No contact in 3 days, do I move on???

[Missredd]

My boyfriend and I got into an argument on Wednesday and I tried to patch things up as I always do even though this situation was not my fault at all. He never responded to my text of coming over to talk and we haven't spoken. I can't continue to chase him especially when I did nothing wrong. I don't understand how you can say you love someone but turn around and walk away so easily. I'm not sure where we stand if at all. We haven't talked in 3 days and I don't know what to do or think. Any suggestions?

[Marcos19701]

Most men, myself included, hate conflict and the headaches of dealing with it. That said, a relationship is important and communication is key so you have to deal with the issues as they come up. My suggestion would be one last text telling him that if he doesn't feel he can make the effort to talk through your problems then you'll assume he is no longer interested and won't initiate contact again. And then stick to that!

[Missredd]

That's the thing, I don't think I can. I always give in and call him and text and email when he's done wrong. I'm hurt and worn out, I would like if he would come to me and make this right, if he doesn't ill know how he really felt all along. I sent a text Wednesday morning asking him to come over and talk with me. He didn't respond and he didn't show up.

[Marcos19701]

Its because he knows he can string you along like this that he keeps doing it. Be strong for the sake of your own sanity. If you can get him to start talking then your relationship has one. If not then you'd have saved yourself a lot of hurt down the road. But for now you've got to be strong and show that you won't be pushed around.

[Missredd]

I agree, thanks!

[Marcos19701]

You're welcome and thanks for your advice too.

[twice-shy]

He don't love you. He most likely don't know how to love someone. I would feel so empty, I could not help but make contact. I suggest you move on and hopefully you will experience what it is like to be truly loved. I think it would be a good time to text him and say; "I'm done PERIOD" and never reply to anything he texts again. Not even if he says; "I'm Sorry...etc."

[Missredd]

That's the thing, I ALWAYS do the contacting when he's angry. I feel like it is over between he and I already. I just don't get how you could go this long and not miss me or wanna talk to me or anything. I definitely feel empty cause I still love him but its obvious he doesn't feel the same way.

[twice-shy]

I'm sorry for your pain. And yes, I would miss someone I love if no contact was made between us for more than a day.

[confused415]

I'm sorry to hear about your relationship. I recently went through a simliar situation. It is hard to face what is happened but I guess that is life. I think if you whole heartedly feel that you have done everything you could then it is time to move on. There is no point is chasing someone who doesn't want to be chased. I wish you the best of luck!

[cavmanier]

It sounds like a reason to move on. Sounds like he has anger issues.

[Missredd]

Yeah whenever he does something and I call him on it, he gets pissed and pulls away. I'm ALWAYS the one patching it up, but not this time, I can't. If he loved me, he would try to make it work, in my opinion...

[cavmanier]

it's not fun to be treated that way.

[kobra]

Coming from a guys perspective... If he ever tries to get into contact with you. COMPLETELY ignore him.

Unless he had a legitimat reason to not reply