My exs gfs have hurt me in some truly truly evil ways. I have let two exes back in as friends only to be used again and then toss away again. I got tired of being this, so I did something to make my ex-girlfriend/ex close friends new boyfriend she was in love with dump her over a made-up story. My ex has done far worse to me she was a childhood friend, so all I wanted was my friend back. She came back every year to use me for something, then ghosts me. I finally ask her for a explanation since this has been happening for 3 years now but she threatens to have me arrested 2nd time she's done this. I know she will be back agin soon since she's uses me for relationship advice then leaves once i fix her.
You need to block her and keep her out of your life or she will have you arrested for no good reason. I should know I was falsely accused once and she had the police serve me an ex parte PPO I had to take her to court to attempt to remove and all I could do was slap myself with a civil temporary restraining order and drop out of school. Women have these types of privileges and benefits they can utilize at a whim to ruin a man’s life. If you keep bad women like her around your allowing for your own life to be destroyed. That shit is up to you.
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No, the closest is that I developed my worst drinking habits when I was broken-hearted (my own fault but that's the way I chose to deal with the pain). Nothing malicious or mean-spirited but that become my coping mechanism and form of escapism for a good while (just quit drinking completely last year).
Not turning me into bad person, but I don’t trust people anymore. Im always scared, always insecure and paranoid most of the time. Everytime people approach me or wanna get to know me, My past experience knock my brain and tells me they just the same like my ex. Maybe I already met my soulmate but I let him go because of my past traumatic experiences in relationships. Right person wrong timing, vice versa
no, I don't hate myself
In general, what you did was revenge. It's the worst you can do yourself. It doesn't help you recover from the bad experience but additionally kills part of your heart and soul and taints your emotions. Revenge is a conscious choice.
Also, revenge shows how weak you are... strong responsible people don't hurt others in act of feeling helpless or hurt...
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No, but I can imagine this happening a lot to people. It expains a lot if bad behaviors and traumas also play in there, but it's no excuse for being bad to others. It just passes the issues forward to start the cycle of hurt again.
This is actually really sad. Why don't you just break all contact with her? She's not going to change. And don't let her influence your behavior. Grow from this experience instead of falling with her.
That's a choice, no? Cut them out and go live your life.
A bad person? No I'm a much colder person though. And I don't think that's necessarily a bad thing. You touch a hot stove and you get burned you learn to not touch it again. If a woman I'm with cannot understand that then she really doesn't care about me then now does she.
No, I am not that insecure or petty.
Oh heck yes... one bad relationship turned me into Attila the Hun, I have become a real barbarian! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤷♂️
No, neither did the fact I lost an amazing relationship. Still myself, always will be :D
"Before you seek revenge, first dig two graves". Whine you may not "die" while seeking vengeance, it can become an obsession, a very unhealthy and dangerous obsession.
As soon as the relationship starts going south and there's no way to reverse it, I slam on the brakes and let her out
Not bad person, but bad things…
Never.
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Nope
Sadly yes
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