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He takes me out on dates, messages me everyday, opens doors for me but hasn’t made a move. Any advice? (Page 2)
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Dating doesn't come with a pamphlet, seems like he is into you if he is paying for stuff. Maybe give him a bone and make an intimate move? Give him a kiss on the cheek or something small
Whip out your breasts mid conversation see if he takes the hint.
This is why nice guys finish last, and then wonder why. But maybe he's just being a gentleman? So consider making the first move.
He is probably afraid to make a move as you might become an angry feminist and accuse him of all kinds of shit.
He might be a virgin, you're attractive, so attraction isn't the problem here if he is straight.
23 and a virgin? 😮
Sure, I mean most people might think its impossible, but it does happen. A guy could attract various women over the previous few years, but for a variety of reasons he might never have closed the deal.
If he isn't secretly a virgin and isn't secretly gay, he would be eager to take it to the next level.
One other alternative is that he might be religious or something.
You're a good looking fit girl, he should be making moves by dates 2 and 3, even if you hold out.
So make a move on him, i always hate that girls always want the guy to make the first move everytime. Take some initiative and you make the first move. There isn't some rule that states guys must always make the first move or anything
I think your hot, why not just put his junk in your mouth unexpectedly and that will break the ice I'm sure. Always has for me. from the guys side that is.
Sounds like he is a gentleman and he might be looking for or expecting a lady...
No you are sexy. And very pretty. Not sure why he is acting that way.
Could he be desensitised to attractiveness in women?
I see so many beautiful people, I had to learn to keep my jaw off the floor, and now it's hard not to forget I'm holding it closed all the time
He probably doesn't want to ruin things with you. He's afraid you're not into him like that, and if he shows interest, he'll be rejected or worse, like accused of sexual harassment.
But I keep accepting dates with him and I kissed him so how is that not interested? Lol. I clearly don’t make him sexually excited otherwise he wouldn’t be able to keep his hands off me
Still, I think he's respecting you.
Perhaps he is religious and is taking his time, though it could be something else.
It's absolutely normal. It's not necessarily to initiate sex with a girl whom you like too early
*not necessary
I don’t think it’s weird at all. Don’t expect him to just do things for you. If you want something to happen then make it happen directly. Don’t weasel around.
It’s not so much me wanting him to do things for me. It’s more I’d like him to solidify that he has a crush on me
That’s just a roundabout way of saying the same thing. You might rationalize it as this line about the crush, but how does it manifest? With you expecting him to do stuff. It’s the same thing.
How do you think relationships start? 😂 gotta day the “I like you” like to get the ball rolling. He hasn’t been vocal about it. Forget it, I don’t think you understand
And have you been vocal? Have you laid it all out for him?
I'm like him with my crush. On the one hand I'm waiting for my bachelor's degree to come to an end, on the other hand I still fear rejection from her (which others say is rather unlikely).
Maybe he is praying you're an actual nice girl and not a slut. Obviously he's made a mistake if you're hoping to hookup already.
It’s not about Hooking up. I just want to feel sexually wanted. I struggle with confidence as it is
Yes. The sexual need you are having is a characteristic is testing you on which he finds undesirable
So you think I probably shouldn’t bring this up to him and just let things happen naturally?
Yes. Lets see if you can pass his test by not looking like a slut or by moving on to another guy who gives you sexual attention...
He might be stuck on that part. Sometimes the female needs to initiate at this stage
Be straigh up with him ask him straight out then you will get your answer
“Why haven’t you tried to have sex with me?” 😂😂
Ask him see what he says
you shouldn't be going on dates, during a virus anyway
Why are celebrities like kylie Jenner and Cardi b going out partying then?
My question is how long have u known each other for?
Since August
U should be in the talking stage for at least 3 months and if he's already bringing up sex that's a huge red flag clearly shows he's a fuck boy but in ur case it's the opposite so far so good