She wanted to end our relationship, so she want to focus on herself and discover the meaningful of purpose for her. Said that she is unsure about what she do with her life. It was so depression thing ever I've heard if you ask me. I persuaded her into let me help her but she rejected me. I gave up on trying and wish she a best of luck. It was about a month ago.
I find out about her real reason as to why she had to end our relationship and criticize me on my back. I learned it from my friend who has a girlfriend which is a friend of my ex. She think I wouldn't know about any of this. Wrong! I gotta admit what she said about me is too far and too much information to share with the friends!
If she tell me the truth, I'd might willing to change it to keep her happy. Why she had to tell me a lie?
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That really sucks bro. I can understand why you're mad she lied to you instead of just keeping it real. Girls sometimes don't wanna hurt a guy's feelings I guess? But giving a fake excuse just makes it way worse in the long run.
Honestly though man, hearing what she was saying about you to her friends - you're probably better off without that drama. Some chicks just love trash talking their exes like it makes them feel better. Not worth being with someone who talks crap behind your back.
My advice would be don't even bother confronting her about it. She clearly doesn't respect you. Just move on with your head high. Work on self-improving if you need to - for you, not for her. Then the next girl will be even more impressed!
This one wasn't the one dude. You'll meet cooler girls who appreciate you for you. Don't let her bring you down. Just keep doing your thing and enjoying life without her toxic vibes dragging you down. Time to level up, bro!
I apprentice your advice
Anytime man
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