Does a man need game to attract you? Is a man with no game a deal breaker? (Page 2)
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Not having super polished social skills, charm and charisma is... normal. It's not a deal breaker for me.
I'm not sure what that means.
I'm just looking for a guy who is interesting, has some hobbies, has a passion for something.
A guy shouldn't have to really flirt too much or has to know what he is doing.
"has a passion for something."
Does cyber security count?
Women here are going to lie like they always do. As you suggested, if the guys is hot, women will ignore all of the crap they spew about how important personality, honesty, and a sense of humor are. Looks are all they care about... this is exactly why those men can cheat so freely... and "game"? If the hot guy has no game, they'd find it adorable.
It not easy to win a woman's heart without game but too much makes suspicious of a player, womanizer. Actor... or
Probably best answer so far
Like swag? I think just a little bit. He needs to know how to approach woman, when it's the right time to approach and what to say. If you're awkward and come off creepy, then it's going to be turn off to a lot of women.
Too many girls here don't understand the phrase "have game". They think you mean play games with them.
Trust me, the guy has to have game, as you understand the term.
I prefer no game. My boyfriend has no game and I love that lol
Do you find it endearing or something?
I find it human.
And having game is inhuman?
To me, “game” means “arrogance”. I like humility.
Interesting!
Yes!!
I first thought it was because maybe it looks kind of cute when they might fail at "game"
@tauri97 That’s the “human” part I was talking about
Ahh okay it is kind of cute then, not just more agreeable lol
@tauri97 Yeah it’s cute because it’s human when you fail
I personally dig that
A man with good looks does not have to anything. Looks matter
Ha! Ok :)
I have over 100 games in my Steam library and women ignore me.
And for the past 4 years I don't play games a lot and women ignore me still.
Therefore I choose "Game (s) or not - it won't make a difference".
You really hit the nail on the head with this one buddy
Haha, I thank you for pointing that out :D
To complement what I said earlier - One key ingredient is meeting women in quantity or in the right places. Women are mysterious but one, who actually really likes you will make it obvious for you and won't bother with mind games. Yes, it IS a true rarity.
you need game and/or looks to get laid.
you need personality and charm to get a relationship.
If by game you mean some type of social skills and charisma then yes, but if you mean fakery and bullshit and no.
Good clean straight forward answer, thank you. And tacos ARE awesome! I am having some today :)
The trouble with, "having game" when meeting a woman and then a relationship, is you have to keep "having game" on because that's who she fell in love with. And keep "having game" can be so draining.
No I'd prefer a guy tht's just honest I dont like it when a guy plays games. I'm assuming men feel the same way about women.
I don’t know why so many people equate having game with playing games. I don’t want a woman who plays games but I do want a woman who has game. Flirtatious back and forths
Yes.
I can't date a guy who's game is too impressive, it's just an act.
Do you bed them though?
Having a good amount of game helps get your foot in the door. Too much makes you a player. Does it ultimately matter? No. Cause someone out is there is going to love you for who you are.
Well that really gets down to the point of my question. Can a guy with no game get to the stage where you find out who they are?
Its not really about game tbh its more about confidence
No, he doesn't need game if he is exceptionally attractive, or meets a lot of regular girls in his daily life, or is lucky
For most women, he does. There are exceptions though.
The exception is probably women who also have no game lol
Well, I think if a guy is appealing enough in other ways, he can
I consider any guy who plays the game the same as a virgin. If you're playing a game it's that you're playing a game you're not serious if you need a game to attract you or it's a deal-breaker then that person is a waste of your time.
looool the denial women are heaping out due to pride xD
If "game" means what I thought, a. k. a mind games then a man without these games would absolutely get my attention.
Game is not what you think it means
Then what is game?