My friends always get more attention from guys than me. Should I just give up on dating? (Page 2)

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For years I’ve been constantly compared to my friends and noticed a pattern of guys going after them and not me and I knew it was because of my skin colour  because I’m not white with blonde hair and blue eyes it seems like I get pushed to the side.  yesterday I posted a selfie of me and my friend on Instagram.. 2 guys messaged me asking “Oo what’s your friends name? Is she single? She’s stunning”  I then jokingly replied back saying “what about me?” And they said “you’re hot but she’s my type, I like blondes”  this is a recurring pattern and I’m actually fed up of guys showing an interest in my friends and not focusing on me. I feel ugly, I feel undesired, it’s actually got to me.. my mum always told me black girls will always be the least desired in the dating world but things are getting better and more interracial couples but if that was the case why am I still single?  Just to clarify I go for men of all colours, but seems like they all like the same blonde, white girls. Any advice?

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer the skinny black girl over the chubby white girl. But I am not a black guy so “thicc” isn’t my thing.

life_isshort · Answer

Fuck your friend # sorry no offence , everyone is unique  U will have your chances ,

Jedai · Answer

No because because they probably are just putting them selves our there for anyone, and what happens there is they those guys who are just want to be palyers. So they probably get hurt a lot. Because those guys who hit on them are hitting on some may more girls, because they are uncertain if them own self.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I believe you will find som3that will love you and care about you for who you are.

michael1469 · Answer

Girl you are 21... you should have no problem finding a guy.

andy530 · Answer

No you’re gorgeous you’ll find a good person to be with

Gregorysub · Answer

Never give up I like u better than the blonde thick chic

SilverRain92 · Answer

You look attractive, just find a guy who is into black girls

Kathy_Scorpio97 · Answer

Your Gorgeous if you were closer I’d take you to dinner.

Knuxx · Answer

Everyone has thier preference and you are pretty. I'm pretty open but I have a preference still.

DaMack999 · Answer

She is cuter so I'd find a friend am cuter then them. Lol

AcidT0y · Answer

I'd for sure prefer a black girl over a blonde

Nahid1707 · Answer

You’ll find somebody.

Crimsonstorm · Answer

What? you are a Goddess next to her

neoxx · Answer

Aw no you are girlfriend worthy.

Anonymous · Answer

You have some attention?

Anonymous · Answer

Wgtow? 🤷🏽‍♀️

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