A guy kissed me at the club without my permission and my boyfriend is still bothered by it when the topic of cheating comes up, what do you think?

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I was out clubbing with my friends and this older guy who was talking to me made me feel uncomfortable and kept touching my waist and I made indications that I didn’t want him but he just suddenly went in for a kiss. I felt incredibly uncomfortable about it and my friends pulled me out of the situation when they saw what was going on. I text my boyfriend about what happened right away he’s mad of course, he said he wasn’t mad at me just disappointed that he couldn’t be there to protect me. 6 months later he’s still kinda bothered by it when we came to a discussion about a friend we know who cheated and he brought it up as though I had cheated on him.

So was it cheating or was it sexual assault? Because to me it’s like he sees it as cheating even though he says he know it wasn’t and says “but still kissed another guy”. When he kissed me which I didn’t initiate and still feel disgusted by just thinking about the memory, makes me wanna gag.
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