I don't ghost anyone unless it is just constant bs on their behalf. Whether or not you want that person in your life, there are other ways of going about it in a respectful manner.
My ex ghosted me after dating me for 10 months... it hurts like hell!
Just saying that you don’t want to date someone anymore (unless they’re being creepy) is just having manners. It takes 1 minute to type out a text to someone.
It's not as big as people make it yes, but still it's rude. You can at least say it with words that you don't wanna talk anymore and then block them or do whatever else there is.
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Yes being ghosted after 9 months of dating was no big deal for me (cough). You are young and dumb
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Ya got it all figured out already. Good on 'ya. LOL
I don't ghost anyone unless it is just constant bs on their behalf. Whether or not you want that person in your life, there are other ways of going about it in a respectful manner.
Ghosting is not a big deal but somebody will always end up getting hurt and it's bad to leave on bad terms.
Interesting perspective but to me unless someone is treating you poorly, ghosting is rude and cowardly.
My ex ghosted me after dating me for 10 months... it hurts like hell!
Just saying that you don’t want to date someone anymore (unless they’re being creepy) is just having manners. It takes 1 minute to type out a text to someone.
Yeah my ex ghosted me after 9 months. I know exactly how you feel.
It is rude but I agree, it is not really a big deal. I just accept it and move on. People will come and go, that is just a part of life.
its defs rude but i do think some people over react a little , like I've seen some people here go as far as to say it should be punishable by law
I agree with the caveat of if a person requests some kind of closure or explanation after a first day, I think it's reasonable to accommodate.
It's not as big as people make it yes, but still it's rude. You can at least say it with words that you don't wanna talk anymore and then block them or do whatever else there is.
Yes being ghosted after 9 months of dating was no big deal for me (cough). You are young and dumb
If how other people feel really means that little to you, I sincerely pray for the poor sucker who ends up in your life next.
No offence to it, but I strongly factor your age into your opinion on this subject. I don´t think many people around my age would agree.
Ghosting IS a big deal, is been incapable of solving things straightforward.
Ghosting isn’t bad? Bruh. Try this at your job and see what your boss has to say...
I got ghosted and blocked twice and im no longer me lol. It wouldn't happen if they say the reason for blocking me...
You don´t really ghost after a first date, because there is no relationship.
I completely agree. Sure, it can be rude, but there are worse things in life.
Wow! What a bitch! You truly make me sick to my stomach. Rest assured that Karma will catch up with you eventually...
Ghosting someone is some serious rudeness... have some decency and let them loose properly instead of wimping out
It is not a big deal maybe but it is a rude infantile narcissistic and disrespectful way to cease interaction with another person