Do guys like to see what your hobbies are?

On my Instagram I only post to my story once or twice a week.

Its usually a video of me going paddle boarding or me working on my garden.

But is that kind of stuff interesting to a guy who likes you?

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  • If a guy likes you yes he will be interested. Might now be his kind of things but he will show some interest in what you like to do. Even if its as simple as a gardening questions like what do you grow. And if he really likes you he will attempt to participate with you and your hobbies

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    • I don't expect him to garden. Its my me time. But I am proud of my garden and so I show it to people

    • I didn't mean him to participate i just was giving examples of how he might show interest. In your hobbies

  • To a guy who likes you, yeah they're going to want to know so that they can find things to talk about, find common interests and chances to escalate things.

    If he's kinda into you, maybe he likes the look of you but doesn't really know you then finding that your interests align sway him or finding that they don't could push him away.

    e. g I met this girl at uni in a class, so we had that in common. She was into rock climbing, which I have an interest in. This turn out to be a problem she would go climbing all the freaking time and had two jobs (one of which helped animals like me so we had that in common too) and uni. While we had things to connect over, because of all this going on she seemed like a rather extroverted and social person in a way that I don't share and am not into. I don't think she was into me either, so problem solved I guess.

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    • Oh Sorry to hear.
      The guy i like has mentioned he wanted to try it sometime. But his work and school got in. The way

Most Helpful Girl

  • It depends. If he already likes you anything you do is basically really interesting to him. If you're trying to attract someone new, its a little different. I have VSCO and dont have instagram. But i use snapchat. Lots of people are annoying as hell and i click their stories without watching because all they do is annoying selfies or rates or random stuff everyday. If i post something on snapchat, i make sure its interesting and worth while. Even if that means I only post like once a month. You post interestimg stuff :) make sure to smile! Hope that helps!

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    • Also I like VSCO better as i am more focused on the photagraphy rather than the likes and comments. But thats personal preference

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What Guys Said 67

  • It's all-important. I want to know what we can do together for fun that we both like or could get to like.

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  • You are a lake person and a garden person. There are BMW people, music people (and different types jazz, rock, classical, country), theatre people, TV binge watch people, computer people, etc. You get the idea. Common interests or complimentary interests are the non-sexual bonds that hold people together. Complimentary interests might be you having a herb garden and he likes to make (or eat) gourmet locally-sourced meals.

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  • Yeah. It's part of really knowing your partner. Besides, if your hobbies conflict, it will be a problem down the road when you get too old for the... ah... physically exerting parts of a loving relationship.

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    • His hobby is cooking and writing music. Well music is also his job... But that is where most of his free time goes. I don't think it conflicts with mine. In just not confident in cooking and know little about music. Except dance. I dance as my work out. And that was one of the first things he liked about me is that I dance. I just don't post that on instagram

    • There is a meshing of sorts, there. Music and dance. Those two can work together - until you are too old to dance, obviously. I'm guessing by then you will have come up with another hobby.

      My lady's an artist. Cartoon and realism. I sculpt. Clay and 3d modeling and animation. We use each others' ideas constantly.

  • Absolutely! Especially on dating profiles this will help you immensely. Its a super easy conversation starter and that way we already know if we have something in common.

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  • If he really likes you, he will WANT to find out all those little things which- when taken together- make you YOU.

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  • I mean in my cases if a girl is a friend yes and if were planning to date her then only if she is the girl where attracted to if not then it won't give you any advantage over any girl.

    Its like this
    Hot girl: Oh I'm like into surfing I love the beach!
    Guy whos never surfed in his life: Oh yeah mee too we got soo much in common...

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  • Yep, anything like hobbies/interests is much more interesting with more substance that random selfies next to a tree or car.

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  • Yes :
    If they are really close to you or in a relationship that blossoms.

    If they want to have sex/ or need money or fulfil any selfish goal with you and they are clever enough to know they have to do this to gaining your attention, trust or whatever its called that gives then what they need.

