The problem is it seems paradoxical. I would personally pay for a date and also do that to indicate to a female friend I like her.
But then some women seem to act innocent and less sexual around guys who act chivalrous and who text them sweet things or display any form of long termness about them. E. g. long term friend or boyfriend material. It seems ridiculous that you almost get punished for being a good person.
Yet a brash friend or rowdy guy will have her being sexual quickly as if sex is cheap?
If you EXPECT me to pay for you on the first date, I'll laugh, spit on your feet and walk out the door. I don't care if you look like 18-year old Pamela Anderson - if you expect me to pay, you must have an extraordinarily shitty personality. If you want to be treated like an emancipated woman, act like one. You've got a job, you've got money, pay your own shit.
This one I can related to: Taking hours to reply with one word, or simply, replying with one word, both irritate me.
I prefer messaging a man who can hold a conversation. After all, when we don't see each other, texting and calling would be the only way to communicate, and if these indirect modes of communication are not maintained well, even if I see him, I won't feel connected.
A guy's inability to hold a daily conversation has been a big turn-off for me for some reason (not talking about intellectual or scholarly or scientific conversation yet). Or always texting "What's up?" And then nothing else follows after I reply, or "What you up to?" at the most but nothing else, and always the same.
more like Women, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You. your soo conceited, and most of these reasons is why guys dont keep the girl, guys want to be themselves with a girl, not be controlled and expected to be someone they are not.
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Hmm conceited? I dont know about you, but i've been in a very happy relationship for the past 7 years with the man that I love- and we are very happy and engaged. He doesn't mind doing these things, difference between a man and a boy. A boy complains, a man takes pride in taking care of his woman and treating her right.
7 years and you didn't get married sooner, you dont seem happy to me. perhaps the pride is the problem because conceited and pride are traits of arrogance. so what about the woman? do you treat him right and take care of him? or do you just sit around expect him to do everything and use him and call it love, like a lot of stuck-up snob women do because they think guys are for personal gain.
cut the shit, "men this is why we don't want to date you" coming from a girl that's about to get married, and been dating the same guy for 7 years? my guess is you're not happy, and you're cheating on him.
I'll pay on the first date, but if the girl doesn't offer to split, it will probably be he last day. Because you are right, it does set the tone. If you are going to lay there and do nothing it pretty much speaks to the rest of the relationship, including the bedroom
The truth of the matter is we don't really want to date you either. We basically just want sex and dating is another hoop to jump through to get it. Why do you think sites like Eroticmonkey and Backpage are so popular and prostitution will never go away even after thousands of years of trying? It basically eliminates that hoop/obstacle.
@funny_strange_man they are probably just saying that out of fear of being cut off from the source of it. I know since I did exactly that in my 20's, lied my butt off and told them what they wanted to hear (eventually got tired of the resulting drama when the truth came out). Probably the majority do that.
Sad really that. For all of this people put conditions on love. I can't love you because you are not rich, you want to be near me, you are not badboy enough or, you are too nice etc... Without ever knowing the heart of someone we create fence's drama and all sorts of reasons to not find happiness. We as humans have been trained to make it so difficult so difficult on fact that is also why we do not stay married always searching for the gold when we have a diamond already but do not see this. I am a human with flaws and shortcomings and with a heart that wants to see the best in others even though I don't always let others see the best in me. I believe in love and pray that everyone finds theirs.
"Men, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You" And then "This article is purely based on my personal experience/opinion and those of close female friends of mine."
Nope! I'm out.
Just kidding but right there is your very first mistake: Contradictions.
I've read also the comments and I wanted to thank you for these advices. Even if a lot of people, and also girls, they don't agree with you, it's how you see the subject and I thank you for sharing it.
I guess the likelihood of success is higher if we men pay. So if we really want to have a relationship with this girl, maybe it would be better to make an economic effort the first day. What I say the first day is: "I invite you, and next day you'll invite me".
I don't like to bother other people, so the other points make sense to me.
