Is this considered cheating?

[Anonymous]

I just messed up and accidentally sent my nude to my guy friend. I was texting both of them kinda at the same time. My guy friend because we were talking about apex and obviously my boyfriend because we always talk. Butt my boyfriend likes pics of me so I kinda was trying to surprise him with a booty pic. Except I failed and accidentally sent it to my guy friend. I don't know what to do because I never cheat and I am always so loyal but this makes me feel so unloyal!!! I haven’t told him yet because I already know he’s going to probably be mad at me. Would you tell or is it not a big deal since it was an accident?

Also just to mention my boyfriend knows I message this guy and this guy never ever flirts with me (Thats why were friends). I instantly told my guy friend it was an accident and he told me he deleted it and just act like it never happened. Let me know what I should do plzz🥺

[nevermoreqt]

That doesn't mean you cheated on him or anything like that, at least for me. A nude picture doesn't mean you cheat on someone, specially when it was an accident. If you trust your guy friend that he haven't kept it, then you shouldn't worry about anything. Although I highly recommend to let your boyfriend know if you want a healthy and long term relationship. He will be mad at you but deep down he will appreciate your honesty and you don't hide anything from him.

[Asker]

I was thinking the same thing I just overthink and always see what others would do first haha. Thank you!

[nevermoreqt]

Overthinking is the worst thing that can happen. Just try to avoid it next time 🤗

[virgin20]

That's not cheating at all! It's just an honest mistake.
There's no real need to tell your boyfriend since it's all been rectified and your friend has deleted the evidence.
If you have to tell him because of your conscience then do just be honest with him! I would maybe be a bit puzzled at the start but understand the honest mistake

[Hangry22]

You didn't do it intentionally so it's not cheating. But it's better to bring this up with your boyfriend if you feel bad. Because if you hid it, if once this thing comes up somehow your boyfriend will see it as cheating

[Asker]

Yeah you have a point. I just hate when he’s mad at me and I know he will be just cause he always says how he doesn’t like people seeing whats his lmao geez I really need to pay attention better🤦🏻‍♀️

[Hangry22]

Just suffer for a few days. It's better in the long term. He will appreciate that you told him maybe also show proof that your friend deleted it

[Yourman86]

Not a big deal.. just keep it to yourself. It was an accident 🤷‍♂️

[Anonymous]

I don't think so; embarrassing is more like it.