A guy I was dating for two months decided to end it over what's app after I said I needed to talk to him about him constantly cancelling me last minute and saying he was tired. He blocked me right after so I never even got to end things like adults. He never bothered to reschedule after cancelling. He kept telling me I was pulling faces at him and we barely ever had sex together. The only time I felt he was attracted to me was when I wore lingerie for him. What did he expect me to think? I felt like shit... Our dates were always really nice and we got on grand most of the time. But he would moan and complain a lot and I sat and listened to him. I cooked food for him and brought it into work for him. I lent him my bike when his ankle was sore which I didn't get back until I asked for it. He didn't even ask did I need it as my ankle was very sore as well. All I ever tried to do was be there for him. I organised most of our dates because he was tired most of the time. I'm feeling very mentally drained and suicidal after the way he left things after I was so kind and patient with him... I'm just so fed up of being treated like this. All I asked him was to reschedule when he wasn't feeling up to meeting up but he didn't bother listen to me. And to end it like he did... I don't feel like I deserved to be broken up with like that. I'd really appreciate any help.
Guy ended it over what's app and blocked me. Has anyone ever had it happen to them before and how did they get over it?
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7 mo
I've heard absolutely nothing from him since. How can people be so cruel when I was anything but kind to him.
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A very childish wY to break up but it sounds like he had already moved on to someone else and just hadn't told youbwhichbis why he was always canceling. He was playing his options until he decided to move in with the other girl.
Thank you isn't it! Extremely childish. We could have met on Wednesday and broke up like adults but I think he has control issues and this was his way of taking back control. I think so too. But his housemate/friend of 6 years who is currently fighting with him and planning to move out said he didn't have anyone over only me to his house. It doesn't mean he wasn't staying at this other girls house though. What's worse is his only 5 minutes up the road from me. I felt in my gut he waw breadcrumbing me along until he found someone else. Asshole!
Well, now you are better off without him and can find someone more deserving.
Oh 100%! I was anything but kind and caring towards him. He apparently never realizes how lucky he has it.
Avoid self-blame, Focus on self-care , Reach out for support.
Do you think I did anything wrong? Like I know he needs space and had boundaries too. But to not even bother to talk about it together. He clearly never carer about me at all. He said he wanted to spend more time together and that he was falling for me and then ends it like that. I really don't get how men can be so cruel to women.