Agree with all except number 1. I wouldn't want to have a first date where either partner pays, because I'm not particularly rich nor do I like investing in things right off the bat. For I first date I'd do something like a walk in the park or some other free event to get to know you better before actually spending anything.
Doesn't mean I'll change for this, I won't date anyone who thinks they're a gift from God and are entitled to things. I'll do what I feel is necessary in a relationship but won't abide by a rulebook
Most of this stuff isn't a problem but all of them combined it seems pretty petty
I would suggest meeting men who were not so self absorbed and shallow, or too needy. Dating is a dicey game but if you keep finding guys that are like that , then maybe you are just attracting the shallow self absorbed jerks. Oh wait, this is kind of a satire. Still, be choosey. Looks aren't everything, though it helps.
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I've had a girl agree to come over to my place for dinner, had a steak on the grill and lasagna made and ready to go and she never showed. Girls flake so much worse than guys it's not even funny. This must be some kind of joke. Girls leech 100% more of the time than guys based on what I've experienced and heard, so disgusting. Girls, that's why I don't want to date you. Let me see that you're not a total bitch first, then I'll give it a shot
@bobbyxx Yup, exactly. Fuck dating and relationships, I've heard sex is overrated anyways. I'm starting to become more and more apathetic as the days go by.
Sounds like someone who wants to be treated as a princess just because she has a vagina. Please give us one good reason why we should pay on the first date?
Because women are whores... obviously. If a woman makes you exchange money, work, effort and hard time then it's a prostitute. If men only realised women used a different currency then men would be much liberated to just pay hard cash for an escort.
Oh sorry, I meant to say a sexually libertated woman who uses her body, to manipulate, exchange value and get what she demands in terms of fucking her way to top.
Lol calling women out on their bad behaviour and immoral bs does not not equal to me being bitter. The difference between me and these everyday beta manginas is that I won't conform or kneel down to these feminazis or this femcentric society and culture.
Why would I be bitter anyway? I've slept with women so If you think am just one of these virgins like Elliot Rogers then your sadly mistaken, ignorant and no better like the rest of these women who thinks MGTOW is for ugly loser.
No. The reasons should say you are not good looking, you don't have a six pack, you don't have enough money, you don't have a popular status, you don't have tattoos, you don't have a nice car, you are not a bad boy. Says most millennian women. *Drops the mic*
Which is why I struggled in a relationship where the guy literally had a minimum wage job and was homeless? Sorry , but love doesn't put food on the table for the family or give a future to your kids. It's not about being a gold digger it's called being sensible and not taking someone that has no future.
but what you got to understand shit like that takes time and you got to understand that cause for some people it's not all that easy to get money cause there could be reasons why they can't to that level @ Stacyzee
besides if you show that you care more for money than you do for love then men are going to see that you only care for one thing and that's money then let's face it you won't have men cause men are beginning to not put up with that anymore
If a woman wants money she's going to have to go out and get the money herself cause a man ain't going to babysit a woman to giving them the money that the women wants cause us men has responsibility to take for our own life
I dealt with it for ten years and I'm out of a lot of money due to it. People need to stop judging a book by its cover and understand people are the way they are for a reason instead of screaming out gold digger without having any basic knowledge about someones life and what they've been through.
I know I'm not the only one , I didn't say that. It just infuriates me that men claim every woman who sets a standard for herself to be a gold digger. It's ridiculous.
you're a single mom right? dont give dating advice. you fucked a guy that threw you off a balcony. never give anybody advice on dating other then dont listen to anything i say.
well @Stacyzee I try to be I do have a problem with "Mood swings" a lot you know giving that i am a cancer and sometimes it does get the best of me and thanks for giving me a compliment sweetie and you guys need to knock it off by attacking her cause you guys are making yourselves look bad
@dudeman lol. the lack of information u have about my life is sad. wow, men of GAG are literally jerks no wonder a portion of u cannot get laid or pay for std prostitutes.
