Is there something wrong with a guy who is 25 and still likes high school girls?

[Anonymous]

Cheerleader cuties

I guess it reminds me of the young romances I missed as a teenager. If only I can wake up and be 16 again. I would change so much about myself.
High school girls are some of my favorite types of girls. I feel like I would have a better chance finding a younger girl with no baggage and no romantic history than an older one.

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[Shamalien]

controversial opinion here, but no it's not weird at all, older men seek young women, that's the way nature has always worked. A 28 year old marrying an 18 year old is what my grandpappy did and I'll be damned if society denies me the same privilege. I will be established, bring wealth and developed character, she will be relatively undamaged, bring fertility and care.

[Asker]

Exactly

[GreatnessBack]

I mean it is bad because you missed out on your teen fun and now you are longing for it, but it's illegal to do that.
Best thing you can do is find a chick who's brain is still in HS.
If that doesn't satisfy you, then sir you may be an ephebophile.

[Asker]

I am an ephebophile. Thank god age of consent is 16 in most states.

[btbc92]

What's wrong yiur inability to accept that evervod has baggage. Even 16 year old girls. We have so much baggage at that age. We just refuse to talk about it to people we can't trust because our opinions and feelings are often ignored. I never dated once and even I had tons of baggage. It's being a hypocrite. It is wrong. And you can and will go to jail.

[Just_a_human]

What kind of baggage do 16 year olds have?

[btbc92]

Family problems, bullying, feelings of inatiquency, some may have been kidnapped, robbed, raped, abused, abandonment issues, school related problems, and for those who dated younger? No different than anybody would go through after breakups. It just piles up as you get older.

[btbc92]

I remember most of my baggage from elementary on up I still go through it. That's WHY I'm more guarded and causpus now. In fact my first emotional abuse from somebody outside of my family was from A kid in elementary school who told me because I am a Christian no man is going to want me for a girlfriend wife or mother because I refuse to have premarital sex before marriage. Most of the Russian girls in my school already lost their virginities by 12 because they were dating teenage boys over 15 and up.

[btbc92]

And before anybody want to say how that stereotyping in them true. I grew up and went to an elementary school that was predominantly filled with Russian kids and overall Caucasian demographically. And similar cultures sexualized their girls extremely young. That's why they dressed so "fasionable" that looks older teen wear to young adult. It's sad. Anybody who thinks that kids don't got baggage ignorant and it's out of touch with the reality around them. And I'm not saying it to Michael make fun of anybody. But this is why a lot of children now especially of my generation going down to Generation Z is already filled with so much mental health issues. And why depression is one of the number one Mental Health issues we are facing in this country.

[btbc92]

Guys like him sadly have no care how his sexual fetish is hurting these girls. This guy even admitted somewhere in the comments that he had sex with a 16 year old at 20. And he is now 25. I don't think he sees he just admitted to committing a crime.

[Asker]

@btbc92

The sex I had with her was not a crime. The age of consent in her state is 16. Age of consent in Canada is 16 also. In Europe, the AOC can be lower.

Right now, I only want a young woman without a romantic past. Her sexual past does not really matter as much. Who she shared her heart with in the past does.

[Asker]

Wait, you never had a boyfriend or a first love before? You are the type of woman I have always wanted.

[btbc92]

Ugh! You got to be kidding me. Age of consent is with people of the same status. A teen in high school as long as the other party is also a teen within 4 years of their senior. Which means. Of the guy or girl is 18+, it is still a crime if the person is a minor.

[Asker]

Not true. I looked up the laws in her state. Even her dad was unable to charge me with statutory rape because she was of age. He tried but failed.

Like I was asking... you never had your first love? You are the type of woman I have been searching for.

[Just_a_human]

@asker it's not uncommon to have never been in a relationship but why is that so important to you?

[Asker]

@Just_a_human because I never had an actual relationship and I don't want to give my heart to a woman the first time if she is not doing the same in return. I only want me and a woman to be each other's first loves.

