Great poem good words , but a man feels entitled not for being nice guy but being used by women.
Women also be need to be realistic using men and then ignoring them is what ticks them.
Why does a women feel just because they are beautiful they deserve everything and anything
If life is unfair and men need to accept that , of that's the solution then men can make life a lot unfair for everyone that should be also acceptable then why cry?
Big talk but when it comes to facing consequences women use a man a Sheild.
That was fantastic, I particularly like where are you wrote “with a yes or no question there’s a 50% chance you’ll get a no“. But I absolutely agree, and have myself have told guys here on GAG that no one is entitled to my time, my affection, or my body. (Regardless of how much you spend on dinner)! Thank you so much for a wonderful might take. I have not yet looked at the comments, but I am dying to see how many angry replies you get from “really nice guys“.
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This isn't how attraction works.
Attraction is when you value someone else's opinion of them over all else along with the desire to spend the rest of your life with them.
If someone really were entitled to someone, they wouldn't be asking and no amount of rejection will get the intruder to go away. It's like trying to access your bank account; you don't request money from it, you demand it because it is your money and you will fight tooth and nail to make sure you can get to your money when you need it.
What this post seems to me is a statement of demonization. To say that a man might be entitled to you sounds a lot like trying to make him out to be a rapist even though rapists take and don't ask, but no one is going to think that far ahead.
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Agreed! And no woman is entitled to a man simply because she think she is. Nobody cares how sweet you say you are. Maybe you should actually try being sweet rather than just saying it over and over again.. Being a decent human being is the bare minimum that should be expected from a woman The amount of guys that disappointed you in the past is NOT this guys problem either. Maybe you should fully resolve your issues before entering into another relationship. If you can't maybe you should really consider being alone for a while. I say again your past is not this guys problem! P. S. I think it's cute that you actually believe a guy has a 50/50 shot. Actually cute guys have a 20% shot at best. Maybe do some research about the subject before doing a mytake next time. 🙂
No man is entitled to a woman. No woman is entitled to a man. And yet people ridicule male and female virgins (especially those 40 years of age and older). "At 35 and older if a man is a virgin there must be something wrong with him." Everyone is entitled to his or her choices and opinions---including the "old" virgins I have described. Trying to tell a grown adult when he or she should marry or date is disrespectful. Virgin shaming should end.
I never have come across a child as you are acting to be thinking that Men are even think of that way of feeling. Yes there are a few but it's like you have never left the house and staying on social media and news channels. You have to do something else that doesn't make you sound so ignorant. So much better than that you stay at home because you are a disease and the rest are not wanting to go through that again and it's going to be great if we stay away from anyone like you.
I just think of the flip side of girls who get mad that a guy is fucking them but doesn't want a relationship when she does. Can basically remap this whole thing for girls aswell with respect to relationships after sex.
Not entitled to that just because you've put in enough effort
If women generally like you, as a man... you kind of are entitled because it takes hard work to look attractive to about 80% of women. If you work hard you owe it to yourself to find your peace of mind. If its a woman, nice car, or food. We owe it to ourselves to reward ourselves for working hard, especially with something or someone that will enhance productivity. Support
Well I've had women interested in me and I feel bad for them when it isn't reciprocated, I can't help but feel like there is a lot of cruel heartless women around I know not all are. I wouldn't tear strips off her like I think this woman would, that's just fucked up, If I knew my girlfriend was that cruel to someone it would be a deal breaker for me. I like kind and sweet Women, If I ever find one i'll be in for the long haul, she's a keeper.
Your girlfriend probably is or was in the past. Girls put on different faces depending on who they are around. Your girl could be a complete ass to some guy she considers beneath her and be sweetest princess when in your presence.
You sound seriously bitter. I hope these guys are not getting under your skin. But men get mistreated as well by women and yeah... some times others get worst of something that has nothing to do with them.
While I agree that there is no entitlement, personal experience for myself and a lot of guys is that, while there are two possible outcomes from asking someone out, it is far from a 50/50 chance of a yes or no, more like 1/99 or lower.
