Women, because it's harder for them to find someone who meets their expectations than guys, and especially ones cthat meet the expectations of their friends and families.
Well, I'd say that expectations have a lot to do with satisfaction from dating, i. e., it's quality. But if you want to solely see it as a matter of who has an easier time getting approached, well, that's obviously women. I think that would be too narrow a view of dating and it leaves out the crucial impact of satisfaction.
Sure, except that a lot of males don't even get *noticed at all in the first place* so their satisfaction doesn't happen either, on top of not having hardly any options. It's a double-whammy rather than a single-whammy.
Sounds like you just want to be right and don't want anyone to disagree with you. You are basing that on blind dates and violence, which goes both ways, and violence is not part of dating. That's just a part of life in general.
Females have it harder. Men peak at ages 18-26, so all the attractive ones with good personalities are snagged quickly. Women peak at ages 16-35, so men have a longer period of time to find an optimal mate.
I'd say it's still harder for males (talking straight relationships, of course) because the violence problem applies anywhere, even outside of dating, so it's not really a dating problem per se.
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Women have far more options when it comes to dating and date multiple men at once! Just saying!
Men's reputation is really fragile when it comes to dating. They can be easily demonized whenever anything goes wrong even if it is not his fault. And yes even if he is abused
Right now, it’s hard for me to find someone to get to know.
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i want to say guys, men, because the vast majority of people in the world, who go far into adulthood without ever having had a relationship before or still a virgin, they reach their middle ages, even more, the cases are typically male-dominated.
I think you’ll find it is actual reality. I know too many men that have been beaten or physically hurt by women.
And to answer your question, no one has it worse when dating. Doesn’t common sense apply anymore? Don’t people have friends nearby, don’t they tell people where they are going and who with? Don’t they arrange transport to and from the date anymore?
"Don’t people have friends nearby, don’t they tell people where they are going and who with? Don’t they arrange transport to and from the date anymore?" ... What?
Uh, do you know any males that have been murdered by women?
I don’t think anyone hitting anyone is socially acceptable! I’m simply saying I know people, friends and even family who have been abused by women. Hospitalised even. So don’t assume that women don’t pose a physical threat. Even if I didn’t know anyone personally, I would still be clued your enough to know it happens. Open your eyes!
They can be. But they have more power to do the following:
- take advantage of a guy financially. - use his attention to make the guy she really wants jealous. - use him for favors. - last but not least she now has the power to #metoo him. A mere accusation no matter how baseless it is can really harm him.
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Women, because it's harder for them to find someone who meets their expectations than guys, and especially ones cthat meet the expectations of their friends and families.
Um... your logic for females having it harder is that their expectations are too high? Yeah man sorry but... no.
Well, I'd say that expectations have a lot to do with satisfaction from dating, i. e., it's quality. But if you want to solely see it as a matter of who has an easier time getting approached, well, that's obviously women. I think that would be too narrow a view of dating and it leaves out the crucial impact of satisfaction.
Sure, except that a lot of males don't even get *noticed at all in the first place* so their satisfaction doesn't happen either, on top of not having hardly any options. It's a double-whammy rather than a single-whammy.
Finding someone can be very random and occur suddenly. Finding what you actually want is more difficult.
That's more a point of self-inflection, I would say. Not external.
Men because it's harder for men to get a care than a woman.
Sounds like you just want to be right and don't want anyone to disagree with you. You are basing that on blind dates and violence, which goes both ways, and violence is not part of dating. That's just a part of life in general.
Who are you talking to?
Overall, probably women, women typically have more options than a guy.
I mean to say "probably men".
I'm thinking the pressurized role lands on us men considering we're suppose to "have our shit together".
Definitely men because of how likely it is to be looked over In dating women are very quick to dismiss guys
They are very quick to dismiss us, you're right.
Like I have never even dated that’s how bad it’s been
Sorry to hear that man. I hope you have better luck in the future.
Well most women think I’m hideous
Sorry woman can pick and choose. Males have to wait in line to be picked
Females have it harder. Men peak at ages 18-26, so all the attractive ones with good personalities are snagged quickly. Women peak at ages 16-35, so men have a longer period of time to find an optimal mate.
LOL uh... your age ranges are a little off. Like, a lot, little off.
the disabled if they even try to learn dating in the first place
Uh, sure I suppose, but that isn't the question.
Disabled people want love too, disable people are men & women so they count too. I’m disabled.
@Kitty46 wanting love and being able to find it are two different things,
I'd say it's still harder for males (talking straight relationships, of course) because the violence problem applies anywhere, even outside of dating, so it's not really a dating problem per se.
Women have far more options when it comes to dating and date multiple men at once! Just saying!
Men do. I am 5'4" and many women often tell me I am handsome, yet won't seem to want to date me. Many women based my very short height on things.
Guys do but women have to sort through a lot of losers and abusers
Women just have to open their legs, plain and simple.
Mostly, yeah.
Men's reputation is really fragile when it comes to dating. They can be easily demonized whenever anything goes wrong even if it is not his fault. And yes even if he is abused
I don't think it's not just when it comes to dating but overall. But talking about overall like life in general, both are equal but different.
Right now, it’s hard for me to find someone to get to know.
i want to say guys, men, because the vast majority of people in the world, who go far into adulthood without ever having had a relationship before or still a virgin, they reach their middle ages, even more, the cases are typically male-dominated.
Men... we are the ones rejected. Even Casanova was told No once in a while.
Say woman easily I honestly feel bad how tough it is for them not only in dating but in the real world
Women can’t be violent too?
Sure they can, but it's not the same, and to imply that it is is disingenuous and not in line with actual reality.
I think you’ll find it is actual reality.
I know too many men that have been beaten or physically hurt by women.
And to answer your question, no one has it worse when dating. Doesn’t common sense apply anymore? Don’t people have friends nearby, don’t they tell people where they are going and who with? Don’t they arrange transport to and from the date anymore?
"Don’t people have friends nearby, don’t they tell people where they are going and who with? Don’t they arrange transport to and from the date anymore?" ... What?
Uh, do you know any males that have been murdered by women?
So now all men that date are murderers? jeez... what’s next?
Are you mentally challenged? I need to know in order to properly tailor my future responses to your particular sensibilities.
lol. You’re no match. Sorry about that.
Uh... right.
Johnny Depp & his ex-wife are in court, she is an abuser & a liar.
Generally speaking, women don't pose a threat to men physically. Why do you think it's so much more socially accepted for women to hit men?
@Kitty46 Yes... and that is one case.
I don’t think anyone hitting anyone is socially acceptable!
I’m simply saying I know people, friends and even family who have been abused by women. Hospitalised even. So don’t assume that women don’t pose a physical threat.
Even if I didn’t know anyone personally, I would still be clued your enough to know it happens. Open your eyes!
They can be. But they have more power to do the following:
- take advantage of a guy financially.
- use his attention to make the guy she really wants jealous.
- use him for favors.
- last but not least she now has the power to #metoo him. A mere accusation no matter how baseless it is can really harm him.
It all comes down to each individual and how they are