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So, thanks for putting your opinion out there... I can see truth in a lot of what you're saying. But this reads as heavily stereotyped and biased.
I'll admit, I was kind of avoiding this one at first buy it turns out this is very insightful. Nice.
But*
thank you for the honesty and for the support
Slightly stereotypical but I can see how dating cougars would be easier. They are more likely to know what they want, be mature, emotional intelligent and straight forward.
Cougars are not at appealing to me. But I see nothing wrong with older women
and younger men. It's not my cup of tea, but who am I to judge? I rather prefer
younger women for a variety of reasons. A woman over 35 will not get a second look from me. I don't apologize for it. Wonder how long it'll be before the femni Nazis break out the flaying knives? Bring it on !
lol what reasons?
The reason is that most Cougars that I know are self centered, tired ass old bitches
who are feminists and want to denigrate anything men do or say. Frankly, I'm not
into older women. I was when I was younger and it was cool. After 40, it wasn't cool to me.
Usually men. if they're normal will seek younger women. That is the chemical imperative.
I have no problem with age differences in relationships as long as both parties are consenting
and of legal age. For me it's young and pretty or I'll be by myself. And I don't
care what people think about it.
i respect it
Thank you. Most people, notably women bash me for it. I'm a big boy, I can take it.
You're 64, cripes a cougar would be 80 haha
I'm 46, and a man I work with is 31. I noticed he started flirting with me earlier this year. Honestly, I was surprised. He couldn't be sweeter. He's such a gentleman around me. But I can tell he's a little shy too. Maybe he's intimidated? I don't know. Sometimes when we work together there's an awkwardness. Yet I catch him staring whenever he's around. Nothing has happened... but when he's around his smile brightens up my day.
By 31 a Guy is way more grown up than the 20s. Go for it!
Cougars man. I always feel so dirty for indulging them, and not in a good way. Yet their enthusiasm is always too much of a turn on not to wanna mess around with them a little.
i find the dirty feeling is more in the initial talking with her... like do I really want to do this? afterwards i feel pretty refreshed and ready to move on with the day.
I'm only 25 and I've got men calling me a cougar. Kind of offensive in a way but in a way makes me feel a little powerful haha. I have been getting hit on a lot by 18 - 20 year olds and I find it odd but only because they seem so young to me and I guess that doesn't turn me on personally.
You're real good at generalising. Not everybody of the same age is the same. So this doesn't make any sense.
You're not a special snowflake.
They all want tall, ripped and high status. All women have the same fucking instincts so this topic is pointless.
Hell even every god damn gag girl admits to only liking tall ripped guys. Same fucking thing all over the world. No point in even looking at women because they'll only reject you.
Instead of bitching, why don't you just date men from now on?
I've dated older and younger women. What I always find is that the age difference doesn't matter that much; it's about the compatibility and the connection.
Lol this was extremely stereotypical but I'm sure there's a grain of truth behind all of it.
That first sentence confused the fuck outta me. I've read it multiple times and still can't understand it.
Dudes actually think about their moms when fucking a older woman?
They do and somehow that's still hot? Lol.. 😂😂
Apparently if they're Pavlove they do...
A lot of hoopla over nothing. It's very simple. If a cougar just wants to get laid and you are a hot young guy, she will take you. Then again, the same thing applies to pretty much anyone of both genders.
I NEVER knew why younger guys liked older women. So thanks for explain it. I honestly find it weird but to each its own.
Nothing at all upsetting with it, I fully encourage it, but unfortunately I believe that if you prefer older women to younger, looks wise, you're biologically confused.
elaborate
Heterosexual men are generally more attracted to youthful appearances.
Look up neoteny.
If you look at it from a purely physical view, guys often enjoy big eyes, smooth skin, petite statures, small jaw, dark limbal ring, lack of hair. All youthful traits, because biologically, younger girls make better babies.
Even if you like older ladies, generally you like older ladies that still look young.
Of course this is just the average, and human sexuality is more than just biology and looks, but hey it's a scientific average so this guy isn't wrong.
Elaborate on what, the biologically confused bit? What kalibie said.
So, I have always wondered what we call older men that date younger women?
Vultures, sickos, studly man of my dreams? Is there a term for them?
In prison they are called Chomos , pronounced CHO-MOE
It's called
'Cradle-Snatching' - present participle verb
'Cradle-Snatcher' - noun
Basically meaning that you take children out of their parent's hands 😂
Sugar Daddy if money applies to it. Not sure if a woman dates a broke older Guy.
I love it. Guys are attracted to mature personalities in the same way women are. It's a two-way street; women aren't the only ones exploiting it.
Cougars are first choice,,,, at least for those who are after sex
Since I'm 20, I obviously don't want a younger guy. But if I'm in my 40s+ and still single, I'd date anyone of legal age. Preferably around my age, but never say never.
Reading your post, I wonder if this a wet dream lol
oh yeah, that's why i had one about you last night, old woman.
Mmkay dorky boy... Keep dreaming