The flip side of this is no woman is entitled to a man's money. But I'll be damned if the government dosent take our money through taxes or child support or alimony and hand it over to women
Right. Feminists claim that men & women are equal... but can't explain why in 99% of divorces the man has to pay the woman money. Dr. Dre's divorce case also shows some interesting stuff. His wife had a law degree but she never made money with it because she's a sucky (and or lazy) lawyer. She claimed that he owed her the money she *would have made* had she been a successful lawyer during the marriage. She also claimed to need millions per month in alimony. He was given zero credit for all the times he gave her six figure stacks of cash so she could throw parties and entertain herself. The math never adds up.
I agree that no man is entitled to a woman but you stink of female entitlement. It's women today, especially post-wall 30+ year old women who are the most entitled and full of shit in thinking the fact they dont have a man is some sort of victimhood done to them by society. No one, male or female, owes anyone anything.
By the same token no woman is entitled to anything from a man. Just because you exist and have a vagina doesn't mean you get to have anything he can provide you. Attention, time and resources. You aren't entitled to any of those. No matter how hot you are. Even if you jump all over him and try and manipulate him. That is a huge red flag and screams gold digger.
Indeed. I would add that sometimes one can do more than keep trying and hoping. At some point, one might have to reevaluate things and consider improving one's self, if that's possible
This is one of the most important and succinct "takes" I've seen on this site. To put it as directly and brutally as possible, dating is a marketplace. If you don't have the purchase price you can't take the goods home. If you're a short-ass ugly guy with no personality and no money you're probably going to go home disappointed.
I see you've never had an original thought in your life, anon.
Come back when you can write something interesting and thought provoking that we don't all already know and haven't heard over one million times across social media.
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No woman is entitled to a man.
No woman is entitled to be asked out.
No woman is entitled to be desired.
No woman is entitled to a boyfriend.
No woman is entitled to a man.
No women is entitled to any attention whatsoever from a man.
We are only due life, liberty and the pursuit of a woman, er, I mean, pursuit of happiness.
I agree.
@Asker So why are we only talking about men?
Yea the asker is definitely upset. She's probably never got hit on. So she pretends to complain about the opposite.
Great poem good words , but a man feels entitled not for being nice guy but being used by women.
Women also be need to be realistic using men and then ignoring them is what ticks them.
Why does a women feel just because they are beautiful they deserve everything and anything
If life is unfair and men need to accept that , of that's the solution then men can make life a lot unfair for everyone that should be also acceptable then why cry?
Big talk but when it comes to facing consequences women use a man a Sheild.
Hey lady.
No woman is entitled to a man... for any reason.
If men would be real men and reject your sorry liberal asses instead of drooling over you, then you'd get back in line eventually.
"No diamond ring today, honey. We're saving that for retirement."
That was fantastic, I particularly like where are you wrote “with a yes or no question there’s a 50% chance you’ll get a no“. But I absolutely agree, and have myself have told guys here on GAG that no one is entitled to my time, my affection, or my body. (Regardless of how much you spend on dinner)!
Thank you so much for a wonderful might take. I have not yet looked at the comments, but I am dying to see how many angry replies you get from “really nice guys“.
This isn't how attraction works.
Attraction is when you value someone else's opinion of them over all else along with the desire to spend the rest of your life with them.
If someone really were entitled to someone, they wouldn't be asking and no amount of rejection will get the intruder to go away. It's like trying to access your bank account; you don't request money from it, you demand it because it is your money and you will fight tooth and nail to make sure you can get to your money when you need it.
What this post seems to me is a statement of demonization. To say that a man might be entitled to you sounds a lot like trying to make him out to be a rapist even though rapists take and don't ask, but no one is going to think that far ahead.
Agreed! And no woman is entitled to a man simply because she think she is.
Nobody cares how sweet you say you are. Maybe you should actually try being sweet rather than just saying it over and over again.. Being a decent human being is the bare minimum that should be expected from a woman
The amount of guys that disappointed you in the past is NOT this guys problem either. Maybe you should fully resolve your issues before entering into another relationship. If you can't maybe you should really consider being alone for a while. I say again your past is not this guys problem!
P. S. I think it's cute that you actually believe a guy has a 50/50 shot.
Actually cute guys have a 20% shot at best. Maybe do some research about the subject before doing a mytake next time. 🙂
No man is entitled to a woman.
No woman is entitled to a man.
