I have a problem. I was on a dating app and i came across a cute girl, we texted each other for a while and then we went on a date together. So while texting it felt like she is the perfect person. We have a lot in common and she is very interesting and her profile pic was very cute. And last Saturday we finally had a date together. Just went to the cinema and talked an hour before the movie.
But she don't look like her profile pic, not that it is fake but she tried to hide the fact that she is overweight (maybe cosidered chuby). It was so bad that when we tried to meet i didn't notice that she was all the time in front of me and that i passt her a several times.
So of course i was a bit disappointed but i didn't show it. After the date she was very interested in me and wanted a second date. I just changed the subject every time she tries to make another meeting. However normally i would tell her that i am not interested but she really is perfect in the inside and i don't know what to do! Should i tell her that if she want to be in a relationship with me that she should lose weight. I go to the gym every second day and i have a decent good looking body so we could work out together?
I realy don't know what to do because i was never in such a situation and i really want to know her better but on the other hand i am not physically attracted to her so at that point i am lost. I am not a model but i am not ugly either and i have some expectations on the gilrs i date and they aren't high at all.
So pleas if you have experience in such situations can you pleas help me i am completely lost and that is the only reason i came here and signed up.
Thank you all for your advice abd sorry for the bad English.
Honestly guys what do think i am?
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