Would you give a second chance to someone who rejected you in the past? (Page 2)

Question

A year ago I liked a guy I work with and I asked him out. We went out but then he told me that he's not a boyfriend material at the moment, that he's dealing with some other stuff. He apologized and thanked me for asking him out, and that was it. I didn't want to ask any more questions, a no is a no, so I dropped it and said it's fine. I know for certain that he didn't have a girlfriend in 5 years and hasn't dated anyone since. Everyone were teasing him about it and saying how he is weird (apparently I wasn't the only one he rejected).  Now, a year later, he asked me out out of nowhere. I was very surprised, didn't see that coming at all. He was very nice about it, he basically said "Is there a chance you would ever give me another chance?". I asked "What changed?" and he said "I changed". I told him I'll think about it because I was really in shock and couldn't give him the answer right away. I would lie if I said I didn't like him anymore, I never stopped liking him he's a great guy. But he rejected me. I dunno, what you think?

diphylleiagrayi · Answer

if your feelings/ur heart still wants him then you should go date with him before any regret comes.

Daniel3035 · Answer

No, if I got rejected then nothing has changed if she's asking for a retry it's her misjudgement of character or wanting someone else, either way, you don't get a second chance with me.

ReasonCalm · Answer

He didn't exactly reject you did he. He told you in the most honest humble way he's not ready for a relationship and now your going to hold that against him! Dammm the world is so knife 🗡 cut.

PartRaptor · Answer

No fuck those women they were just trying to hold out for something better

simon4602 · Answer

Give him another chance that great of him to have the power to Handel him before anyone else. Cause I'd don't have self right you no good to anyone else and if he asked you like that he loked you the whole time to

EleanorRigby · Answer

No I wouldn't. I would ways wonder if he asked me out just because he knew I was available.

bulletbob555 · Answer

Go for it. If you don't feel it like last time Just let him down like he did you. Who knows you could have the time of your life

BrotherFrost · Answer

The topic name is misleading. That was not rejection. It was "i like you but i i can do this now because of XYZ".

MLEONIII · Answer

No... And chances are, I have moved on, soooooooooo... Yeah...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Sure; maybe. But that's on her. I'm not putting any effort into any kind of pursuit.

brian_parker87 · Answer

Don’t do it. If a guy really likes you, no matter what the circumstance is, he will pursue you.

mayur955 · Answer

Rejected once. Rejected forever. I'll never give a chance.

superdramamama · Answer

I am trying that right now. He says it can work if Iam not so controlling and critical but he does everything wrong. I have to help him.

feuind · Answer

Every one said he s weird, So maybe u have to consider that also i disagree that he didn't date any girl in 5years it's just impossible.. take care!

ralph98 · Answer

Go for it... if u like him and if he's a great guy.. surely go for it

DavidEtn · Answer

Everyne makes mistakes, maybe he was truly going through stuff. Give him a chance

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe a chance take it slow. Gotta make sure I’d trust her she have to earn it. I don’t wanna be play head games.

Browneye57 · Answer

You'll never know 'till you try.

Lunatic1 · Answer

Maybe, depends on how it happened.

xane838 · Answer

Nope. If he didn't like me before then why now?

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