My boyfriend always avoids questions about our future together. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 1 year and a half. We are both in university and I know its early to talk about marriage and stuff but I just want to know if he can see a potential future with me. I love my boyfriend very much and I can see a potential future with him. Whenever I ask him if he can see a future with me or if he thinks that a future can be possible for us, he always avoids it. He also avoids talking about what he loves about me and why he loves me. He never gives a detailed answer and just says he loves me. I just don't want to be played or heartbroken if he does something stupid. I don't want to force him to answer but it will put me at ease if he can tell me what he thinks about me. Should I keep asking or just put this topic aside for the future? Thank you for answering~

[Anonymous]

I'm 30. I'm single. I'm a guy. I'm an only child. I have a father who only had sisters

I don't want marriage. It's not something that I really want. I've seen up to 75% of marriages, fail. True fact. If you look it up, you'll see 75% of all marriages, fail

I also, don't want kids. I think they're annoying little brats. But, as you notice. I'm an only child, a male, and the song of a father who only had sisters. This is called Namesake keeping. I will HAVE to have a kid. And I will, eventually, I'm just having a hard time finding the right woman, who will be accepting of all this

When I find a girl who's accepting of all this, she doesn't even have want to get married or whatever.. but, what she needs to say to me is, I respect what you want, and I'm willing to wait, or whatever. SHE NEEDS TO UNDERSTAND THIS

Sorry if this was of no help, but, I felt you should hear this

[markscott]

He apparently has not long term goals with you. That may mean he never will, or it may mean not yet. The only way to know, is to ask him. On the surface, the most likely, is that he will not have long term goals with you.

[proteus912]

My boyfriend and I started talking about moving in together about five months into our relationship. Now we are nearly coming to our 2 year anniversary and we are moving in together. If he doesn't want to talk about the future with you, it is likely he doesn't see one with you

[rockrewls]

Sounds like he may be afraid of commitment, you may have to be patient but I know after so long patients grows thin.

[jackddd]

Try to find out why he doesn't wanna talk about it. Is he afraid of commitment or is there more?

[GOOSEBOY78]

he has a fear of committment

[outside_Toronto]

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