And yet people ridicule male and female virgins (especially those 40 years of age and older). "At 35 and older if a man is a virgin there must be something wrong with him." Everyone is entitled to his or her choices and opinions---including the "old" virgins I have described. Trying to tell a grown adult when he or she should marry or date is disrespectful. Virgin shaming should end.
I never have come across a child as you are acting to be thinking that Men are even think of that way of feeling. Yes there are a few but it's like you have never left the house and staying on social media and news channels. You have to do something else that doesn't make you sound so ignorant. So much better than that you stay at home because you are a disease and the rest are not wanting to go through that again and it's going to be great if we stay away from anyone like you.
I just think of the flip side of girls who get mad that a guy is fucking them but doesn't want a relationship when she does. Can basically remap this whole thing for girls aswell with respect to relationships after sex.
Not entitled to that just because you've put in enough effort
If women generally like you, as a man... you kind of are entitled because it takes hard work to look attractive to about 80% of women. If you work hard you owe it to yourself to find your peace of mind. If its a woman, nice car, or food. We owe it to ourselves to reward ourselves for working hard, especially with something or someone that will enhance productivity. Support
Well I've had women interested in me and I feel bad for them when it isn't reciprocated, I can't help but feel like there is a lot of cruel heartless women around I know not all are. I wouldn't tear strips off her like I think this woman would, that's just fucked up, If I knew my girlfriend was that cruel to someone it would be a deal breaker for me. I like kind and sweet Women, If I ever find one i'll be in for the long haul, she's a keeper.
Your girlfriend probably is or was in the past. Girls put on different faces depending on who they are around. Your girl could be a complete ass to some guy she considers beneath her and be sweetest princess when in your presence.
No women is entitled to a man either, but this is a good post, shows just how much hoops a man has to jump just to get into a lousy relationship.
Men are better off going our own way, which leads to a stress free life.
Remember: Men don't need women, women need men.
You sound seriously bitter. I hope these guys are not getting under your skin. But men get mistreated as well by women and yeah... some times others get worst of something that has nothing to do with them.
While I agree that there is no entitlement, personal experience for myself and a lot of guys is that, while there are two possible outcomes from asking someone out, it is far from a 50/50 chance of a yes or no, more like 1/99 or lower.
The flip side of this is no woman is entitled to a man's money. But I'll be damned if the government dosent take our money through taxes or child support or alimony and hand it over to women
Right. Feminists claim that men & women are equal... but can't explain why in 99% of divorces the man has to pay the woman money. Dr. Dre's divorce case also shows some interesting stuff. His wife had a law degree but she never made money with it because she's a sucky (and or lazy) lawyer. She claimed that he owed her the money she *would have made* had she been a successful lawyer during the marriage. She also claimed to need millions per month in alimony. He was given zero credit for all the times he gave her six figure stacks of cash so she could throw parties and entertain herself. The math never adds up.
@hahahmm Because they don't want equality. They want special treatment. They want the benefits with none consequences
No**
I agree that no man is entitled to a woman but you stink of female entitlement. It's women today, especially post-wall 30+ year old women who are the most entitled and full of shit in thinking the fact they dont have a man is some sort of victimhood done to them by society. No one, male or female, owes anyone anything.
By the same token no woman is entitled to anything from a man. Just because you exist and have a vagina doesn't mean you get to have anything he can provide you. Attention, time and resources. You aren't entitled to any of those. No matter how hot you are. Even if you jump all over him and try and manipulate him. That is a huge red flag and screams gold digger.
Indeed. I would add that sometimes one can do more than keep trying and hoping. At some point, one might have to reevaluate things and consider improving one's self, if that's possible
Sure. Try to make yourself taller.
@msc545
Alas, some things cannot be improved upon. That's why I wrote "if that's possible " For those people my heart goes out to them.
This is one of the most important and succinct "takes" I've seen on this site. To put it as directly and brutally as possible, dating is a marketplace. If you don't have the purchase price you can't take the goods home. If you're a short-ass ugly guy with no personality and no money you're probably going to go home disappointed.
I see you've never had an original thought in your life, anon.
Come back when you can write something interesting and thought provoking that we don't all already know and haven't heard over one million times across social media.