So a few months ago back in May me and my ex boyfriend got into a bad argument due to him trying to sleep with my cousin and him lying about it and him trying to come in between me and my cousins relationship as cousins and due to me finding out that he slept with one of my old friends that he knew about because he’s a F* boy and basically every since then his friends would monitor my page or watch my stories and stuff and this one female friend that he has I’ve seen her username in my views multiple times every couple of weeks or every once in a while so I just have a feeling that she’s doing it behind him when in reality it shouldn’t be no issue because me and him are no longer cool and we have each other blocked so I’m not sure why she’s in my views it’s nothing to watch or to go back and say I just think he’s behind this because he still feels a certain type of way about me exposing him
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Why is it that my ex boyfriend female friend keeps popping up on my Instagram due to her watching my stories when don’t follow me?
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Ugh, that's super annoying. Your ex and his friends are being little creeps still stalking your stuff. A few thoughts:
- They're probably just trying to get a rise out of you by letting you know they're watching. Don't give them the satisfaction of knowing it bothers you.
- His friend is probably reporting back to him what you're up to. Pretty lame they've got nothing better to do.
- Maybe you could block her? Or change your privacy settings so only friends can see your stories. Deprive them of their lurking material.
- Or, my preference - don't even acknowledge them. Act like you don't care at ALL what they're doing. Live your best life and don't give them another thought.
- Bringing up their loser behavior to your ex will only start more drama. Not worth your energy dude.
Just do you and move on - that'll piss them off way more than any confrontation ever could! Karma will catch up to them eventually for being creeps. Stop letting them live rent free in your head.
those instagram feeds are usually company bots, deciding and our technology still sucks.