@CancerianMan91 Yeah, they make themselves look horrible but want to cry like little girls when women choose not to date them. U have a problem with mood swings? that'd make the both of us.. we'd get along fine lol
@colourz Was that the best you could come up with? You have no real argument. You just attack every woman who sets a standard for herself. You want to call all of us gold diggers.. yet you don't even have a dollar to spare. Please, don't flatter yourself.
@colourz "Even virgins can have stds" They're sexually transmitted diseases, we are not speaking about those who are born with it due to it being passed from Mother to fetus. We are speaking about the MOST common cases in which they are transmitted which would be direct intercourse which you do not get.
Nice 2nd grade insults, I used to make jokes like that when I was 7/6.
well depending on how much stress I have built up see I don't know how to release it because I don't want to open up to other people because I don't want to burden them with my pain cause I want to take care of it myself
*which you do not get (have no ability to understand). Anyway, I've wasted my time back and forth speaking with a child. Continue with your jokes, perhaps u'll call me poo poo butt next? Continue. U're ignored and thanks for bringing in the comedy. I needed laughs.
@CancerianMan81 As a heath care worker, it's common that many of my patients feel the way you do. But just know you aren't. It's a blessing for you to even be here. Stay strong <3
Being a prostitute doesn't automatically mean you have an STD, there are different classes of prostitutes. You're just mad your less desirable than they are when it comes down to it
I didn't say it means you have an std... I don't need a link to tell me that the more partners I have the more you are exposing yourself to STDS. It doesn't take a genius to find that out. Anyway, I'm done with you. You're a child with no argument.
I'm a woman that gets hit on by a lot of men daily. I don't have to put a price on my vagina to feel like a prize. It's funny you shame women for setting a standard for themselves and even call them gold diggers, yet you stand here defending women who wouldn't sleep with you if you didn't pay them too. Aren't they gold-diggers? You're a walking contradiction. Pathetic. Goodbye.
You continue to name call like a 2 year old. Its sad you ignored my whole point about contradicting yourself. You literally have nothing to argue about that with that being said. lol.
@dudeman no she's not talking about that she's talking about the fact that you don't know her enough to talk about what she does in her life and she's also talking about the fact that you keep going for the wrong girls
and no wonder you can't get a good girl cause their young you're going for the young girls and those kind of girls are nothing but trouble I know I've dealt with them and anymore I've stopped wanting to date them
@dudeman you just got to look bro there's women out there but for me I wouldn't want to date a young girl their nothing but trouble I'll tell ya i ended dating young fucking girls they get on my damn nerves ugh!!! their attitudes just no I'd rather stay single then have to relive that pain
yeah older girls have more standards but I'd rather have a girl that's been through more than a girl that's just beginning living their lives cause you can tell that they want more out of life and want their boyfriend that they made the right choice in picking the right girlfriend you know that twinkle in her eye
@CancerianMan81 I've dated younger I've dated older and I've noticed no difference other then older women act right because they know their value is down. younger women are just more of everything. more attractive more fun more lovable. sure they can be naive but thats not exactly a bad thing.
women are women old or young they all have emotional spouts. they all use the same failed logic. so it boils down to why would i want to date a women my age if she has less good looking years. sucked more dicks and needs to have kids now not five years from now? ill take a young women any day. older women are fine for being friends simply because i view them as men lol.
young girls are too scatterbrained cause they don't care enough for themselves nor the people around them cause they only care for entitlement and only themselves
@CancerianMan81 more experience in a women is bad. also older women do not treat people better because of their wisdom they treat people better because their youth and beauty is fading fast. im not going to be stuck with a women past her peak whos demands are too high for what i get in return. sure i understand that you are ok with older women but why is that? can you not get younger women. have you been divorced? do you have children?
