I was texting with one of my friends and he proffered that the issues I have my relationships is that they are always with older girls - my ex was 24 and the girl I'm dating now is 23 pushing towards 24.
I didn't agree with him, but I admit it got me thinking.
What's your opinion?
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You are 22. If the girl is 23, almost 24 that's what..1 or 2 years difference? it would maybe be noticeable if you were both teenagers, but at this stage it's all the same. I would understand if it was AT LEAST 7 years difference, cause the girl would be in a different stage in her life, but a 22 and a 24 year old they are the same. of course it's just a number in some cases. the last girlfriend you had she was older, but way more immature in more ways than one, and you seemed to be the grown up, so I don't see how her being older had an impact. you could find very immature older girls and very stable young girl who've got their sh*t together. don't choose the age choose who you think is compatible.
I agree completely.. very well said. 😌😊
I understand, thank you for your kind words and compliments, I wholeheartedly appreciate them.
The point was trying to make is that since I'm already quite short, I'm already "disadvantaged" so I should get with younger girls and not older ones for some reason.
Sorry I thumbed up the poster
Hmm what is it you think her being younger would have to do with you feeling disadvantaged?
Being with a caring person who respects you is the most important than any size. People have loving relationships in all sizes and you are quite a catch! 😊😊
what? that's a new one. what does age have to do with height? do you think women still grow once they are adults and the young ones are shorter? :D :D if anything younger girls are more vain and still into looks, so they fantasise about the tall guy who might not have anything else to offer. older girls have been around and learned to appreciate a man who has something more to offer than his looks, they care how he treats them and makes them feel. height is more mens insecurity, women might prefer a taller man but it's hardly ever a deal breaker. older or younger girls height issue remains same way like DD bra size is for men.
I agree with you both on all those points.
In his opinion I just attract "problematic" women this way.
I just laughed it off and told him to mind his own yard, since he's not really tall too and he too had less than happy relationships. I think he was trying to be helpful, even if he was a bit misguided.
I think with the last relationship you had you will be very careful about starting a next one seriously. Tall or short, older or younger you need to check if she is a nice and stable person first haha. Noone is perfect but height or age does not determine if someone is problematic.