Men, This is Why We Don't Want to Date You (Page 4)
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No, If YOU can't invest your own damn half on the first date, then don't bother investing in the relationship. You aren't worth more than the guy you go out with.
I believe that guys should spend as much money as possible on a woman every chance we get, regardless of whether we think we're going to have sex with her or not.
JFK once said, 'Ask not what your country can do for you, ask what you can do for your country'. I think guys should ask themselves the same thing, and focus on what pleases the female.
Omfg the one about texts! Same to you! And then you say too clingy, but not clingy enough? For fucks sakes! Every thing on this list can be reversed! I clicked on this take thinking it would help me, and came to see more shit that only makes me feel worse, it should be called "my opinion, this isn't meant to help anybody"
I have not really done any of those. And yet, poof, no dates. I am generally interested and invested in those that i do try to get dates from. However, I run into a mess of problems that always end in myself never passing that threshold. One major problem is that women in relationships tend to talk to me more. Another is that most of the ladies that are not in relationships don't want to be with a man like me, I am less of a talker and more of a thinker.
You seem to detest compromises.
Those are indeed happening in the real world but I think those wouldn't be problems if two lovers would resolve all of them maturely.
Also, why use the pronoun "we" in your title when the readers would be seeing "me" and "my" on your second point later on?
I only object to paying for the first date in full if she took the biscuit with what she ordered. I've only been pushy for sex if it's been a while and it's going nowhere. Sex helps people bond when in the early stages of a relationship, which girls often miss. I don't fall into the other three traps you've identified.
Do you realize how terrible you sound when you say that men should pay?
By that logic you should always have sex when we push for it unless we insist on waiting for it
Women only want equal rights when it benefits them *sigh*
good thing then, that i stay away from girls like you. I don't actually care.
And for guys out there... women are just not worth it anymore... you will notice more and more of these takes from single women on Gag trying to get men to behave like the past. You women still don't get it... you screwed us with feminism and not we are screwing you girls in relationships... it goes both ways. I date women like a gentleman... they fall for it... get sex... and then dump them... no girl is worth it...
I'm sorry that you don't believe in finding love with the right woman anymore. I agree though... Women EXPECT men to do all these things, but they never give to begin with. 🌹
#GoldenWing I honestly wan'st expecting a response like that. Thank you, i'm sorry too. I would like to find a girl, but i feel frustrated with my previous gf's. Thank you for understanding tho
Every now and then I read something that reminds me of why it has been over a year since my last date. Hopefully someone will post something just as repulsive next year to keep me on track. Thanks!
Hahahahaha awesome post!
Nothing repulsive about this list. Everything she listed is actually pretty accurate expect for number one. Don't see why the rest is so difficult to do. Lmao.
@99percentangel the first one is enough to invalidate the whole take, despite the others being valid points.
@TheWaterBear No, no not really. The first thing may be up for interpretation, but everything else is completely accurate.
@99percentangel up for interpretation? It's straight up gold digging.
@TheWaterBear that's what I think too
@99percentangel @TheWaterBear Of course one could be too much or too little of anything, and what does "forever" mean?
Imagine a man posting those things about women, perhaps substituting "too hesitant to have sex" for "too pushy."
Annoyed yet?
Nope. I'd be totally fine with a guy making a guy version of this. People be making a big deal out of nothing. A girl being hesitant to have sex would probably be a deal breaker for a lot of guys and I already know that. I won't date someone who couldn't handle me not wanting to have sex, but I also won't get mad just because of their preferences. Don't be butthurt just because someones pov.
@99percentangel I am ok. :) It just reminds me why I am not dating. Men and women have different pov's. This business of "don't be too much of X or too little of X" reminds men that when they are out with women, they have to walk a tightrope.
why should i invest anything if the other party is not investing anything? seems like lousy investment to me.
Yeah, because a $7 for two cups of coffee is such an investment.
@cheeseysouffle That's not the point. She talks about the man investing in the date, what is she investing in return? And if it's only a small investment like $7, why such a big deal about investing anyway?
@AdamThomas her investment comes in later down the line.
@cheeseysouffle How? And what if she turns out to be an asshole? Then he invested for nothing and got nothing in return...
@cheeseysouffle i dont have a guarantee that that is going to be the case. how about we split the bill and so i dont have to feel like your dad giving you allowance money for food and drinks.
@cheeseysouffle really? $7 for 2 cups of coffee? this is why i think women are morons... do you think its only one? $7 for 2 cups of coffee for you, yea, thats cool, but a single guy looking for a relationship may have to do that for 30 different "ignant" females... now what $7 times 30?
now talk to me about bad investments... as for this take writer... this one is another moron. Search for my opinion because im going to say so.
I will never pay for the first date. Why should I pay? is it because your time is more valuable than mine?
"single"
@Afrochick I rather be single than with someone who thinks their time is more valuable.
ahahah xD
@Afrochick what is so funny?
LOL take a joke buddy
It is never that serious
5 things that tell whether you've dated a dumb girl.
If you hear these kind of whinings from gals, just run away from them. No amount of time worths that less to bother with them.
Especcially the first thing bugs me, for what reason I'm obligated to insist in order to pay? Not that I'm shying away from it, but I get severely irritated when some woman just expects me to pay automatically.
This is one of the reasons why 'we' dissapear.
That is a little much! Guess I'm old fashion. Cause I'll pay for the date no problem! And even though I may want to have sex with you I will put it off a couple of dates anyway. But I must say, sorry if my desire shows! It happens us know!! And not unless I've had a bad for ya for a while! I won't do labs like that. Now I've been guilty before if I've had the hots for a girl for a while!!!
Ohh god not this fucking shit again 😂 Get off the internet and go make some friends, you fucking feminazi
>"You Take Forever to Respond to Calls/ Messages or Respond With 1 Word Answers!"
That's because girls get flooded with so many messages that they ignore the content and only pay attention if the guy is hot. The slime balls you date know this and won't invest a lot of time messaging because of it. Quantity gets more results than quality in this scenario.
Not all girls think like you not all girls care if the guy pays on the first date. Don't speak on every gal's behalf. Plus I find it funny how you won't want to date a guy for being too clingy yet most women are clingy themselves talk about the black pot calling the kettle black.
I never usually minded paying for a girl when I was dating. One thing that was very off-putting though was when it was clear that a girl expected me to pay and felt entitled to my money, a guy she just met. Girls talk about male entitlement a lot, this is the female side. So I'd always offer to pay, but if she didn't even pretend to say "no you don't have to do that, we'll split it", that would be the last date.
I agree with what the guys are saying. This is bullshit.
Note to women: When we act in the 'correct' fashion, we're just being professional, and it isn't the real us. Like another guy said, we just want mutuality. We hope that the relationship will settle to a point where you understand us and vice versa.
If we start 'giving back to the relationship' then it's most likely a thank you for letting us be with you, get to know you more, and all that other stuff.
Just being frank here.
Pay for the first date? I bet OP uses men for food.
At the end of the day women are manipulative and decide whether they'll sleep with you within the first 10 minutes of interaction, after that all hope is lost or you're good to go. But you'll never know because some will string you along.
And let's not forget that they don't know what they want when it all comes down to it.
You'll never be able to appease these high demanding succubi.