How often do men actually ask you out, on average? (Page 2)

Question

Apparently I read that many guys aren't asking girls out these days. Either they just don't have the balls or only want a hookup...

Anyway, so girls, how often do guys actually confess their feelings to you and/or ask you out?

SakuraChii · Answer

Never or rarely, I'm guessing this is normal since I'm in high school. I have to approach guys and majority of guys that are interested in me are my guy friends. So I probably wouldn't know if they were interested in the first place.

Donaldduck · Answer

Guys don't ever tend to want to ask me out, instead they like to throw a hint and run away. Takes a lot of guts to obviously ask someone out and not many men have the guts in case they are turned down.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Occasionally, like every few months some guy will do a cold approach. I appreciate the confidence it takes to ask someone out, but I'm in a relationship so they get turned down.

punkbaby · Answer

There are no real men these days, apparently. Only chachy little boys. You know how much I appreciate a man who comes up to me and asks for my number or even flirts with me a little.. way too much.

SillySilberman · Answer

I've been asked out by a guy, though I have been followed, and I am constantly whistled and stared at. lol.

Givemeit · Answer

Occasionally because I don't date and when I talk to a guy I make it obvious that I wouldn't be Interested in dating. But I hang out with guys a lot just not as in the "date" statues. Two friends having a good time.

ambertaylor · Answer

I picked often, before I settled with my partner and had a child, I used to get asked out/shown interest in nearly every time I went out - and I hated it. So now I'm glad that I'm more of a mumsy figure in mens eyes!

Eaglesoars · Answer

I'm actually quite offended don't ask me out I know I'm tremendously straight but still

dudeman · Answer

speaking as a man I'll maybe ask a girl out every other month maybe I don't really. did myself out there these days but if we are on the metro and having a good conversation I'll ask for her number

lostgirl_searching · Answer

It was often, but it was only because of sex. Usually the ones that were really shy. They're usually the ones that wants to date and see where it goes, so I will usually make the first move for them.

MaskofInsanity · Answer

It depends how much I go out. I tend to be a hermit these days. Usually whenever I go to a bar/pub I'll get asked for my number etc. Less now because once I say I have a bf they back off :)

LovesTVDx · Answer

Its weird, its only recently started to happen. It hasn't happened much haha but once one guy asked me out like literally the same weekend this other guy did too. It's like when you're waiting for a bus for ages and then they all come at once. :P

Creative_boss · Answer

It's cuz they're trying to find a real woman. Women are the players these days..

been_waiting · Answer

Since January I've been asked out three times, so really not that much.

bettybets · Answer

I don't get asked out. What I get is hit on/harassed and a loser that want to try and date me but has no chance at getting me.

justbanANNAz · Answer

wow great feedback on this one, well done.  i almost never get asked out. i get complimented or looked at but thats bout it. i dont mind tho.

demonology · Answer

I was asked out to some social event a few months ago, declined since it was asked in public. I've not no respect for pressuring people with a public audience.

MaeveD · Answer

Damn thats the largest no. of replies from women I have ever seen xD

Anonymous · Answer

I am 18 and I have never been in a relationship. One guy has asked my out in my life. It didn't work out but it was a nice gesture. I have told many guys how I feel and in the last two years I have been friendzoned 8 times... fun

Anonymous · Answer

Not often because I don't try very hard, I'm dating someone Hkwever, when I made an effort I got asked out multiple times a night

iUnderachieve · Answer

Wow.. is it weird I get asked out by dudes more than some of these ladies? I'm really beginning to reevaluate my life. and i'm straight by the way.-.

Anonymous · Answer

Very rarely. I get a lot of men who flirt with me or make advances, but never one that actually asks me out on a proper date which is part of why I'm single. Either approach me like a gentleman or keep walking.

bdeakol · Answer

I don't think girls get asked out as much as guys think.  I've gotten asked out 3 times last school year.

Anonymous · Answer

lol, all these responses makes me want to ask a girl out.

woohoo_friday · Answer

Zero Zilch  Nada Never been asked out/approached

PhiOmega · Answer

I've been asked out a few times, but I don't ask girls out, I'll hit them up to hang out, but only in a platonic way, I'll flirt, talk to girls but haven't met one worth asking out, especially girls at my age aren't anything to be glad about anyway

lexicorrine · Answer

I get asked out often... it's hard to say no if you can tell they genuinely like you

Anonymous · Answer

Almost never, but that average tends to go up when my buddy drags me to the gay bar for the drag queen contests (no I'm not the one dressing up).

