I will do my best to explain this without causing confusion.
One of my exes (Chad) and one of my other ex (Harry) are friends. It all started when both exes were jealous of each other. Harry, the guy I dated first (dumped him after he was caught cheating) was jealous when I started dating Chad. After meeting Chad I no longer was hurt by what Harry did. Chad was jealous of Harry because he thought I still was into him. My relationship with Chad lasted for 4 months in reality but we were still together for a year. He wasn't into pursing a relationship with me anymore but stayed in the relationship with me. We officially broke up when I found out he was seeing other woman and attempting to "monkey branch" from me. I dumped him. So after the break up Chad and Harry got together. I don't know whose idea was it but both have thrown in my face that they are friends. My ex Harry has rubbed chad new girlfriend in my face while Chad rubbed his friendship with Harry in my face. It makes no sense for Chad to do it because he has a girlfriend and he didn't wanted to be with me anyway.
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Dude, that whole situation is weird. Here's what I think is happening:
Those guys are probably still insecure about you and threatened by each other, even though they've both moved on. Becoming friends is their weird way of one-upping each other and proving to themselves they don't care about losing you.
Chad probably likes having Harry's "approval" since he was your first boyfriend. And Harry feels good knowing Chad chose him as a friend over you now too. It's like they're in some stupid competition over you even though you dumped them both!
Deep down I bet they're still hung up on proving they're better than the other guy in your eyes. Rubbing their new situations in your face is a pathetic way to try and get under your skin.
Just let those losers be losers together. You dodged bullets with both of them! I'd ignore their desperate attempts to get a rise out of you. You're obviously still living rent free in their heads, so live your best life without them cluttering it up.
Don't waste another thought wondering about those clowns. You're too good for their games.
both r waste of time
move on n never think of em
They’re both petty and not worth your energy.