Does this mean I’m other words he does not want to be with me?

[xolaurenxx]

I’m seeing a man, and he said I don’t want a relationship maybe in the future it wil work maybe it won’t but for now it’s not what I want and that he can sleep around with other women. He said he wants it to work in the future but for now he just can’t see it working with us and that it’s not what he wants but one day he wants us to go on holiday etc. I know he’s sleeping with someone else. Is this just a indicator he does not want me anymore, do I just let him go?

Updates

11 mo

I messaged him saying I get he dosent want a relationship and maybe it will work in the future but I get it won’t for now and he said he loves me so I don’t understand?

[8UniquelyBoring8]

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. It sounds like your partner is not fully committed to the relationship at this time, and that he is also seeing other women. While he has expressed a desire for the relationship to work in the future, his actions do not align with that sentiment.


It's important for you to prioritize your own well-being and happiness in any relationship. If you are uncomfortable with him seeing other women, then it may be time to consider ending the relationship. It's okay to let go of a relationship that is not serving you, even if it's difficult.


You may want to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and expectations for the relationship. If he is not willing to make any changes or compromises, then it may be best to move on. Remember to take care of yourself and seek support from loved ones during this time.

[devilish-cutie]

let him go! What a man says im not for a relationship, im sleeping with other people, trust him! He just wants to keep you as an option for MAYBE one day but also maybe NEVER. You cannot be ok him sleeping with other women so forget about him and dont hurt your feelings more. HE really isn't worth your time, move on!