In 2011, my ex boyfriend did something to break my heart and so I was angry/upset etc. I decided to move on with a guy who is a long distance new bf.
The thing that I moved on with the new boyfriend broke my ex boyfriend heart. Even tho he begged/cried etc, I couldn't take him back because I couldn't forget how he hurt me.
In my long distance relationship, however, I never stop missing my ex boyfriend and I still cry for him. Even until today...
I finally broke up with my LDR boyfriend because I know I couldn't lie to myself anymore that I am still in love with my ex.
I did many things hoping to get back with my ex. But my ex told me he doesn't want a relationship anymore. He said he loved me very much and the past memories hurt etc. He wants go have a simple and happy life. And he said we hurt each other too much and the fact that I moved on with the LDR guy (his frd) had broke his trust in me.
I saw him few days ago... He smiled a lot when he saw me and I gave him my last handmade gift to him..But he said he doesn't want to see me like this and he believes I will live better without him...(becoz he knew he hurted me a lot and we don't actually match with each other...)
What should I do? I really love him so much...and it hurts every day that he is not my boyfriend anymore. I only know if we go back tgt, I have faith and determination to work it out eventually.
is it possible that we maybe back tgt in the future...not now tho...
I did not deny
but it happened because my ex knew clearly how he broke my heart at that time
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You have to accept it's over. You basically left him for another man & once you did that all chances are gone. Even if in your mind that was not the case, in his it is.& no guy will go back to a woman once made an option. Separate yourself from him & move on, only thing you can do. Or torture yourself while trying to hang on to something that's not going to happen.0