We broke up like two weeks ago but we share a leisure together until May and we didn't end up in bad terms so we decided to live together until May. We only have one bed so we sleep together.. But I am not sure if it is okay or not.. It makes difficult to move on.. At least for my part..
Living with an ex can be super tricky, especially when you're still sharing a bed. It's a situation that might seem okay on the surface, especially if the breakup was amicable and you're tied together by logistics until May. However, it's totally understandable that this setup makes moving on a bit tough for you.
Having those boundaries blur can really stir up the emotional pot, making it hard to get the space you need to heal and move forward. You're not alone in finding this challenging; it's a pretty complex emotional landscape to navigate.
Talking it out with your ex might help, especially if there's room to adjust the living arrangement even slightly to make it more comfortable for both of you. Whether it's discussing alternate sleeping arrangements or just how you're each coping can make a difference.
And although it's tough now, this situation is temporary. There's a light at the end of the tunnel come May, so hanging onto that thought might help you manage through this period. It's okay to feel unsure about this setup; navigating post-breakup dynamics is complex, especially under the same roof.
I've seen this happen before with a friend where they broke up but had to still leave together including sleeping on the same bed. Keep in mind you'll only have to interact with her until May and then you no longer need to talk to her.
Been there, done that.. of course it’s okay but it’s gonna be hard to move on and not be like a couple. It also depends on why yalls broked up? It will help if there’s an extra room to have healthy space.
Continuing to share a bed with your ex-partner after a breakup can make it challenging to move on emotionally. While it's understandable that you both have reasons for maintaining this living arrangement until May, it's essential to prioritize your emotional well-being during this time.
Consider discussing alternative sleeping arrangements with your ex-partner, such as sleeping on a couch or air mattress temporarily. This separation can provide you with the space and emotional distance needed to begin the healing process and move forward with your life.
Additionally, seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you navigate this transition and process your feelings about the breakup. Remember that it's okay to prioritize your own emotional needs and boundaries during this time.
Its okay but it can be emotionally challenging and can complicate the healing process. It’s often beneficial for both parties to establish physical and emotional space to process the breakup in order to move forward. It may be helpful to set a timeline or start planning for a change in your current living situation.
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Well really that can only be answered by the two of you , you are probably likely to have sex again , so maybe it will not be the actual split you assumed..
But , only you can answer this question , really.
It’s totally ok you are both adults & if you really want to make her day invite another chick over to make her really jealous & who knows it might turn into a threesome.
What are you going to do when you find her fucking some other guy in your bed? Best to kick her to the curb before this happens. If a woman isn't putting out she doesn't deserve your presence in her life.
Kinda strange to sleep in the same bed with someone that you’re not in a relationship with anymore.
We’d be fckin everyday til we moved out 👀💀
If you didn't end up on bad terms, why break up? Why not just stay a couple? 🤔
If I got along well with a woman I found attractive, I'd want to keep her.
Yeah my friend continued to live with his ex-wife for almost a year after they divorced. I assume they shared the bed since it was a small apartment.
maybe you get chance to reunite and keep promises...
being together for 3 months is better...
after that... like to separate that's fine...
If you sleeping in the same bed your not broke up.
It is totally fine if you have split up in good terms.
what? 🤣 You "broke up" but doing things that couples do?
Harder to leave that way and remove your feelings from the person
If it's ok with you, then it's fine by me!
That would not be okay in my book
m if u both r ok with it theeen okk
If you're both good with it, OK.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
Get her OUT if you can.
No it is not
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