Can a girl get interested again or give you a second chance after the LJBF-talk if you significantly improve your life?

[Fiskus1996]

I know i should just move on but i want to give it a shot and try it again because i couldn't show the girl i like who i really am. I had some stupid things i had to deal with at the time i met her and was unbelievable insecure around her, now im getting back on track.

We (both 21) went on 4 dates and she told me she likes me and wouldn't have minded if it developed into something more but now she just wants to stay friends.

How should i proceed? I kinda went no-contact and will see her again in 3 months. And then again in 6 months.

[nauticalnomad]

No.. Groveling and doing stuff for her makes you submissive and women want men. Boys grovel and change and look for friends. Men conquer. Go chase other women and show them and then she will see that and start chasing you.. It won't matter then as you will be interested in other women and won't entertain her as she's rejected you.. Don't waste your time on chasing 1 woman. Be the man they all want and let them chase you. Everything you think you know about women will only ever get you friendzoned.. There's some merit in treat them mean and keep them keen. I don't mean abusive.. But women need to know they've earnt the man in their life.

[xxlilly]

You can try to meet up with her again! I’d say give it some time maybe? When you try to come on too quick after she said she wants to stay friends it might still be too early for her to change her mind.

[RichardBandit]

Move on. Trust me a girl knows when she wants a guy. You are friendzoned