Is dating IRL easier than Tinder?

dr1fter
I'm so confused why I'm struggling to get any dates or even matches on Tinder, especially since I'm not presenting myself as just a hookup. I'm fairly certain that my lack of matches can't be due to my appearance because I'm tall and athletic with a mostly symmetrical face. Plus, I've been told that I'm attractive by people online and IRL. For example, on Photo Feeler, I'm considered to be in the top 20%. Additionally, I'm aware that I turn heads and often receive extended eye contact when I'm outside walking about or exercising.

Besides physical attraction, a lot of people seem to find me really humorous, but that didn't seem to help me either when texting on Tinder. The women would laugh a lot initially, but would ghost me a couple of days later. Also, I don't think I'm too bad at flirting. Sometimes I might over do it, but it's usually really smooth.

However, I have crippling social anxiety along with all the other symptoms of Asperger's syndrome, so it's hard for me to approach and interact with people irl, women and even men. There were many occasions where I decided to help out some women who were struggling with heavy objects or just interact with women in the most boring way, and all they would do is giggle at me the entire time. That always makes me very nervous, and all I end up doing is just smile and nod... I feel like an idiot😅

Anyway, if you could shed some light on my confusion and struggles, feel free to comment below :)
Photo Feeler results
Photo Feeler results
Some of the Photo Feeler comments suggests that I come across as arrogant or that I should have a different pose🤷‍♂️

How's my bio?
How's my bio?
I'm living in Switzerland. People here speak German, French, or Italian--and many speak some English. Maybe the language barrier is the issue?
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Oh damn, I forgot to cover up my real name...😒🔫
Is dating IRL easier than Tinder?
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