@CancerianMan81 im not looking for perfect im just looking for the best input to output ratio. when the ratio is no longer acceptable then i dont do it. this goes for anything in life. an older women has an unacceptable input to output ratio.
well because I know the older women cares a lot about the men that are in their life older women want to take things slow cause they want to enjoy their life a lot more
why do you think they have standards because they want whats best for themselves as well for the man that they have in their life and I understand that cause I'm older in age myself
@CancerianMan81 yes i dont care. they wants whats best for them i get it but whats best for me is finding the highest input to output ratio and older women simply can't provide that because they do not have what i value.
listen some women that already have for themselves is the women that can give you more so you don't have to work as hard as much I mean but you got to have as much as well but not to the expectations that's the limit that you have to give more then what you're suppose to do cause some women don't expect that from you
@CancerianMan81 listen i want a family. older women simply can't provide that. id be rushed into a decision with them. older women are fine ill have sex with them and be friends but a relationship is off the table. there is nothing in it for me.
its already worked for me. I've only had three gfs. one broke up because she had a birth defect in her womb and another broke up simply because she was from another country half way around the world and she wanted to go home. ill meet another good girl. i know several right now i just go to pull the trigger. hell on Friday i had four of them in my house cooking me dinner bringing me beers.
@CancerianMan81 damn right its cool. why would i downgrade. my whole dating life changed in my late teens when i started asking myself. whats in it for me and is this a fair return of my investment.
@CancerianMan81 im plenty smart enough. im a chemist. i also was a captain of my football team in high school. i can pretty much have any women i want.
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The problem is it seems paradoxical. I would personally pay for a date and also do that to indicate to a female friend I like her.
But then some women seem to act innocent and less sexual around guys who act chivalrous and who text them sweet things or display any form of long termness about them. E. g. long term friend or boyfriend material. It seems ridiculous that you almost get punished for being a good person.
Yet a brash friend or rowdy guy will have her being sexual quickly as if sex is cheap?
I wrote a take in response to this, can u check it out? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30526-why-are-women-only-sexual-with-guys-who-aren-t-long-term-material
Can u help me out? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a30669-do-women-have-dirtier-sex-with-guys-who-don-t-care-about-them-what
If you EXPECT me to pay for you on the first date, I'll laugh, spit on your feet and walk out the door. I don't care if you look like 18-year old Pamela Anderson - if you expect me to pay, you must have an extraordinarily shitty personality.
If you want to be treated like an emancipated woman, act like one. You've got a job, you've got money, pay your own shit.
And we as women are happy for you to laugh and spit. Byeeeeee...
@Bubbles123X That's okay, there are also decent women out there. In fact, I've already found one. So yes, goodbye.
This one I can related to: Taking hours to reply with one word, or simply, replying with one word, both irritate me.
I prefer messaging a man who can hold a conversation. After all, when we don't see each other, texting and calling would be the only way to communicate, and if these indirect modes of communication are not maintained well, even if I see him, I won't feel connected.
A guy's inability to hold a daily conversation has been a big turn-off for me for some reason (not talking about intellectual or scholarly or scientific conversation yet). Or always texting "What's up?" And then nothing else follows after I reply, or "What you up to?" at the most but nothing else, and always the same.
more like Women, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You. your soo conceited, and most of these reasons is why guys dont keep the girl, guys want to be themselves with a girl, not be controlled and expected to be someone they are not.
Hmm conceited? I dont know about you, but i've been in a very happy relationship for the past 7 years with the man that I love- and we are very happy and engaged. He doesn't mind doing these things, difference between a man and a boy. A boy complains, a man takes pride in taking care of his woman and treating her right.
7 years and you didn't get married sooner, you dont seem happy to me. perhaps the pride is the problem because conceited and pride are traits of arrogance.
so what about the woman? do you treat him right and take care of him? or do you just sit around expect him to do everything and use him and call it love, like a lot of stuck-up snob women do because they think guys are for personal gain.
cut the shit, "men this is why we don't want to date you" coming from a girl that's about to get married, and been dating the same guy for 7 years? my guess is you're not happy, and you're cheating on him.
Honestly, from what you posted, you don't understand men & until such time that you do - DON'T DATE.
