I can't ever forgive infidelity but is it too late to start over at age 42? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

He cheated because his relationship with you sucked. Deep down you know this.

[poshspice123]

This is not good advice to a person who is so hurt. Pls refrain from such things

[poshspice123]

You can’t understand how painful it is for her

[Opinion Owner]

@poshspice123 She drove him into the arms of another woman.

[Asker]

Well I refuse to take any assumed liability for his infidelity. The time he decided to have an affair for nearly 8 freaking months meanwhile coming with a smile on my face, lying about getting a promotion at work, giving me more gifts than usual (just to cover up for his affair, nothing genuine in the gifts) and lie to my face and our sons was all his decision. Nobody held him at gunpoint and told him to cheat, NO ONE.
If he was so unhappy with our marriage, I had the rights to know about it and we could've worked things out. The moment he decided to run off into another woman's arms, that's the point he gave up on our marriage, on our lives, on our family, on us and didn't care about anyone but himself, his own selfish needs. 100% blame on him for the divorce. I assume exactly 0% liability.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker... Your above post tells me exactly why he had an affair. You are insufferable, entitled, and a miserable person. By divorcing him you will be setting him free.

[poshspice123]

Asker- just ignore these people. You are amazing!

[Opinion Owner]

@poshspice123 If she was amazing she would have been a good wife.

[Asker]

@poshspice123
Yes I don't have to listen to these people. I'm willing to he would sing a different tune if he was the one that got cheated on.

[Anonymous]

No never too late