I ignore mixed signals, talk to me like an adult lol
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... until she wants it to means yes and then magically read her mind and know when it is suppose to mean she wants you to try harder because women are always playing a fucking game and shit testing men so this stupid ass mixed signals bullshit doesn’t mean no almost all the time so fuck off with your feminist retardation bullshit.
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Anonymous
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If she can't be direct enough for you to make out a definite "yes", find someone else.
I wasn’t trying to make a universal statement. I was saying I prefer to be the asker. bc for me it cuts away extra ambiguity And bad timing... I don’t ever need to let someone down I’d not interested or explain I’m not ready if I am interested.
Yes I’d get rejected , but you get rejected in a sense any time you like a person and they don’t ask you out. And at least if you are the asker, you can find out quickly. Or quicker.
Rejection doesn’t disappear bc you don’t ask. It simply takes away any chance you might have had to go after exactly what you want.
Mostly I just prefer it bc if the timing thing. I’m not going to ask a guy out when I’m not ready, so if I’m the one asking, I’m not having to deal with complications bc I’ve been ashes before I’m ready.
Yea and a no... no meaning he cud be going through a situation or stuck in a situation... plus he cud be unsure about us...
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I agree with older and wiser. Sometimes that’s right, sometimes that’s just life, it doesn’t mean something won’t come of it because sometimes it works out. But what I will say is only give as much as you get.
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I ignore mixed signals, talk to me like an adult lol
... until she wants it to means yes and then magically read her mind and know when it is suppose to mean she wants you to try harder because women are always playing a fucking game and shit testing men so this stupid ass mixed signals bullshit doesn’t mean no almost all the time so fuck off with your feminist retardation bullshit.
If she can't be direct enough for you to make out a definite "yes", find someone else.
I take everything as a no until it was made clear in any way, that she wants to be with me.
They r exactly. mixed.. be truthful.. ask for a more in-depth meaning
Yeah be an adult lol 🤷♀️😊
I had to tell myself that if I didn't ask her out yet, I'm not even ready for a date with her, let alone a relationship.
But you would answer clearly to her right? It’s not a mixed message if you’re not ready if you say so 😊
I’m not great at that so I was just wondering.
Not interested, is easy. Not ready is hard to explain bc people assume it’s saying no, nicely.
That’s why it’s so much easier to be the asker. Then you know you are ready. 😛
@VIVANT I guess it's avoidance of failing with a relationship once more.
@VIVANT It is definitely NOT easier to be the asker. lol
@Jamie05rhs yeah, it's like you deliver the pizza, I mean we ain't in the stone age anymore, where a proposal was worded by "ugh ugha"
@scooogy I didn't get the pizza delivery analogy. Can you clarify?
@Jamie05rhs There are scenes in tv shows where the deliverer gets upset whenever the receiver declines the delivery.
@Jamie05rhs
I wasn’t trying to make a universal statement. I was saying I prefer to be the asker. bc for me it cuts away extra ambiguity And bad timing... I don’t ever need to let someone down I’d not interested or explain I’m not ready if I am interested.
Yes I’d get rejected , but you get rejected in a sense any time you like a person and they don’t ask you out. And at least if you are the asker, you can find out quickly. Or quicker.
Rejection doesn’t disappear bc you don’t ask. It simply takes away any chance you might have had to go after exactly what you want.
Mostly I just prefer it bc if the timing thing. I’m not going to ask a guy out when I’m not ready, so if I’m the one asking, I’m not having to deal with complications bc I’ve been ashes before I’m ready.
@scooogy I never get upset. That usually means I get a free pizza to eat myself. :)
@VIVANT Okay, well, yeah- for a female it's always better to be the asker.
"Yes I’d get rejected , but you get rejected in a sense any time you like a person and they don’t ask you out." That isn't true, though.
And no answer is an answer.
Absolutely!!
Nothing new lol such is life..🙃
Yes. If its not clear its probably the wrong choice.
Yea and a no... no meaning he cud be going through a situation or stuck in a situation... plus he cud be unsure about us...
I agree with older and wiser. Sometimes that’s right, sometimes that’s just life, it doesn’t mean something won’t come of it because sometimes it works out.
But what I will say is only give as much as you get.
That is fucking brilliant, thank you
I can't take credit for the original thought, just for sharing it... 😊😊
Yes cause playing with my mind our my heart ❤️ will get you fucked up worse then any drug
I always treat mixed signals as a no, I don't have time for that shit.
Maybe yes, maybe no.
We should take them for what they are and then avoid that person. If you're giving mixed signals, you're messing around!
Some people are extremely insecure. My answer is, take it as something from someone who is unable to be assertive.
I would they may not be but the girls heart isn't a hundred percent in it.
Definitely. Either someone likes you or not. There's no such thing as "mixed signals".
You're allowed to interpret mixed signals as a no.
Just remember, people don't intentionally give off mixed signals.
Probably. Mixed can mean she/he may be interested but using you as a jnc. Or they’re just being tactful. Either way move on.