I'll pay on the first date, but if the girl doesn't offer to split, it will probably be he last day. Because you are right, it does set the tone. If you are going to lay there and do nothing it pretty much speaks to the rest of the relationship, including the bedroom
The truth of the matter is we don't really want to date you either. We basically just want sex and dating is another hoop to jump through to get it. Why do you think sites like Eroticmonkey and Backpage are so popular and prostitution will never go away even after thousands of years of trying? It basically eliminates that hoop/obstacle.
@fuqthegovt There are a lot of guys who want more than just sex.
@funny_strange_man they are probably just saying that out of fear of being cut off from the source of it. I know since I did exactly that in my 20's, lied my butt off and told them what they wanted to hear (eventually got tired of the resulting drama when the truth came out). Probably the majority do that.
@fuqtheqovt I am one of those guys who actually does want more than just sex
@funny_strange_man then you are a vast minority among males.
Sad really that. For all of this people put conditions on love. I can't love you because you are not rich, you want to be near me, you are not badboy enough or, you are too nice etc... Without ever knowing the heart of someone we create fence's drama and all sorts of reasons to not find happiness. We as humans have been trained to make it so difficult so difficult on fact that is also why we do not stay married always searching for the gold when we have a diamond already but do not see this. I am a human with flaws and shortcomings and with a heart that wants to see the best in others even though I don't always let others see the best in me. I believe in love and pray that everyone finds theirs.
Oh good. I don't really have a problem with any of those. ;)
I have a problem with all of them.
"Men, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You"
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"This article is purely based on my personal experience/opinion and those of close female friends of mine."
Nope! I'm out.
Just kidding but right there is your very first mistake: Contradictions.
I've read also the comments and I wanted to thank you for these advices. Even if a lot of people, and also girls, they don't agree with you, it's how you see the subject and I thank you for sharing it.
I guess the likelihood of success is higher if we men pay. So if we really want to have a relationship with this girl, maybe it would be better to make an economic effort the first day. What I say the first day is: "I invite you, and next day you'll invite me".
I don't like to bother other people, so the other points make sense to me.
First one isn't it.
I do hate the Calls/ Messages one.
Pushy for sex isn't that often and most dudes don't do that
I've seen dudes that are clingy and I've seen ones that barely are
Agree with all except number 1. I wouldn't want to have a first date where either partner pays, because I'm not particularly rich nor do I like investing in things right off the bat. For I first date I'd do something like a walk in the park or some other free event to get to know you better before actually spending anything.
Doesn't mean I'll change for this, I won't date anyone who thinks they're a gift from God and are entitled to things. I'll do what I feel is necessary in a relationship but won't abide by a rulebook
Most of this stuff isn't a problem but all of them combined it seems pretty petty
Everything on this list is pretty accurate except number one for me. Number one is petty af.
True 1 makes your ass get dump in the middle nowhere and you have to walk home by yourself.
I would suggest meeting men who were not so self absorbed and shallow, or too needy. Dating is a dicey game but if you keep finding guys that are like that , then maybe you are just attracting the shallow self absorbed jerks.
Oh wait, this is kind of a satire.
Still, be choosey. Looks aren't everything, though it helps.
I've had a girl agree to come over to my place for dinner, had a steak on the grill and lasagna made and ready to go and she never showed. Girls flake so much worse than guys it's not even funny. This must be some kind of joke. Girls leech 100% more of the time than guys based on what I've experienced and heard, so disgusting. Girls, that's why I don't want to date you. Let me see that you're not a total bitch first, then I'll give it a shot
Women are in general, disgusting.
@bobbyxx Yup, exactly. Fuck dating and relationships, I've heard sex is overrated anyways. I'm starting to become more and more apathetic as the days go by.
Sounds like someone who wants to be treated as a princess just because she has a vagina.
Please give us one good reason why we should pay on the first date?
Because women are whores... obviously. If a woman makes you exchange money, work, effort and hard time then it's a prostitute. If men only realised women used a different currency then men would be much liberated to just pay hard cash for an escort.