[Just_a_human]

@asker well that explains a lot

[MzAsh]

Why would a young girl want your baggage? Your thinking here is predatory, regardless of what age of consent is.

[Anonymous]

It's actually pretty normal. Its the same imprinting mechanism that makes you partial to the type of music you listened to during your teenage years. There's a kind of nostalgia and emotional connection to the things around you when you start experiencing those emotions and hormones that almost nothing can erase.

[MannySimms]

Depends where you live.

[Asker]

The girl in that pic is definitely a cutie

[broken_heart_at_48]

My opinion is if you came around my high school daughter you have big problems like 6 foot 2 inch 230 lb man that hits like a bull kinda problems. Hell yeah there's something wrong with you how old do you think for you personally is to old for a high school girl

[TonyBologna25]

There are some 16 year olds that are really attractive. Guys will say no to this as they’re afraid of being deemed as creepy. But biologically we are attractive to fertility and youth. The key is to just stay away from them lol. It’s morally wrong to pursue a girl that young.

[normalice]

It is a problem. But an extremely common one. Losing the sexual competition in high school is something every guy has to get over, and quite a few do not.

[Asker]

I just wish I had a girlfriend in high school. I never did. Hell, I am 25 and still never had a girlfriend.

But many high school girls are so pretty 😍😍

[normalice]

Having a girlfriend and fucking her are worlds apart to high school girls. That is, in fact, the main advantage to focusing on girls your own age - as women get older they retain fewer hang-ups about sex and the idea of waiting several years before having sex is nonsense to most girls in their mid 20s. But for high school girls it's par for the course.

[Asker]

Sex is great and all, but having a girl's heart is the best.

[normalice]

So, high school girls are pretty but you are only after their heart? Sounds more like you just want a naive girl who will make you the focus of her life. Should you manage to find a high school girl to oblige you, you will be disappointed. And there lies the path to pedophilia - constantly seeking the increasingly naive so they can't call you out on your failures. I advise against it, but I know how addictive it is to imagine having what you want..

[Aiko_E_Lara]

First of all, biologically speaking, it is normal. When their puberty starts, that means they're able to produce and It's a human instinct but we're living in a society where we should follow the society rules and must include morality. That's why there are different age of consents in different countries or societies.

Second, if you're only talking about "high school" girls, then you can select a few of them. She must be 18 and that's it.

[Thatsamazing]

You mean a normal healthy human male? No, generally speaking, there's nothing wrong with that. No one complains about there being anything wrong with a normal healthy human female.

[boggboss]

Yes it is lol and can come off a predatory but meh you know it would be a issue as a whole otherwise you wouldn't be asking

[Asker]

You have to admit many of them are cuties 😍

Some agree. Some disagree. That is why I ask.

In such a liberal society we live in, I don't see the big deal to have attraction to younger women.

It was the norm at one point in time.

[boggboss]

So was child marriage the norm at one point and having slaves but they got dropped as they where barbaric practices lol and no I don't see them as cute as I still consider them children they are still in fucking school man what's wrong with you

[Asker]

I see them as cuties who have a full heart to give. That is where you and me differ.

My grandparent's time it was normal.

I mean, these young women can drive and work, huh?

[boggboss]

They can but again they can't drink or buy smokes so are they actully adults look you can be attracted to them all you want but it won't change the fact that the majority of people will see it as predatory and every year u get older will make it worst

[Exorcist_Rampage]

No because any honest man will admit he likes seeing them in skirts doing cheerleading, even if a freshman or sophomore.

[one1wild00]

I'd say yes, Have to "Not see them" till they are 18 otherwise it usually means a lot of trouble for the person over 18.

[Asker]

Age of consent is 16 in most places

[one1wild00]

Not in this country, it's 18 here.

