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That's funny, I would not date anyone from the USA because you guys pay too much attention to "that type of stuff".
Who someone is dating and who someone is willing to date are two different things. Just because you don't have the opportunity to steal doesn't mean you wouldn't if given the chance.
It's no excuse.
are you just talking randomly into the air to anyone or to me specifically, because... my closing statement.
I'm saying sure we can't change what people are but why should we change how people think too? If I think something is racist then you can't change that.
where is this coming from? Did you read my take? Are you just making your own assumptions about something you didn't read or understand fully?
I mostly read your first example and your last paragraph.
Actually I skimmed through the rest but read the first one and the last paragraph.
try not to make knee jerk reactionary comments if you haven't read someone's full take, which clearly you didn't. I mean, there is no where in this that I said you couldn't/shouldn't call someone racist. Even if like you said you did, read the last closing statements, you should have come away with that.
It's not kneejerk. I can post my own view on racism and dating if I want. I read the last closing statements twice now and it still seems my response is logical.
Okay (backs away slowly). You say and do what you want, but accusing someone of being racist who has never exhibited any animosity towards other races, but simply dates inside their own race is hardly someone I'd be out calling a racist (if you are solely basing it off my first example). I mean literally what have they done to you to show you that they would be a racist. No one has to date anyone they don't want to. But clearly, you've made up whatever mind you've made up, so I'll leave it at that. I'm not trying to internet battle you over something that is not even a battle.
Nobody has to date anyone they don't want to date. If someone says "I hate other races other than my own and will only date people within my race" then they can. They can still date people within their own race. There's nothing you or I can do about it. If they want to do that they will. That's their choice. Their decision.
If I say no matter what the reason is if people wouldn't even consider dating someone of another race if given the perfect opportunity then they are racist to me then that's my choice to say that. That's my decision to say that. I can say that and believe that and there's nothing you or anybody can do about it.
So yes. We'll end it at that.
Again, say and believe what you want. I'm not trying to stop you, but you confronting someone you believe to be racist and saying they are racist is also in turn not going to make them start dating another race anymore than its going to stop you from calling them a racist b/c as I've said, you nor I can force someone to date outside their race if they dont' want to. That's exactly what I've said and its 100% true.
Believe what you want, but you confronting me or anyone who thinks someone shouldn't call someone a racist isn't going to change their views on who is or isn't racist just like it's not going to change if someone dates or doesn't date outside their race.
The point though is that people can speak their mind and believe what they want to believe. I stated my view. You seemed to got defensive about it.
No, actually I wondered if you had read mytake. You didn't fully and had an opinion which didn't seem to match up with what I said (Filler). Again, do what you want, say what you want, believe what you want. Hope that works for you. Have a good one.
It's been working. I just asked a question about how men allow themselves to be used by women in many cases. Maybe that's a bit off topic, but it's relevant because I've noticed I'm rather strong willed in my beliefs and wouldn't wavier just for the sake of getting laid. I've met many people with the same view on interracial dating.
Im African American and I actually prefer white guys I've had crushes/dates with black guys my whole life but lately I've noticed white guys seem to only catch my eye these days.. I'm not racist to my own ethnicity though.. just rather be with a white guy
I don't not date outside my race but after dating the colours of the rainbow from stout pale ale I do admit that I've come to be biased towards one race
Lol I'm the opposite.
I'm tired of White girls
same. they miss what eastern girls have... what their familys put in them... this warm humble loving heart that respects and is also very intelligent at the same time...
feminism ruined western white women in my opinion. many are undateable and aren't loyal.
yes they are. very entitled and theyre so thin skinned they get offended at everything. Asian girls are valued above or same level as white girls where i come from. arabs are beautiful and often very curvy... hot. also theyre actually caucasion as well.
@SYCONSULTING Oh wow a fellow Canadian :)
Well I'm in university and there has been a recent influx of Arabs. Damn Arab girls have great bodies.
oh nice man. arabs... you from toronto? lol very multi cultural there
anyway, yah they have bodies id just wanna ravage over and over.
@SYCONSULTING Yes I am
HBU
I'm not white. Come and get it.
@diamondhair Asian?
Mixed Arab and Pakistani, sorry to let you down there!
@diamondhair Oh you didn't let me down. I have many preferences.
I like Arab girls ;)
It all depends on the skin tone though. If it's too dark than I lose interest.
Its not racist to have a preference, but sometimes you just have to be more open minded to trying different things. Personally, I dont date my race (or "races" since im mixed).
I'm not surprised about Alabama, Mississippi, Tennessee, Louisiana, and Arkansas. Being the ones with the lowest % in this case.
Am I the only one who figured that the 2 girl examples are the open minded ones and the two guys are in the questionable territory?
Like I told someone else, it doesn't matter if I switched names, races, locations, story lines, someone was going to be pissed off about it. You can't please everyone. Fact of life.
then my case would be like the first one, being indian and seeing only indian girls around me all my life, south Asian girls automatically become more attractive to me
You are a first as most Indian guys prefer white women!
@candyaurora, talking to the chaps here the only reason most of them (of course not all) is hollywood makes them believe they are easy sluts, shite attitude but yeah, but clearly south Asian girls are more attractive and being a society which looks down upon promiscuity, you can trust them more (though there are some "hoes" here too, they are just very discreet about it)
I will never date outside of my race. It is ugly and unnatural and produces ugly kids, offsprings of miscegenation. I stick to my people as nature expects from us. What I find beautiful doesn't exist outside of my race.
I haven't dated outside my race, but that's not by choice. There are other ethnicity that I find attractive like Indian women or Colombians. Most people aren't gonna go out and try to find a person of every race to date in order to not seem racist.
I don't date outside of my race either and there isn't anything wrong with that. I do see girls that are attractive that aren't in my race but I don't date any.
I have never understood this preference of skin tone and race tbh. I personally see beauty in ever race and colour! But yes everyone has their preferences!
I come from a pretty mixed-race environment. I've rarely seen black women with anyone but a black man. I've rarely seen middle-class-or-above white women with anything but a white man. It is what it is, ain't what it ain't.
Why is that statement such a big deal? I don't date outside my race. Don't I have a choice? Don't I have a preference? Isn't my business?
I wouldn't to be honest, and I see nothing wrong with that preference
For me it is "I don't date outside of my preferences" and some races/ethnicities I find less appealing than the others.
Simple as that.
I don't force people I like to date me. I'm black but If I like a Asian guy and he does not like Me back, that does not mean that I do not date outside of my race. Regardless of race of a man I do not chase men
I am mixed race so I get more options when dating "inside my race."
Strangely enough though I only date my own races. I don't find other races very attractive.
So far I've only had sex with a member of another race. I have dated more native girls than white girls too.