@Mrwoo99 Don't ever call women whores!! That is just uneducated stuff that bitter guys say.
Oh sorry, I meant to say a sexually libertated woman who uses her body, to manipulate, exchange value and get what she demands in terms of fucking her way to top.
Tell me what else can a women be besides that...
@Mrwoo99 She could not be with a bitter guy like you for example.
Lol calling women out on their bad behaviour and immoral bs does not not equal to me being bitter. The difference between me and these everyday beta manginas is that I won't conform or kneel down to these feminazis or this femcentric society and culture.
Why would I be bitter anyway? I've slept with women so If you think am just one of these virgins like Elliot Rogers then your sadly mistaken, ignorant and no better like the rest of these women who thinks MGTOW is for ugly loser.
No. The reasons should say you are not good looking, you don't have a six pack, you don't have enough money, you don't have a popular status, you don't have tattoos, you don't have a nice car, you are not a bad boy. Says most millennian women. *Drops the mic*
I've been through all of this and I've got to say I totally free u!
*feel u
Gold digger detected :D
Which is why I struggled in a relationship where the guy literally had a minimum wage job and was homeless? Sorry , but love doesn't put food on the table for the family or give a future to your kids.
It's not about being a gold digger it's called being sensible and not taking someone that has no future.
Absolutely, agree with you. You need a man not a child.
but what you got to understand shit like that takes time and you got to understand that cause for some people it's not all that easy to get money cause there could be reasons why they can't to that level @ Stacyzee
besides some men won't allow you to have personal gain just because you are a woman
besides if you show that you care more for money than you do for love then men are going to see that you only care for one thing and that's money then let's face it you won't have men cause men are beginning to not put up with that anymore
If a woman wants money she's going to have to go out and get the money herself cause a man ain't going to babysit a woman to giving them the money that the women wants cause us men has responsibility to take for our own life
I dealt with it for ten years and I'm out of a lot of money due to it. People need to stop judging a book by its cover and understand people are the way they are for a reason instead of screaming out gold digger without having any basic knowledge about someones life and what they've been through.
I understand sweetie I really do okay you're not the only one that's been through a lot I have also
I know I'm not the only one , I didn't say that. It just infuriates me that men claim every woman who sets a standard for herself to be a gold digger. It's ridiculous.
and if you have been going through a hard time I'm sorry that you have
you can't change men it's not in our DNA to change
<3 Thanks for your empathy.
I am sorry you've been through a lot too.
you're welcome well it's okay it has made me stronger though at least I think it has and thanks for thanks for that I appreciate it
disregard that second thanks
I want to say this and I'm serious when I say this women seriously make me feel like I don't want to love anymore
that's how much pain I've been going through
at last, the succubus exposes herself.
@CancerianMan81
I wish I could show you differently.. that all women aren't the same.
You seem like a very decent guy.
The stupid ones are usually the first to throw out an insult
if you're not a gold digger then probably because you chose to date an asshole and tossed the "doormat" to the curve
you're a single mom right? dont give dating advice. you fucked a guy that threw you off a balcony. never give anybody advice on dating other then dont listen to anything i say.
well @Stacyzee I try to be I do have a problem with "Mood swings" a lot you know giving that i am a cancer and sometimes it does get the best of me and thanks for giving me a compliment sweetie and you guys need to knock it off by attacking her cause you guys are making yourselves look bad
@dudeman lol. the lack of information u have about my life is sad. wow, men of GAG are literally jerks no wonder a portion of u cannot get laid or pay for std prostitutes.
@CancerianMan91 Yeah, they make themselves look horrible but want to cry like little girls when women choose not to date them.
U have a problem with mood swings? that'd make the both of us.. we'd get along fine lol
@CancerianMan81
paying for prostitutes is better than dealing with a headcase like you any day.
#pumpanddump
lol "you couldn't handle me even if i came with instructions" there are no instructions on how to deal with a high demanding succubus.
