around as a backup option.
If someone requests a break from a relationship, my advice is to just end the relationship right then.
Because you fell for: “let’s take a break” which really means: “I want you to stay on reserve for me while I whore around. In case I don’t find someone better.”
Next time some little bitch wants to take a “break” give her a break from you for the rest of her life.
The guys with some experience, like @ShadezMcgee and @Exterminatore. . . they're talking to you based on experience! You ought to listen.
Thank you for saying as much sir.
After reviewing the comments I understand female logic believes it means to go find the nearest dick to ride,
while on the man's side of things means he needs some alone time to recollect his thoughts and identity because he's always with her.
Basically a break sounds like an insult to women so hook up with the last dude who hit on her out of spite,
The smart way to do it is to find a way to get some peace and mine while together.
At the same time if she find a dude to sleep with that fast she probably was already screwing him and finally has an excuse (in her eyes) to get some more without hiding it under the guise of a "break"
"Do you believe that it is possible to fall in love with someone in such a short period of time?"
No. Just don't be an idiot and don't take her back. You won't gain any plus points for your benevolence but you gain a lot of minus point among her female friends because of being desperate and weak. Those girls are probably your best opportunity to get a new girlfriend.
"I think she didn't love me.."
Would you cheat on someone you love?
I mean it’s not technically cheating if y’all were on a break lol.
Unless you specified that you weren’t going to see other people during it.
that’s why I don’t believe in breaks. I think a break is just an excuse to fuck other people without being considered a cheater.
1. Breaks in a relationship more times than not are wanted by one person and not the other person.
2. More times than not the one who initiated the break comes to the conclusion they don't want to be with the one they took a break from.
3. Unless she was drugged up the reason for cheating is because she chose to.
This is from what I have experienced, seen, heard, and read about.
On the break is one of the biggest bullshits ever invented, probably right after politicians saying "I'm doing this for you guys while fucking the country in the ass".
People in love don't want breaks from each other.
BECAUSE you had a break. That IS the reason. Break is an excuse to go wander off and find someone else.
You seem to be confused about the definition of a break. And if she did anything during the break, it doesn't mean she was in love with them.
That's not cheating if y'all were on a break
From what I learned: or you breakup or you stay together. I don't believe in no part time breakup.
yes it's possible for love at first sight or rather it's just lust
but a cheater is a cheater nonetheless
Assuming she's very horny to let it out
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She is a hoe.. you might as well make the break permanent lol
Don't worry, it wasn't love.
If you were on break, that's not cheating then, man. Not unless y'all set terms for the break.
She probably had sexual needs and was impatient or frustrated
Well, apparently if you were both on a break that's not cheating. She can do whatever she wants on that break.
Maybe she was dating them for a while before you found out?
Probably the case if she loves them.
She had him lined up for awhile and fucking him before your "break". FYI, there is no such thing as a "break", your relationship is over. Move on.
If you all were on a break from one another is it really cheating? We’re there ground rules to this break the two of you took? What was the reason for the break?
Your girlfriend is just not the kind of person for a long term relationship.
Why so surprised? These stories are nothing out of the ordinary.
When women ask for a "break" this is what happens. And then you make yourself the fool of the month.
She wanted to know if your cock was right for her pussy. Also if you can treat her the way she wants. But good news. By the time she finds out she has made a mistake. You will find a better lover than her
No, that's just lust. And she argue forever that it wasn't cheating because you were on a so called "break".
She might have messed with other guys, but as it was a "break" she might not consider it cheating.
you just answered your own question because she's a woman (girlfriend) (girl). you should know by now women can't control themselves ever they're all mentally unstable psychopaths and sociopaths
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If you guys were on a break, then she didn't cheat on you.
Ur broken up for a few weeks and she’s sleeping with another guy already?
forget this ho. Love means little to her
If you were on a break, it's not cheating at all because you weren't together
She Probably Don't Take U Seriously
And Still Felt Like Doing Whatever Shit
Cuz She Don't Care Bout Ur Feelings
Because ALL girls will cheat if given the right situation.
Just break up with her. This isn’t worth all the effort it’s taking.
If you're on a break, it's not cheating.
She wanted to get fucked!
You were on a break. It wasn't cheating.
When the cat's away, the mice can act like rats.
you were on a breakkkk!!!
A break is a breakup
Duh... what else do you think happens on a break?
If you were on break, she did not cheat
If u had a break she didn’t cheat
Why do you think she wanted a break?
What all did she do?
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