Not really, the height preference is natural and it's accepted so that's half the battle won. The weight preference is also natural and those who fight against it will learn that the hard way.
It's a preference but you can't make that comparison because women have weight preferences too lol. It'd me comparable to men having a very strong boob size preference.
Personally I think a tall woman or a large woman is not only sexy but more attractive than the counterpart mainly because she feels some sort of guilt or lack of something she admires and someone else but regardless it's subjective and that's all there is to it.
"She said she prefers tall men and my male coworker said he prefers curvy fit women. She got upset and called him shallow. I just feel it's a preference" That always blows my mind 😂 the former really can't be helped and the latter can but they think its okay 😂😂
I would say her preference is shallow if she has a specific height. If she doesn't, then neither of them are shallow. Genetics play a part in both height and weight though so I can understand why people have such preferences.
I can't control my height. And some women can't control their weight. So to ask that of the perfect man that's a few inches off, well expect it when a man doesn't like your fake hair or small chest or big butt (or lack their of for some.)
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Anything to be the victim.
I like tall guys but you're not allowed to like thin girls. I like guys that make a lot of money but you're not allowed to dislike girls who don't work at all. I like guys who don't have kids but you're not allowed to dislike girls who have had 1+ kids from previous relationships.
I'd say most of us really don't care about your height. So instead we take something we care about as you care about height - weight. Notice you caring about height isn't a problem if you let us care about weight too 😅
The double standards, entitled attitude and hypocrisy of modern women do bother me. I understand they have preferences in men and that's OK, but they need to stop whining and taking offense at ever preference men have in women.
It's preference as i see it , like some want date curvy /thinner Women while other girls want to date Men , Taller and well built it can vary?
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It's not the same because - Height can't be changed, you can't "become taller". Weight on the other hand can be changed, you can lose weight if you eat less and/or workout.
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Not really, the height preference is natural and it's accepted so that's half the battle won. The weight preference is also natural and those who fight against it will learn that the hard way.
When someone has their own physical preferences but belittles others for also having preferences, it's hypocritical.
It's a preference but you can't make that comparison because women have weight preferences too lol. It'd me comparable to men having a very strong boob size preference.
People having preferences is just a part of life. If they're too rigid about it, they lose out on good potential partners.
Personally I think a tall woman or a large woman is not only sexy but more attractive than the counterpart mainly because she feels some sort of guilt or lack of something she admires and someone else but regardless it's subjective and that's all there is to it.
"She said she prefers tall men and my male coworker said he prefers curvy fit women. She got upset and called him shallow. I just feel it's a preference" That always blows my mind 😂 the former really can't be helped and the latter can but they think its okay 😂😂
Lo never thought of this but that’s so true 🤣 and no it does not bother me cause I’m 6,1 and well don’t like fat girls
I would say her preference is shallow if she has a specific height. If she doesn't, then neither of them are shallow. Genetics play a part in both height and weight though so I can understand why people have such preferences.
I can't control my height. And some women can't control their weight. So to ask that of the perfect man that's a few inches off, well expect it when a man doesn't like your fake hair or small chest or big butt (or lack their of for some.)
Anything to be the victim.
I like tall guys but you're not allowed to like thin girls.
I like guys that make a lot of money but you're not allowed to dislike girls who don't work at all.
I like guys who don't have kids but you're not allowed to dislike girls who have had 1+ kids from previous relationships.
You can't compare weight preferences to height preferences, because you are completely incapable of changing your height.
It can be shallow if it's slightly different. Like if a woman is slightly over weight and a man says no. Or if a man is slightly shorter.
Why can't they ask what height you are aswell? Do they think women can't feel insecure over their height
Men generally dont care about women's height though.
Trust me I'm pretty sure no Male cares about height
I'd say most of us really don't care about your height. So instead we take something we care about as you care about height - weight. Notice you caring about height isn't a problem if you let us care about weight too 😅
The double standards, entitled attitude and hypocrisy of modern women do bother me. I understand they have preferences in men and that's OK, but they need to stop whining and taking offense at ever preference men have in women.
Nope, she can have all the height preference she wants. I hope she has a minimum dk size too.
It's preference as i see it , like some want date curvy /thinner Women
while other girls want to date Men , Taller and well built it can vary?
It's not the same because - Height can't be changed, you can't "become taller".
Weight on the other hand can be changed, you can lose weight if you eat less and/or workout.
There is nothing wrong with preferences for Anyone. Why be with someone you have no interest in to please others.
People have their preferences but it's hypocritical when you have your preferences and you judge others for having their own preferences
I dont care, everyone has preferences.
And if a woman does not want to date me, because I am not tall enough, she is not the right woman for me anyways.