[Asker]

Not in the US, it is 16 in most states. 17 or 18 in some others. It depends on which state you live in.
@one1wild00

[bamesjond0069]

I mean im 33 and my last girlfriend was a senior in high school so... lol makes sense to me

[pigoat]

You can find them attractive just don't fuck them in a against theblaw area

[GayLoner]

Yes it means they never developed outside the HS mentality lacked a social life afterwards and never could meet women so he naturally finds those in HS still attractive because thats where he left his mental state at

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes, it's wrong. You're NOT 16 anymore, dude. That period of your life is OVER. Face the facts. Accept reality.

[13IsALuckyNumber]

There is something wrong with you. No offense, but I mean a lot of offense when I say that is weird and should not be happening.

[Dchrls78104]

I believe that it doesn't say much about you as a man, and in my country you could be jailed for interactions with schoolgirls.

[cgehr783]

Legally the only high school girls u can b with r 18 and there r lots of underage girls pretending to be 18 or 19 on dating apps. Its just saver to try and find a woman 20 or older

[Anonymous]

That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age. yes they do yes they do
Just date 18-21 thats when they still have THAT LOOK

[Jackblue]

You need to stay away from girls who are under 18 (or even over it but still in school).

[Twalli]

18+ is okay, younger is getting to the point of being creepy

[letssee89]

Yes, most of them are under 18. Therefore, most of them are still children.

[Asker]

I consider 16 and 17 young women. They can drive and work. You can register for the military at 17 I think.

[letssee89]

You can sign up at 17, but only with parental consent. The law states that persons under the age of 18 are considered minors, therefore, they are children.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say children at 16, especially at 17. Many states you can be charged as an adult at 17. I lost my virginity to a 16 year old girl when I was 20. It was great. She was a virgin too.

[letssee89]

In 2014, a 10 year old was tried as an adult. Are you suggesting this boy was an adult because he was charged as an adult?

[Asker]

10 is prepubescent. THAT is a child. 17? Nah, that is a young woman.

[letssee89]

If you think it's okay, that's your prerogative. Maybe your local police would like to hear you're trying to have sex with a high school sophomore

[Asker]

Age of consent is 16 most states and Canada anyways. I am not trying to have sex with anyone.

[letssee89]

There's places in Mexico where the age of consent is 12. That doesn't mean it's okay.

If you aren't trying to have sex with someone as young as a high school kid, what's the point of your question? It sounds like you already have and are seeking validation for your misdeed (s).

[Asker]

I don't want just sex. I want a relationship.

[Anonymous]

It is kind of creepy.

[Redstang88]

Yes.

[ContinouslyConfused]

You're a pedophile.

[Asker]

Nope, wrong. I am an ephebophile.

[ContinouslyConfused]

I hope you rot in prison. Goodbye.

[zagor]

A pedophile is someone who is sexually attracted to children. Since HS girls are generally through puberty, attraction to them is not pedophilia. You may still find it offensive, but it is not unnatural or deviant. In fact most guys of any age will check out an attractive HS girl. That doesn't mean they are going to try to hit on her.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Because it is a biological a man can get attracted to girls who just hit puberty. The time when she can produce and populate. I'm talking about the average straight men here. And by the way, that applies to women too. before you call anyone "pedophile" for that, you're just basically calling everyone a pedophile by nature. And FYI pedos are those who gets attracted to kids before puberty so you're using the wrong word.

[Asker]

@Aiko_E_Lara thank you!

[Aiko_E_Lara]

That doesn't mean you can act on it. There's no excuse for that

[Asker]

@Aiko_E_Lara
16 is legal age in most states. I will probably only go for a girl 17+.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's safe to assume you'd go for someone younger than that since you're talking about high school. Teens at high school are 12-17 and the ages 16-17 is only like 20% if the high school population so make things clearer next time.

[Asker]

@Aiko_E_Lara
There are no 12 year olds in high school. High school girls range anywhere from 14-18. I'd probably only go for 16+ where legal. However, I think all those ages can be cute and attractive. Yet, many of them are too young unfortunately.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Maybe in your place but in a lot of places there are 12 year olds but most of them are going to be 13. Again you still weren't clear i'll just a reminders before your dodge that