And people wonder why males have higher suicide rates
@colourz Go get that HIV! Good for u!
i highly doubt understand biology let alone how stds work. Even virgins can have an STD you dunce.
Educate yourself before making stupid comments
You consider yourself a real woman. LMAO im done humouring this donkey
yeah I really do @Stacyzee but really you can handle mood swings I just always thought that's why I couldn't keep a girl was because of my mood swings
@colourz Was that the best you could come up with? You have no real argument. You just attack every woman who sets a standard for herself. You want to call all of us gold diggers.. yet you don't even have a dollar to spare. Please, don't flatter yourself.
HEEEEEEHAAAAAWWWW!
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@CancerianMan81
How severe r ur mood swings?
@colourz "Even virgins can have stds" They're sexually transmitted diseases, we are not speaking about those who are born with it due to it being passed from Mother to fetus.
We are speaking about the MOST common cases in which they are transmitted which would be direct intercourse which you do not get.
Nice 2nd grade insults, I used to make jokes like that when I was 7/6.
well depending on how much stress I have built up see I don't know how to release it because I don't want to open up to other people because I don't want to burden them with my pain cause I want to take care of it myself
*which you do not get (have no ability to understand).
Anyway, I've wasted my time back and forth speaking with a child. Continue with your jokes, perhaps u'll call me poo poo butt next? Continue. U're ignored and thanks for bringing in the comedy. I needed laughs.
and it's not that I don't trust people
@CancerianMan81 As a heath care worker, it's common that many of my patients feel the way you do. But just know you aren't. It's a blessing for you to even be here. Stay strong <3
no freaking way you're a healer
newsroom.ucla.edu/.../decriminalizing-prostitution-linked-to-fewer-stds-and-rapes
Being a prostitute doesn't automatically mean you have an STD, there are different classes of prostitutes. You're just mad your less desirable than they are when it comes down to it
you're*
I didn't say it means you have an std... I don't need a link to tell me that the more partners I have the more you are exposing yourself to STDS. It doesn't take a genius to find that out.
Anyway, I'm done with you. You're a child with no argument.
I'm a woman that gets hit on by a lot of men daily. I don't have to put a price on my vagina to feel like a prize. It's funny you shame women for setting a standard for themselves and even call them gold diggers, yet you stand here defending women who wouldn't sleep with you if you didn't pay them too. Aren't they gold-diggers? You're a walking contradiction. Pathetic. Goodbye.
lol you didn't even bother reading the article. Typical an idiot refusing to accept facts even when they're slapped in their face
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@CancerianMan81 Yes :)
You continue to name call like a 2 year old.
Its sad you ignored my whole point about contradicting yourself.
You literally have nothing to argue about that with that being said. lol.
wow who would thought an empath and a healer would cross paths
the planets must be aligned
Yes, it shows you in life professional or not we can all help each other one way or another. We have the ability to touch others in different ways.
not to freak you out or nothing but I kinda knew that I felt something good about you
No, I am not freaked out :) but that is sweet.
thanks :)
i can get laid. am i wrong about what i said?
lol i date young women because i can. options are good to have. i take the best ones.
@dudeman no she's not talking about that she's talking about the fact that you don't know her enough to talk about what she does in her life and she's also talking about the fact that you keep going for the wrong girls
and no wonder you can't get a good girl cause their young you're going for the young girls and those kind of girls are nothing but trouble I know I've dealt with them and anymore I've stopped wanting to date them
and it's not that we're attacking you're credibility because we're not
you just got to understand that
@CancerianMan81 i dont need to know her personal life. also i the right girls do not exist in great number. its 2016
@CancerianMan81 dating older women is not an option because they need to have kids very soon.