Korilakkuma · Answer

I would be honored if a guy asked me out, whether I reciprocated those feelings or not. I guess maybe not all girls would be nice about it though.

FlyingTurtle · Answer

Unless it's online dating, guys don't really notice me.

Tallblondie · Answer

Twice a year lol and if I ask a guy out I pretty much get rejected

behindthemask · Answer

In the past year it's happened maybe four or five times but I'm pretty sure they all just wanted to hookup because they were all at a bar or a club

may04 · Answer

On an actual date... never. The date code "hang out" a few times, but I've never actually considered them dates so I'm sticking with choice A.

ValleyofDrakes · Answer

I do my best to lead women into asking me out. I feel so needy having to do it EVERY SINGLE FREAKIN' TIME.

ScorpioDW · Answer

Oh I guess I'm pretty late lol but actually asked out? I'll probably say less than 5 times a year O_o

Brookedr · Answer

During highschool, never, but once I got to college, anyone that expressed interest in me asked me out on a date. It happens very often.

Betwyn · Answer

This summer, has been a lot. I think it's because I'm pretty much always out with girls only this summer.

Anonymous · Answer

I voted A. What would be more accurate would be "Never", not "Almost Never".

hapajessie · Answer

Sometimes. Or maybe it just seems like more this year because the guy I'm dating right now had to ask me so many times before I said yes.

naambb · Answer

if some guy ask me out for a date i wouldn't go, but as buddies i will. which doesn't mean i have friendzoned them. it just feels more comfortable.

Torrie · Answer

Sometimes. It's not an everyday sort of thing, but I've been asked out on quite a few legit dates. Not just "to chill/hook up".

staciebee · Answer

I'm married now, but before my husband came along, NEVER. Seriously, I probably only went on a handful of dates before I met him.

ClumsyxShy · Answer

I'm 19 and I've only been asked out maybe once in my life. I feel like people only want to hook up nowadays.

Anonymous · Answer

Never. I've never had a boyfriend neither. If a guy I like or don't like say something about going out together (even though I say yes) it never happen.

LittleSally · Answer

A. They smile, flirt, comment, dance around me (in clubs), but they never ask me out.

Hopefuldreamer8 · Answer

I never get asked out. I am extremely ugly. It doesn't matter what I do to improve my appearance, none are interested.

notgoodwithnames · Answer

guys never ask me out or stare at me. i am kind of a loner with grumpy acting so i kind of scare them

Anonymous · Answer

ill never ask a girl out PERIOD. I've tried asking a few out in the past and i always got the same results being rejected so I've learned guys are not supposed to ask a girl out anyways, its the girl whos supposed to ask the guy out

Cheekkky · Answer

I am asked out often by the wrong guys, usually their intentions are quit clear after the first date haha.

thetundrawolf · Answer

You know, it's never actually happened to me before.  But there's this bar near my house... It happens a lot but only there?

DreamHope · Answer

9 times in my life from guys who actually knew me and were serious. From guys who just met me? Depends how often I go out and where I go out.

findingdreamland · Answer

I often get asked this is because I have a large friend network. I go out with them. One knows another and another. It goes like that.

darkfoxjj · Answer

I have asked a lot of women out on dates. And have never been asked out on a date myself. It's sad really.

front2back · Answer

I feel like a contributing asshole to this problem. I don't like any girls and I don't want a relationship, so I don't ask girls out. Dang I didn't know this was such an issue.

JazzyCheeseburger · Answer

Wow, it's a lot less than I thought, I have been asked out only once. I rejected her as I didn't like her...

Indigo_Moon · Answer

When I was a young pup, I would get ask out at least once a week. One month I got ask out 20 times, yes 20 times in one month. Now I am never ask out, such is life.

KBob93 · Answer

I'm not usually asked out, I'm a one-night stand. Lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Not a lot... cause guys are more into hooking up. I think the dating culture is dying so there's really no. hope for. girls

ItsMeAndUKnowIt101 · Answer

I've been asked out 5 times in the past 4 months. Is that often or consistently?

Anonymous · Answer

I've never been asked out and I've only had one guy tell me he likes me but due to distance we can't be together. We do talk every day though. I've had a few guys tell me I'm cute/attractive but that's the extent of it.

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