Who has the advantage when it comes to dating: men or women? (Page 2)
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Women for sure. We have so many advantages over men. Not just in dating, but in everything.
Where's my sandwich?
I want one too.
Women. I hold all the power to decide if I wanna let him in or play the cold shoulder
Well from my experience women have always been the ones bringing up the "what are we" talk. If anything I feel like I've had that control. You must mean at the very beginning which I agree with. Everything changes though once we talkin about commitment.
@cavmanier fair enough 🙂
@cavmanier haha thanks for the subtle compliment 😜
@cavmanier it really does. How considerate of you 😊
I don’t know. I think dating probably stinks either way. It’s probably a case by case basis.
The answer depends on age. Molyneux pretty much sums it up. Except for the small percentage of really attractive males, women hold all the cards in the dating game in their teens and twenties, but the tables turn around age 30 and then single men have the advantage for sure.
It's never been difficult for me to get dates, only to find someone I actually like in return.
Can only judged based on that, so women.
Most guys will date almost anyone, but girls have much higher standards, which makes it harder for the men.
Women will break the rules for an alpha (I don't have sex on the first date, i'm saving myself for marriage etc) and create said rules for betas."
Are you serious? Women, they don't have to do anything other than work on their appearance, which they're taught to do at a young age.
Actually that's hard stuff! ... Also, what if you were a woman dumb enough to pick an asshole that always likes the new models! Looks can't save you there! Looks fade. Maybe if you have a child (or two) with said ass hole, then maybe MAYBE he'll stick around, and give you money for your hair appointment but if not, it's bye bye for you and you're out in the streets to look for a low wage job with your non college (or even high school drop out) self!
Time to spend money (that you don't have?) on face lifts, butt lifts, hair extensions to attract that older fella with money as well! BUT then you look at the clock and you're pushing 38 having a birthday next month. You then try to settle for your supervisor at Walmart if he'll even have you even though he still lives with his mom (aka his "roommate") and plays video games all day!
@SueAnon84 I do have money, and I work very hard for it, if that's what you're suggesting. If you want to go around spending money you don't have, that's your own fault. Even ugly women still have guys approach them while average guys are left alone as there's always a better guy around.
1. You're just generalizing about that stuff (I did agree that women had the upper hand by the way).
2. No I wasn't referring to me, I was just illustrating an example of a woman that can also make mistakes in her younger, "prettier" years. No body is perfect.. unfortunately lol! :)
Anyone who says men is a fucking idiot or in denial
Whichever is in shortage. In some cities single women outnumber single men and it's easier for men. In other cities it's the opposite.
Women. Look half way decent and just show up and many desperate dudes will do anything to be with her at least for one night.
Women do in their youth then I think the tables turn around the age of 30 then men have a bit more to offer
Its widely know that women usually have it easier to get dates/sex
That's not even the definition for feminism , the term is abused here. I really wish they see the term as 'women getting equal opportunities to jobs and contribute equally as men in the society' instead of 'I fuck around till I want to settle down' , this dude is sexist and bitter anyway in the terms that he said ' it benefits alpha males and women lose their value when they get older so they have to settle down?' Like , women's appearance and ability to give birth is the only value.
Well I think it pretty obvious the definition of feminism has altered since the 1920s those feminists marches are full on anti male but I don’t really care about feminism I just wanted to see who people thought had the advantage dating so please vote if you can thank you
I think in general women have advantage before marriage : more choice , easier to be accepted , etc
but men have advantage after marriage : no need to go through severe physical mental change when have kids , can mostly like keep working without being affected
I don't think not being able to give birth is considered an advantage, nor is wanting to keep a job to help your family out.
That guy in the screenshot is an idiot, then again I do think women have it easier.
Most women can get partners by just sitting there, it's the opposite for men.
Obviously women. Just look pretty. The guy is expected to do everything else.
Women there's millions of guys who would hit without hesitation girls want a goddamn checklist before you even qualify
Women just need to sit there and look pretty.
Men actually need to work for it.
Well I've always had women hit on me if I hang out in social groups so that's not totally true. I agree a guy isn't going to be hit on if he's walking around Walmart or something lol while that can happen to women.
Hot men and hot women.