@dudeman you just got to look bro there's women out there but for me I wouldn't want to date a young girl their nothing but trouble I'll tell ya i ended dating young fucking girls they get on my damn nerves ugh!!! their attitudes just no I'd rather stay single then have to relive that pain
yeah older girls have more standards but I'd rather have a girl that's been through more than a girl that's just beginning living their lives cause you can tell that they want more out of life and want their boyfriend that they made the right choice in picking the right girlfriend you know that twinkle in her eye
@CancerianMan81 I've dated younger I've dated older and I've noticed no difference other then older women act right because they know their value is down. younger women are just more of everything. more attractive more fun more lovable. sure they can be naive but thats not exactly a bad thing.
women are women old or young they all have emotional spouts. they all use the same failed logic. so it boils down to why would i want to date a women my age if she has less good looking years. sucked more dicks and needs to have kids now not five years from now? ill take a young women any day. older women are fine for being friends simply because i view them as men lol.
@dudeman but they ain't got their head on straight yet their just starting out where older women are more grounded more experienced you see
young girls are too scatterbrained cause they don't care enough for themselves nor the people around them cause they only care for entitlement and only themselves
you ain't going to get that with an older woman cause they know how to treat themselves and other people as well
because of their experiences in life
but listen men do to we have emotions we make mistakes as well there ain't nobody on this earth that's perfect
@CancerianMan81 more experience in a women is bad. also older women do not treat people better because of their wisdom they treat people better because their youth and beauty is fading fast. im not going to be stuck with a women past her peak whos demands are too high for what i get in return. sure i understand that you are ok with older women but why is that? can you not get younger women. have you been divorced? do you have children?
@CancerianMan81 im not looking for perfect im just looking for the best input to output ratio. when the ratio is no longer acceptable then i dont do it. this goes for anything in life. an older women has an unacceptable input to output ratio.
@dudeman no I can get younger women but I just don't deal with their I'm better than anybody attitude who wants all that melodrama
@CancerianMan81 I've never date a women that had that attitude.
well because I know the older women cares a lot about the men that are in their life older women want to take things slow cause they want to enjoy their life a lot more
@CancerianMan81 nothing about any of that is a selling point to me. i can give a shit what they want. dude this is dating this is about what i want.
why do you think they have standards because they want whats best for themselves as well for the man that they have in their life and I understand that cause I'm older in age myself
@CancerianMan81 yes i dont care. they wants whats best for them i get it but whats best for me is finding the highest input to output ratio and older women simply can't provide that because they do not have what i value.
women work accordingly you got to understand that
@CancerianMan81 i do. which is why i do not date older women because it benefits them more then it does me. i will not be taken advantage of.
listen some women that already have for themselves is the women that can give you more so you don't have to work as hard as much I mean but you got to have as much as well but not to the expectations that's the limit that you have to give more then what you're suppose to do cause some women don't expect that from you
@CancerianMan81 listen i want a family. older women simply can't provide that. id be rushed into a decision with them. older women are fine ill have sex with them and be friends but a relationship is off the table. there is nothing in it for me.
and that's basically what @Stacyzee is saying
well okay buddy if you think that's going to work for then so be it good luck
its already worked for me. I've only had three gfs. one broke up because she had a birth defect in her womb and another broke up simply because she was from another country half way around the world and she wanted to go home. ill meet another good girl. i know several right now i just go to pull the trigger. hell on Friday i had four of them in my house cooking me dinner bringing me beers.
@dudeman yeah that's cool
@CancerianMan81 damn right its cool. why would i downgrade. my whole dating life changed in my late teens when i started asking myself. whats in it for me and is this a fair return of my investment.
@dudeman well it depends on what you're giving to the relationship
@CancerianMan81 like i said older women im will to give sex and friendship but not commitment.
@dudeman me I couldn't do that I care to much for my life and the woman I love cause i want me and her to be happy
once a woman see's that she won't hesitate to want to be with me she'll just go right in for the kill
especially older women they love that mushy stuff
they love a man that is mature
all women try to say that they don't care for a man that is pretty knowledgeable that's a lie
women want a man that is that way cause they want that to work in their favor if you ain't smart enough they don't want ya
@CancerianMan81 im plenty smart enough. im a chemist. i also was a captain of my football team in high school. i can pretty much have any women i want.
@dudeman hell yeah