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  • The real question is if he's unsure if he likes you. Then it depends more on interests and preferances which way hell sway. You however shouldn't care, because you'll be knowing that if he's not interested or loses interest over it then he wasn't really for you, and furthermore you actually saved yourself a lot of time by showing that instead of him finding oit down the road. Time you're available to find someone who does lile both you and your interests or at least isn't swayed by them

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    • Well I don't ever expect him to garden with me. Thats my distressing time where I don't have to talk to people and just be alone. And I like growing and tending and upkeeping helps me feel like my life isn't falling apart. Plus the food and herbs I get from my garden I can actually eat

    • Sounds hot! Especially the no talking part. Bottom line is props to you for sharing, dont get insecure about it

  • Definitely. Women with hobbies are a lot more interesting, to me at least, compared to those who do nothing but take selfies and go shopping.

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  • If I'm interested in the girl, I'm interested in what hobbies she has. Only speaking for myself, of course.

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  • Videos and things like that don't really interested me. But if you go on a passionate hour long rant telling me about your hobbies I would appreciate it much more. Nothing better than hearing a girl gush about her interests.

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  • Honestly, these days, if a girl actually has a hobby and it's not "travelling" (seriously, what kind of hobby is that?) she's way more interesting than, like, 90-some % of women that I would ask out for a coffee because I'd consider them attractive. My knowledge about plants can be summed up as "green things that need water to survive", so I'd be more than happy to hear more about that from a person who I'd consider a green thumb.
    Apart from that, your hobbies can tell a lot about you, as a person. If you didn't have any, by whom would that be considered attractive?

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  • it your personal alone time i dont care what you do really
    i only care what u do with me when we date / are together
    everybody is doing whatever he wants to do

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  • Yes it is. If I like a woman, I want to know all about her. Now, if I start to like a woman (whenever that will be lol) I would want to know all about her before making the next step.

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  • Yeah, we love knowing about your hobbies! So many women are kinda boring, to be honest, and it's refreshing to see someone who is living her life with a little bit of passion.

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  • I want to know that she has interests and hobbies. I alsonwanr to know that she will be interested in mine.

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  • It is not like, but necessary to assess the female for pursuit and long/short term mating selection.

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  • Of course, but it doesn't have enough to be through social media, just talk, or wear a team shirt or a band shirt, carry your guitar with you, carry a notebook with a novel you're writing.

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  • Not really be aware of those guys who are only seeking you for enjoyment though online. I was talking to this creepy chick all night last night and today as well, I had to report her and I've blocked her because she would not stop talking to me 😀.

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  • in my opinion nope 0. Id much rather be invited if i have any interest in you than seeing you do it alone. Knowing your interest is 1 thing but showing interest in me is a whole different story.

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  • Of course we do! We like to know more about you, and seeing your hobbies is a great way to learn. Plus, we wanna see if we have any in common with you.

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  • If he likes you any info can be great. Gardening will prob bore most men cause he can really take u out and do that but paddle boarding is a fun outside thing he could do with you so that's cool.

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  • Well whatever it is, its better than the girls who put heavy make up on and posts a selfie of themselves, keep doing what you're doing we need more girls like you!

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  • Well for me yes.. I would love to see those stories...

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  • Yes, if i like someone i will care about seeing what their hobbies are.

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  • Well if they like you they find the stuff you do interesting. Personally I kind of like to know what hobbies girls like.

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  • Viewing hobbies gives him the opportunity to know your interests, which spurs conversation about those subjects, and can inspire him with ideas for potential dates.

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  • A lot of guys like knowing that a woman does positive constructive stuff with her time. The reason they like knowing that is they might have some of the same interests.

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  • Usually not as much as they want to see if you are pretty, but they might.

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What Girls Said 8

  • If a guy is seriously interested in you, he'd wanna know many things about you including your (favorite) hobbies.

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  • A guy who likes you is going to be interested in anything you do.

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  • They would appreciate it

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  • If a guy likes a girl then I guess yh

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  • N😓 they don't cafs

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  • Ofcourse. They dont just want a girl without any interests. That would be boring.

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  • Do what you like

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  • I think those who are interested in you does.. thats what they always ask too when they want to get to know you.

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