Why was he purposely trying to make me jealous?
Why would he try make me jealous?
Why was he purposely trying to make me jealous?
He's fishing, he wants to see what he can catch. The easiest way for a man to pick up a woman is to go after the one that likes him. He obviously does not like rejection so he scatters his seeds all over the garden and is waiting to see what grows. Don't put any emphasis on your relationship with him, since you are starting to get to know him you see that you are not number one on his list. Since you are on a list you shouldn't even bother trying to compete to be number one. His purpose is not to make you jealous but he apparently wants to see what fish will bite the bait so he can reel them in. Ignore his stupidity and give him less and less time because if he wants to spend time with other people give him more time to do it don't waste your time. It seems to be that he's insecure about his own manhood and wants confirmation through his conquests. Don't be another notch on his belt because if you try to take all the attention, he has you in his pocket. Sounds to me like he will be in the friend category a dog none the less but still just a friend an acquaintance if you will.
Hahaha... WOW... I've never heard of a guy doing something like this... I've seen girls do it--and only the idiot ones at that.
I don't know what to tell you... Except the guy is pathetic. I would take this as a BIG red flag... This guy is likely a douchbag. Sorry.
Because he’s insecure and needs reassurance!
Unfortunately this goes hand in hand with cheaters! They need the reassurance because they have been unfaithful and can’t believe that their partner hasn’t!
You only think someone is lying when you have lied yourself!
If you have never lied then why would you think someone else has!
Cheaters are the most insecure people in the world...
Because they have done it! They think everyone will!
Doesn’t mean they don’t love you... it’s because they hate themselves that they seek it from anyone! Sex becomes something they need to see if they are popular! But means nothing to them
If he did this fully knowing you have some feelings for him, he's just being an outright dick, maybe tryna make you feel bad about yourself. He's probably super insecure himself and maybe thinks you're too good for him, so he's trying to lower you down. You don't deserve that kind of negativity at all. Guys like this are gross - some of them will do stuff like this cos they're too nervous to admit their feelings and see if you feel the same. But sounds like he's got no confidence issues so he's just doing this to be an ass and make himself feels like he's got soo many girls who want him
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Firstly it was all about his ego, and secondly... no matter how much you want to deny it, women find men attractive... that are found attractive by other women.
Think about it. You're here asking us about his behavior. Asking why? thinking about him...
If you look at what Iguerrero said... that is what nice guys do all of the time... but women aren't interested in them.
Only to a woman that had ''dissolved'' the ego would this behavior be truly repulsive to the core.
Probably likes you and is trying to test you, to play hard I guess, cause men can do it too. He kinda pushed it too far if he indeed was on a date, but overall, since you told him he knows the answer, he knows you like him, so I'm assuming you guys will soon clear things up. Don't let him play with you.
Good luck.
I am confused did he really go on a date or just say he did. Sounds like a drama king asshole. I would dump him. I have a 1 strike you are out rule. Hitting checking out women smoking or cussing me I am done. It worked well cause it weeded out losers. You cannot change anyone and there is no winning in arguing with a man. I do not like drama. I got an awesome man and no games.
Men are trash.
In a more precise answet, it depends on what you and he have going on.
He might be looking for more commitment, he may just be a jerk.
There's always the possibility that he wasn't trying to make you jealous, just doing what he does and then wanting to hear that you want him.
I don't ascribe to that last idea, but you know your relationship with him better.
I am seeing many different possibilities here:
1. This guy is an asshole and is trying to make you jealous/desperate for him so you ask him out or sleep with him
2. He is not an asshole and is just fishing for a compliment or is trying to light a fire under your ass to ask him out
3. He's socially awkward and doesn't know how to respond
4. He wants to see your reaction of wether or not you like him
Best answer in my opinion
Took the making you jealous game way too far. He needs to act like a grown up and treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Especially if he does want to end up in a relationship with you.
First I'm glad you didn't write a Fucken essay tank you. He is a kid he is disrespecting you. Read ur post to ur self. if you had a kid or a friend what would you tell them. If you stay with him that means that. U are excepting it. Don't get mad in the future if you get hurt.
Run don't walk, He Has LOSER BOYFRIEND stamped Boldly on his forehead!!! Trying to make someone jealous is Emotional Abuse!!! He is Manipulating you, as I said Run and Run Fast, Don't Look Back...
Hahahaha a Narcissistic Coward Abuser down voted my Opinion, Love when I hit a Nerve!!!
To check if you are interested in him I guess... But that's just douche bag behavior.
He did go too far. I would probably leave him. That's not something I'd put up with.
That would be a turn off because its very disrespectful to you. Sounds like a little boy.
Do you really want to date a guy who acts like that?
He wants to punish you for something and show lack of scruples.
I think more than a competitive relationship is with this guy not possible.
Because he is an arrogant prick and apparently he can get away with treating you like shit before he has even started dating you because you are that stupid.
Fishing for compliments is NEVER an acceptable thing to do. Creepy as fuck.
Because he's immature and doesn’t know how to properly court you
Insecure people might see jealousy as a way to validate feelings of attachment.
Playing hard to get, perhaps?
Very immature whatever the reason may be. :/
He's a dick I cut women off if she ever told me that
Maybe because you were not showing any interest in him. Or maybe when you were first getting to know him. One of you were playing hard to get or playing games with the other one.
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