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How often do men actually ask you out, on average? (Page 3)
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I'm almost 20 and I've never been asked out. (I'm not hideous or fat- average or maybe above average looking and very slim). Maybe there's something else wrong with me that I'm not aware of?
Not a lot from serious guys that want a real and long relationship.
But from guys that want a girlfriend only for sex and for a few weeks, too much !
Almost never. a lot of guys say I'm cute or pretty, but I've only been asked out once.
Never. I guess it's because I don't go out often, I spend most of my time at home. I'm an introvert and I seem unlikable. Plus, I'm not skinny.
Oh, you don't have to be skinny. As long as you aren't like overweight... I personally prefer normal weight girls. A little meat on her is sexy.
It's good to know that :)
I'm not overweight, but I wish I was skinny.
Never. Why for me? Because I'm too shy and don't want to go into that drama
most guys are either too shy or they just don't do anything about it. A guy liked me last year, he never asked me out but if he did I probably would have said yes.
Why didn't you ask him out then lol
I was wondering the same thing
because if he didn't do anything about it, I thought he wasn't interested enough... I should have though
Uhh on a scale of 1 to 10 i'd say... something between -5 and 0
Mostly never im not ugly but I don't know guys just dont like me. :(
It's still early usually that doesn't happen so much at that age more like 16 and up. At least from what I have seen and heard. Cheer up :)
Yeah I suppose. thanks :)
Almost never. I am a loner, and I hardly socialize.
ora ora
lol. Well that's the truth. Used to socialize a bit once upon a time.
Never really... some guys just stare but that's all really
Are there times where youved wanted him to approach instead of staring?
yup definitely but I know that won't happen so...
Why didn't you approach them?
I'm really shy and I've thought of doing that but the timing was never right. It was hard enough for me to give him hints let alone talk to him.
i always make the first move. they'll 'look' but i act.
Pretty often to be honest. Some don't even back off even after i've told them i'm taken.
I have only been asked out once in 15 years... smh WHERE DID I GO WRONG?
They show all the signs, but only sometimes do they ever ask me out.
Last time I got asked out was 5 years ago. I said yes.
We broke up 2 years later.
i have only been asked out once and that was the other day because for sum reason guys just dont like me
have you tried being naked? my friend was having trouble with men. And then she was naked and it fixed all her problems. Now she's beating them away. Sometimes two at a time. Sometimes behind arbys parking lots.
no why are u all obsessed in naked women
One or twice a year i ask someone out. I see someone special, i can't help feel attracted to her.
The one guy that asked me out only did it to have a girlfriend. We lasted a week. #toouglyforlove
Are you in that picture? If yes, then you are far FAR away from ugly. I don't care what you think. I, the observer, get to evaluate, not you. :P
Yes, I'm the one on the left. The gorgeous one is my sister who's on the right.
more than once a day ^__^ but they are all young and stupid.
Wow that's a lot
Right now I'd say almost never. I'm taken atm so ehh, doesn't bug me much.
I have never been asked out on a date or had a boyfriend not that I really mind
I think it could get annoying too. Glad I'm a guy.
Rarely, I'm not single. I don't give off single flirty vibes anymore.
The only time I've ever been asked out was for a dare back in middle school. So yeah almost never.
never really, I've been asked out once.
that's about it
I'm shocked at the results
I have never been asked out. Guys only want sec and I'm a virgin so I haven't given it up to anyone yet.
If I'm in London, pretty much everyday and sometimes multiple times each day. If I'm in the outskirts where I love it's like every few days
Asking someone out and expressing feelings to them is two different things. I will occasionally ask a girl to lunch or somewhere casually if that is what you mean by "asking out"
The hasn't happened to me in like a year bc so many guys are pussies these days
maybe guys just dont like a stupid bitch who calls them a pussy just because she doesn't think she has enough attention. ever thought of that?
well i wouldn't have to call him a pussy if he actually made an fucking effort to make a move on a girl he likes! Ever thought of that?
@RichardBoehner
I guess I won't be dating till I'm 21
my point is you think men who like you aren't making a move, but the truth is men just plain don't like you.
Don't worry about the nonsense that this guy is telling you. I get nervous, and I don't ask girls out as much as I should. I am going to try to change that, especially after reading this page. This guy who is talking bad to you is obviously more scared of asking girls out than I am. It sounds like he has bitter feelings towards women in general, and an anger and sense of disrespect for women in general. That makes him a misogynist. Don't listen to guys like that. Please don't. You should message me.
@RichardBoehner, stfu, you are just too afraid to hear the truth.
@JBlover86, thank you for the kind words, i appreciate your honestly as well :)
I agree with you, that guy is being a jerk
@Cómoestás, why?
@opinionowner because of time management. I don't have time for a girlfriend
Guys have no longer their cojones in the right place!
This. Or you're fat. One of the two.
Not fat. So... yes.
ALL THE TIME.
Just kidding. Like... never. I'm too ugly lol
ah i'm sure you are not. You're just young that's all
I'd say 1 or 2 a year.
Sometime years it was more, like when I did online dating, it was more like 3 or 4.
And some years it was less. As in no one.
