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"No need to imagine, 'cause I know it's true. They say all good boys go to heaven, but bad boys bring heaven to you." ;Dhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=shHTYg-rOAgThe above is a joke. I personally like a good man with bad boy look. They exist.
Nice guys all the way, unless you mean fake “nice guys” who think sex is a reward for decency.
I reckon i meant both "fake nice guys" and "normal nice guys" as in like they're not jealous, they're not agressive when they feel threatened, always respectful and avoid confrontation and are overall "nice".
I’d only want a normal nice guy, but if I had to pick between a fake nice guy and a bad boy, I’d pick the bad boy. At least he’s open about being terrible.
Do you think that a normal nice guy would have a bit of both Bad Boy and Nice Guy?
By “Nice Guy” do you mean fake nice guy?
Yes, but as in like, just the good part of them, if there is one xD I don't know that's a good question, i'm far from being a nice guy so what's a fake nice guy to you?
Fake nice guys are the kind who always talk about how “nice” they are and think they’re entitled to sex from women they approach respectfully or from female friends, like they automatically deserve attention and intimacy just for being “nice”. They don’t understand that sometimes you’re not someone’s type and you can’t make someone like you.
I am sure women will like nice guy but then will end up being with a bad boy for some reason or the other.
Bad girl! The perfect girl can lockpick, gunsmith and whatever fun stuff!
Bad Boy is a Grown Man who refuses to Grow up and take Responsibility for his Actions, it's everyone elses fault, they owe him. Nice Guys are Boys who Grew Up to Be Men!!!
What about the bad boys that do take responsibility and realise when it's their fault and grew up understanding that no one owes anyone anything? I think "fake nice guys" are the ones that act like people owe them things because they're "nice" all the time.
Then their Not nice guys are they? And if they take Responsibility for their actions their not Bad Boys their probably just Wild!!!
I had a guy tell me he was a nice guy and then continued to sexually harass me at work for 2 months because I wouldn’t have sex with him. I learned that if someone has to tell you they are nice, then they sometimes are not. I’m cautious of all men now.
Wow i'm sorry to hear that. Yeah you're right most people that do say they're nice are the complete opposite of nice. Not all tho but still, who says "i'm soo nice, i'm like the nicest guy there is".Same goes for bad boys, if you have to say you're bad, most of the times it just means you're insecure and that's definetly not a "bad boy" trait. Anyway thanks for the reply, take care.
Yeah I think it goes both ways for sure. He would say that he was the nicest guy I could ever hope to meet and that there was no one better for me. He follow me, corner me, and then harass me. Anyways, I reported him and got him fired.
Glad to hear he got what he deserved. I really don't get it how someone can be that agressive (with lack of a better word) especially since you two weren't even together or had "history".
He was a friend of mine. His thought process was “I’m nice to you so I should be allowed to have sex with you”
Thays what kinda happened with me he said that fuckboys ruin it for us guys... guess who the fuckboy was lol kept asking for nudes and got mad when I didn't want to have sex with him
As a concept, I like the bad boys, but practically speaking I like nice guys. LIke bad boys are sexy but you can't really build anything with them, nice guys you can build with.
Those are both stereotypes that whiny men use to blame rather than seeing over their own behaviour and why women don't like them. Pretty much all women want a nice guy but not the stereotyped "nice guy" who is only nice to women he finds attractive because he's hoping to get laid, but genuienly polite men with maturity and at least a bit of confidence who is helpful to other people, open and understanding and respectful.
This question is so funny lmao. I noticed that most of the guys who are sweet and devoted boyfriends, like to be called bad boys while playing peekaboo with a toddler, my boyfriend would read a book to my granny when she’s sick, and bring me break fast to bed, but then outside he will try to act badass and savage, like a bad boy, which is kind of cute 😂 but most of the jerks who want a one night stand, and to fuck around like to be labeled as nice guys
A nice guy, when I was a teen I craved the excitement of a bad guy. As I got older and wiser I found I was attracted to the men who were respectful and treated me as a woman should be treated :)
Neither. I like GOOD guys. Especially Godly people.
I do not want a guy that is too nice because guys who are too nice are most likely wimps. so can I say a bit of both I would like a guy with a good and bad side to him.
Good boys are to keep as a husband, bad boys are only good as fuck toys
The dual mating strategy in action
I like nice guys, especially if they are shy. I think that's very cute.
Neither. A good man will do. Nice guys are often assholes and bad boys the same.
What's a "good man" to you?
A man who seeks an open and honest equal partnership. One who doesn’t want to impose the notions of his own sensibilities or desires over my own.
Absolutely well said
In terms of proper stereotypes, neither of those. Just a normal decent guy, who isn't a pussy, who isn't a doormat, who isn't a brute, who treats women well. Just normal. No stereotype.
