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It's consistent.. I think a lot of times my friendliness is mistaken, or though wishful thinking.. that I'm interested in them.. Even though I always mention I'm in a relationship right off the bat.
It's whatever.. I'm never rude or hurt anyone's feelings when I decline dates & hanging out with them. I simply remind them that I'm in a committed relationship & end the subject.
I'm not the traditionally pretty type so guys don't really notice me in that way also I'm one of those " emo / punk / skater girl " types and guys don't really like that and wear I live guys don't like girls with natural red hair I don't know why but yea I've been asked out one time
Well before my boyfriend it was 1-3 a year. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half so most people I am around at school know so even if they wanted to they wouldn't bother. I don't really go out much so anyone who doesn't know me doesn't really have a chance to. Not that I mind as I am more than happy with my boyfriend. Even so my guy friends often complement me.
Guys are wimps... they are all for asking one out on a date and all and get all lovey dovey on the first Damm date!!! The ones who are serious about the relationship are also very Thirsty. ... and the others that try to be fly and ask me out act like they all good and what not and get surprised that I a far from all other woman SO THEy FEEL INTIMIDATED and change from a thug lol to a dork carrying ones purse on a coffee date hahaha... men
ask girls out like to hang out like a date or to be in a relationship? Before I started dating my boyfriend, I have been constantly asked to have lunch or just to hang out with people. I guess it really depends on what you give as an impression. Sometimes I give people wrong ideas such as I am into them but in fact I'm just being nice.
yeah Ill be honest, its a lot simpler, and cheaper (I'm broke man) to just go for hookups. Dates are no guarantee for that, and that's basically the point of the date. I only ask girls out that I would be willing to be in a relationship with.
This is very surprising, I thought all girls including not so good looking ones were asked out on regular basis.
They ask to take me out a lot but only because they want sex. I no they don't really want to take the time to get to no me they just want to get in my pants. They invite themselves over to mine. Saying we can chill and watch a movie but I no that means one thing ! This is all they ever seem to want to do.
ever think. that's because what guys do?
never. the occasional hobo will grunt at me. i suppose that's something.
ROFL. Don't worry. I'll take you on a pancake date. 8D
@misupanda you make me feel so luuurved :p <3 misupandaaaaaaaa
Hahaha! xD It's the power of the pancake! :3
Most of the men who hit on me are hobos. They won't leave me alone, every time i go to mcdonalds there's a hobo telling me my eyes look like sparkling diamonds or some shit
I have no issue asking girls out. If she just seems very neutral through the whole conversation then I probably won't ask. If she is on her phone , im not even gonna talk to her. Learned my lesson after a few times. My time is just as valuable as hers so if I dont get the feeling that she's at least enjoying the conversation, then im gone.
Rarely. I don't even interact with many people, though, lol. Guys do hit on me, walk me to class sometimes, or flirt, but I almost never get asked out.
What's the difference between getting hit on and gettinf asked out?
To ask someone out (at least how I define it) you have to say something direct, like "Hey, wanna go out sometime?"
A lot of "pick-up" lines (or general passing remarks) don't actually accomplish that, they're more like ice-breakers or attention-grabbers.
@QA flirt but didn't actually ask the girl out
Oh okay.
I don't get asked out, I get approached and from then on I Need to take the initiative, the girls don't seem to know what they are doing, or even what they want. everytime a Girl approached me first seemed to me like I was their dating Coach or so
Now mostly never. Like maybe 2 or 3 times this year? My other friend gets asked out all the time.
I wondered why, but then I remembered the immortal words of Patrick Star:
"Maybe it's 'cause you're ugly."
Harsh joke, but true ;_;
Almost never. I've been asked out maybe 5 times and I only went on one date. I'm not dating that guy now. The other four are just from this dude that won't take a hint and keeps asking me out. Don't know if that counts...
There's never any actual dates nowadays it's always 'come to mine to watch a movie' which almost always means they want something physical and we girls aren't interested in just the physical side of things :p
Is that really true? Because I was planning to go on a lot of actual dates in college. Are girls still interested in formal dating up there?
I'm at university and I have to be honest, a date would just be amazing !! Like real dates really are a mark in your favour, if you're the gentleman that people say doesn't exist anymore there'll be a lot more girls turning heads in your direction! I say it's a definite yes :D
Yeah, but I am also dismally short (5'3.5) and of Indian descent (though I am Americanized and all) with an average-looking face, so I don't know... I mean I won't let that stop me (I am already actually asking girls out) but this can also substantially decrease my dating pool size.
You'll be surprised how many people are after these things ! I have a friend who is only after short Asian people (she isn't asian) so you never know what people actually like until you give it a shot :D at college/university too I've found people aren't so judgmental and are so much more mature so dating is actually so easy. Though some are judgmental most shallow people are weeded out, in this kinda environment people don't care so much about what you look like :)
Well that's nice to hear...
Never been asked out really. I have guys that stare at me consistently and want to have sex with me :/ or want a one night stand (no I never had sex lol btw/no idea where they get the notion that I just want to do IT). I wish that a guy would ask me out and treat me with respect like I will treat him. ^_^
Almost never. I think I've been asked out like.. what, 7 times? I feel bad saying that some were guys who just wanted an ego boost because they thought I'd jump at the chance.
I think I'm not attractive enough for some reason. I think I'll always be alone, and yeah that might be my choice it might not, most likely both, but I'm not desperate enough to go out on a limb yet.
yesterday this guy hit on me awkwardly. lol. it actually made my day a little, so i smiled and said thanks before realizing i should have been offended. but i wasn't, and that's really fcking with me.
A guy will come. Relax
no.. it'll never happen. i'll be alone forever! :'( i just need to let it sink in.
Rarely lol it's sad I think guys are losing their balls or they just don't find me attractive... But there's lots of guys who immaturely harass me but no one asks me out like a normal person often
What! I don't believe this! I'd totally flirt with you, ask for your name and then flirt some more than ask for your number and see if you'd like to grab something to drink. Sooner than later! Plus you've got a great smile! Too bad your under 18.
It's true haha thanks and yeah I'm 17.
I'm surprised as well. I had been convinced by this site (by the guys)
that most girls are asked out pretty often.
I thought I was a rare case not beeing asked so often ! :P
I've been asked out 5 times and almost 25...