Would you ever date a depressed guy?

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jasbell · Accepted Answer

I actually have dated a guy who was depressed at one point. It was probably one of my better decisions. He felt better about himself, and that made me happy. Some people just decide that the don't like someone because they're depressed. others sometimes find it attractive because some depressed people give off more of an "emo" vibe. And lastly, sometimes you don't even know some's depressed until after they've told you. For example, for a long time about this time last year, I was severely depressed, and nobody knew, and I didn't let anybody know. some people are just naturally good actors.

estoydorado1 · Accepted Answer

It would depend why he was depressed.
I wouldn't if he was:
-pessimistic
-throwing himself a constant pity party
-didn't want to make things better for himself

Would if he:
-Was going through a dark point in his life i. e a death, familial problems, friend troubles.
-Was typically able to be positive
-was working at resolving some of the things that were darkening his mood
-if he was willing to open up to me and let me support him even if only emotionally.

evelyn26 · Accepted Answer

Why is he depressed? Is he willing to get help? What are his symptoms? Depression can be cured. Sometimes they just need a partner to be there for them.

From experience, I was dating a bipolar guy but he broke my heart by cheating. Right now we are trying to work things out. I am willing to give him one opportunity.

bboo22 · Accepted Answer

I'm dating someone who's some what depressed but also sensitive.. I always try to be positive and make him feel better about himself and that helps a lot. I give him a lot of encouragement and support and most importantly lots of love.❤️

zoonotic · Accepted Answer

I love you ladies that said yes on here  Love cures all

jennix33333 · Answer

I honestly would. I think everyone is depressed. not as often as others but we all come across it so why not? I would date that depressed guy and be his support system

tatianamay · Answer

Yes, of course! I’d try to give him all the love and care in the world and make him feel safe and happy

deraz24 · Answer

If he tries to get better and he comes out of it yes, it can't be depressing at the start tho you're supposed to enjoy the relationship and each other

Wileywiles · Answer

Yes, as long as he could help me when I have my lows too, help each other kinda thing

Tara101 · Answer

yes i would. your human like everyone eles are u not

Anonymous · Answer

Yes because then he could relate to me and I can try helping him out as I've helped myself mostly out of it

melina_19 · Answer

Yeah, I could try to help him

emmyD · Answer

Being depressed is nothing to be ashamed of. You have a mental condition that you can not fully control. so having been in that boat myself. yes

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Nah. Probably not a happy guy, either.

JaneMancen · Answer

No, I did once. It didn't go well... at. All-----

lushbomb · Answer

id probably help him out so yes

TwilightSparkle3 · Answer

Yes. I like depressing guys. lol

thesixties · Answer

Absolutely 😊

cutemz · Answer

Yessss

Rosewanda · Answer

Yes, I would.

Whatthefluff · Answer

Yeah

moonpie89 · Answer

I prefer not to

Ana__ · Answer

yes!

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