They switch back and forth depending on the time of month. Alpha characteristics are desired in follicular phase Beta characteristics are desired in luteal phase.[Dr. Martie Hasleton]
Bad boy, I'm too sassy for a nice guy and I guess you could call me a bad girl😂
I like guys who have a lot of money and a fancy car
I just adore those nice guys who can kiss ass with a bad boy image. "Crunchy on the outside; soft & tender inside." :)
🤘🏼“Why do good girls like bad guysssss?”🤘🏼 bad guys for sure
would hiking/camping be a bad boys thing here in Colorado? I'm not sure rednecks fit in here cause I moved here from out east where rednecks were seen as bad bois
Yeah I’d say some rednecks/ hicks are bad boys. But camping isn’t a “bad guy” thing. Camping is for everyone😂😂btw I LOVE Colorado! I used to be from there.
oh gotcha why'd you move out? It's great here
Didn’t have family down there
oh that blows, I couldn't convince anyone to move out here either. How long you were you here? Feels like it wouldn't be too terribly long if you were out here on your own
Always the nice guy! I don't date bad boysI don't want a guy with a criminal record, or I have to constantly wonder will he cheat on me or not, lol
Nice guy. Most of the time people who claim that they're nice aren't actually nice though.
Like shy kids that are kinda quiet?
Same like the pictureIf he is bad then I prefer bad
Nice guy. But not too nice/friendly that he becomes a doormat.
I'm a good guy. I don't evil to cling to me at all.
And your also cool, acording to the replies here you must be swimming in pussy 😂
I don't care about other people's opinion. I refuse to be a bad person.
I honestly don’t see what’s attractive with men who spend time in jail I had a female friend (she was 19 at the time) trying to go visit random inmates just to find her self a “boyfriend” it’s funny on how women would wait on an inmate to be released from prison than wait for someone who’s fighting for our country (no I did not serve but had a friend from HS get cheated while deployed)
you didn't give a picture of what you think the nice guy would be. Nice guy, as long as he's genuinely nice and not faking it to get something out of me.
Nice guy. Bad guys only work in the books and movies, they have issues in real life. I'd much rather be loved and looked after and have someone to reply on.
Normally I’d day bad boys. But my fiancé is one of the nicest guys I’ve ever met. Just such a genuine, giving, kind-hearted man. So I guess my opinion has changed :)
Neither, I don't like a feminine man who has less balls than I do and I don't want a trouble maker. Just be a man who is mature, assertive, smart and compassionate. People will like you.
Girls will say nice guys, but they're all liars, they will only date a bad guy. There's a reason you see all bad guys with multiple girlfriends and literally every nice guy has never been on a date.
Not all girls are like that, but i know what you mean 🙂
Nice guy in the streets bad guy in the sheets
Best reply 😂Can i give thumbs up twice?
Kind, loyal, loving, gentle with me, but could also protect me if he had to
Nice guy by far, at least if he's actually nice and doesn't just pretends to. I do not need unnecessary drama.
Which one is the autistic weirdo?
Hahaha the so called "Nice guy" tends to be a bit off xD
Well, then nice guy, I suppose... when it comes to my mind a guy that would draw my attention I think of something similar to the male hero in the show "The end of the f***ing world" 🤔
Who wants a boyfriend who's going to spend half his life in jail
Bad boy with heaps of tattoos like a mafia 😂 but is nice in his own way ughhhhh 🤤😍😂
Nice guy. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy in the entire world. He makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the entire world.
Nice guys. But not n i c e guys. Nice guys. With shoulder length hair. Who like poetry and art.
bad boys are no good , good boys are no fun. so i try to find one that’s in the mix of them both...
Bad boys fuck better though
Always wanted a genuine nice guy lol I don't care for bad boys I end up with them because they pretend to be what I want when they aren't.
Lol women don't even know what they want half the time. Was reading a reddit thread for a tinder experiment where the guy put in his bio he was a convicted paedophile/rapist, but had "hot" photos, still got matches and messages, insane.
That's disgusting, females are just as bad as males I swear.
How many of those women read the bios though? I'm sure it's similar to men: look at photos and send a message. Or they felt that he was lying.
Most of them funnily enough, even when it was mentioned in conversation they still let it slide.
I don’t like either. But I’d go with a nice guy over a bad boy. I don’t like a trouble maker.
Neither. I prefer good conservative men who are assertive and confident. Nice guys aren’t really nice and they have low self esteem. Bad guys are bad.
A good guy with an amazing personality. Any guy can be nice at first.
Forever bad boyIll never grow out of it
Good to hear
Nice guy with the hidden option to be bad guy sometimes.
They like guys who look rough around the edges thats actually kind.
Bad boy image and flirtation, nice guy heart and romance.
i prefer the bad boy. i believe that deep inside him he is truly nice.
what type of nice guy?
How cute to see the nice guy win on paper
Hahahah while the bad boy is out there winning herpes :s
A nice combination of both.
Only nice to me but a prick in general
Nice smart funny guy with a dirty mind
Nice guys, but not self-declared nice guys.
Nice guy who's confident.
I prefer bad boys. I love adventure ;)
The one that spends the most on me
bad boy. but he better be nice to me
Ooo girl you gotta a lot to learn from.
As long as he treats his women right as is nice to her right?
@kate52 bad boys are trouble, they will make your life a living hell.
@MoogMoog or a helluva lot of fun
It might be fun at first but it won't last long when he gets bored, believe me...
@ThatAlienBoy i get bored easily too so its perfect
Then you'll cry he didn't treat you right, lol.
@kate52 Nevermind babygirl.
You being greedy can't have both lol
@GD360 i can try :)
rather be a smart guy
and stop giving any fucks
I prefer to be bad boy..
I like dominant but sweet men.
If you were writing a book, and had to describe this man, how would you do it without just saying “dominant and sweet.”?
He's a leader, smart, kind, expressive, and can fuck the shit out of me.
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