Seems like as guys get older, they get less emotionally connected and focus more on the physical stuff. So, the only time I hear an "I like you" is after he's sure I like him back, and after we've gotten to know each other for a while.
emotions are a trap. thats how the women imprison you in their den of lies. O_O THERE IS NO ESCAPE AFTER YOU SAY I LOVE YOU. SHE NOW OWNS YOUR SOUL AND YOUR DICK. BE VERY VERY AFRAID.
I'm a little older, now. Some of what you say is true. It's not that I'm actually emotionally unavailable or disconnected, but I think guarded is a better term. Life can beat us up sometimes, and even if we aren't blaming others, we tend to want to learn from our mistakes. That can mean being cautious, and unfortunately, to a fault. Waiting until you feel as if a girl is consistently warm toward you is a start, but also making sure she is not prone to blowing you off is not unwise. In fact, that is the biggest deterrent I have to asking girls out. So many younger women appear to be flighty, and girls my age often seem jaded and overly suspicious. At this point, a guy may decide that there are too many hoops to jump through, and that tends to be a bit of a barricade. Women want to feel like they're being pursued, but a guy will oblige if he doesn't always feel as if he's wasting his time in doing so.
I have to agree with AnthemSon on this one. It's not as much that we get less emotionally connected as it is that we've gotten smarter about what emotions to show and when. Pretty much any guy on here could tell you their story about showing too much emotion and it completely screwing them in the long run. Typically, when we show more interest in the relationship that our female partners, things go sour pretty damn fast.
@ I think guarded is a better term. Life can beat us up sometimes, and even if we aren't blaming others, we tend to want to learn from our mistakes. That can mean being cautious, and unfortunately, to a fault. Waiting until you feel as if a girl is consistently warm toward you is a start, but also making sure she is not prone to blowing you off
this is well said but would apply to anyone. does i think apply to all of us. thats how most people are guarded careful reserved critical until they haste good reason to act otherwise.
lol you don't really think its any easier for women to be direct about how they feel. guys run too.
also i don't think there's ever a good reason to play games -which is what were talking about in a glorified way.
iff she/ he jus the kind of person to balk bc they now you liker them, then you should walk away. not waste months or years playing up to their stunted emotional capacity.
itrs best to get in honestly quickly and get out just as quick if it isn't working. i see no point to wait around pretending to feel nothing just so you can get them comfortable.. it really doesn't make sense. and i think deep down people do it bc they like the feeling of control. not bc they don't want to get hurt. bc if you just didn't want to feel bad you'd be honest and get hit all out there and move on if it went bad not hang around cowardly being evasive and noncommital until its 'safe'.
if you like someone-like them. if you don't move on. pain is part of life. just how it is and it helps us grow. and we become wise.
Wow here im thinking girls get asked out almost everyday
I just don't feel the need to because if I did women still wouldn't like me.
A more important question is "why would they?"
Why wouldn't they?
Well women could get off their butts and do the asking too, no?
Or is this 1950 ?
I neve been asked out never been hit on never been shit.. Lol.. But I'm not ugly doe js js
same
with all the No's I'm wondering if guys are just "smart" enough not to ask girls out.
I've never been asked out, but that is because I wasn't very approachable. I am working on that now.
About 3 or 4 times in my whole life, but I've also never been to a club and about 3 parties, so...^^
None at all. Ever. And if I do the asking they say no.
Literally never. I guess it is because I am a homebody.
It depends the days im out. Around once or twice when im out and about I get asked out.
I pretty much never get asked out. Men love to stare at me especially when I'm running or driving in the car but they will never approach me.
Went on a bike ride today and saw a guy turn around to stare at the girl that ran past him. I couldn't help but laugh. Then I threw a bike chain - darn you karma!
they always let the rumors come to me and they dont really do anything about it
Actually asked out? Maybe once or twice a month.
On dating sites, yes all the time. In person, maybe less than 10 times in my life.
Never happened to me.
What? No way
I've never been asked out in my life. ^^;
do you want to go out?
@AverageWhiteBoy
LOL oh thanks! xD
haha you can't say never now :)
i haven't been asked out in 2 years...
I've been asked out twice in my life :l
I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years and he still asks me out on dates and tells me how lucky he is to have me. And surprises me with gifts
I have asked out about 10 in the last 10 years.
maybe like 3 times a week... is that often?
Probably a lot
oh kk
I would think that's a lot for a girl anyway. It's certainly a lot to me since I've been kind of approached once in my life
I've only kind of asked one person out so far
I've never been asked out. I'm too ugly :(
In fact, I think you're good looking. Perhaps you're too introvert and that's why they don't dare. We love open minded and extrovert girls.
I'm definitely not shy, but thanks for saying that :)
if you're ugly I want to know what I am :p You are far from ugly.
awwww. thanks!!! I never get told that. I bet you're not too bad! message me!! haha
at least 1 each week... 0_0
never. always been rejected too (:
Not too brag... but A LOT.
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I'll fall under consistently
I'm not suprised your stunning
@aoifeislovable Thank you. So are you too :)
Thehehehe thank you :)
Once... I don't mind though.