I thought I moved on from ldr, should I answer her?

[Cocochoh]

This is the final chapter of moving on. I deleted and blocked her on every social media besides wechat. I forgot I had that.🤦‍♂️ I only unfriend her but now i was about to delete my account but then I saw her invite with message that says " it's me ( her real name) I want to ask you a question.

What did she do? She wanted be friends but act like we was more. Then other times I'm not her priority. Our conversation are one sided, we bond on her terms, lastly she act too quickly before thinking so she fucks up a lot. Example: on Christmas she got mad at me for not attending her live dance show. I warned her a week ago I'd be partying with friends and family. Next day she going post how this guy who wished her merry Christmas and how she received virtual gifts from him, and say fir being there fir her and etc. She later admits that I hurt her and she was trying to piss me off. Only known her for 3 months. This just 1/7 things that made me move on.

How I feel about one last short conversation? Though my heart is racing, got this uneasy feeling like a knot in my stomach ( same feeling you get when you find out someone is cheating on you: note not saying she did that) but I'm also ready to move on.

My idea: hear her question. Answer it. No back and forth. Just answer it then delete my wechat account.

What would you all do in my shoes if your trying to move on but is kind if curious? Move on without texting her and dekete the wechat account or just hear her out fir that day and then delete the wechat?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude that whole situation sounds like a headache. I can understand why you wanna move on from that girl, she didn't seem to treat you with much respect if I'm being honest.

My advice would be don't answer her message man. I know the curiosity is killing you, but you said yourself this is the final chapter of moving on. Reopening communication now is just gonna set you back. Trust me, one short convo will almost definitely not satisfy that itch and make you wanna keep talking.

You already came this far deleting her off everything important. Might as well finish the job and get her totally outta your life on WeChat too. Don't give her the chance to mess with your head no more. Once she senses you're listening again, even just once, who knows what kind of drama she'll stir up.

I say delete the account bro, you don't need that anxiety weighing you down. Focus on yourself, your friends and family who really care about you. Soon you won't even think about her anymore! Can't look back now. Just my two cents - you gotta do what's best for your peace of mind.

[HateyouxD]

Hearing her out might make you fall for her again or fall out it's your choice

[Cocochoh]

I'm grounded, I'll hear her out. But it won't be no back and forth. She ask her question. I'll answer it. She say something. I'll read it. Wish her well and then delete!! Also her live show just sent me an invitation. She must not got the hint. Already told her I'm moving on. 🤦‍♂️ I hate it when you treat someone nice but they push you away in fear of being hurt. By pushing me away that's exactly what your doing. Lol. She even texted me before she had a dream I left her. And she told me her last ldr didn't go well either. Guess why she hold back on me. But she sure like me a lot!

[HateyouxD]

Sounds like you got your head on strong

[Anonymous]

You are far too old to be playing these social media games.

[Cocochoh]

So what do you think I should do?