Oh well. Their loss, if some guy hots on them and they back away that's a problem. The guy certainly doesn't feel that way or he wouldn't have approached her in the first place.
Well nobody has ever told me that I’m out of their league but if they did I probably wouldn’t see it as them being insecure. Sorry for not giving you a better answer
Nah i def wouldn't do it for that. Mine is more so, if i say it, its not that i can't land them. Its that i dont wana work to “keep” them. people like that you kinda have to go out of your way to keep them impressed
I'd say it's insecure because it's about your competition and you don't feel up to being better than the competition. Or to put it another way, you don't like guys who have options and actually chose to be with you. You want the guy who is desperate and has zero choice. Like he's homeless and living at the YMCA and you offer him a free place to live and a hot shower with a cup of coffee.. some Netflix and a blankie. Am I warm? Ha ha.
Because being narcissistic is being cocky and patronizing.
Is it not cocky and patronizing (narcissistic) to think your above or better then someone else because of your position, wealth or whatever the reason is. And deny them based off of that?
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Usually guys don't get this. But it's certainly a self esteem issue.
I know a lot of guys who girls felt looked too good for them lol
Oh well. Their loss, if some guy hots on them and they back away that's a problem. The guy certainly doesn't feel that way or he wouldn't have approached her in the first place.
Yea but there's doubt you can keep him around for long
I use to think that about my wife, that she was way out of my league. It was indeed insecurity talking. But she chose me, so i have zero complaints.
Thats good
I've said it to guys to see if they'd agree or not.
I like when they try and convince me that they're out
Lmao wow
In my experience it's their egos when she got more problems she's trying to compensate for what she's lacking an attitude
No check update
I take it as a compliment and if I think they're cute then I'd tell them they're wrong and probably flirt
Aww haha :)
My friends older sister said that too me once and it blew my mind because I always thought she was out of my league.
They're either insecure or they're trying to let me down easy.
Probably the last one lol
@DizzyDesii i wanted to say sorry when i kept trying to flirt with you even when you said no & told me to stop
i was just very loney i meant no harm to you
I'm normally the one being told I'm not in someone else's league, heard it enough to believe it's true.
Yea its a compliment
It's really not, at least in the way it's been said to me but I'm sure some might see it that way
No. Leagues definitely exist wheather a person likes it or not. You're not meant to be with just anyone.
Exactly
I view it as a blessing of sorts. If anything it shows their arrogance or narcissism, something that would come to light inevitably.
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Well nobody has ever told me that I’m out of their league but if they did I probably wouldn’t see it as them being insecure. Sorry for not giving you a better answer
Its not insecure in my opinion either
Not at all. They're just not wanting to get played.
Right
Means the person who says it feels there not good enough for the one they think is hot or smart
I agree
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If a girl told me that I would just see it as I am not her type and she's not attracted to me.
I’d find him extremely attractive. But he wouldn't be my “typical” type so i dont think we’d stay happy together for long
I usually take it as a compliment and get a little big headed lol not so much her being insecure.
Exactly. I thought others would see it that way but ig not
I don't think i am out of anyone's league lol so i would be surprised
Lol you're out of my league 🤣
No way lol you are the one who's out of my league but i still try lol
Nahhh
I just tell her it's fine soon because soon she will appear like a goddess too
Awww haha
It's serious not a sweet moment usually at the time.
Insecure and/or fishing for compliments.
Nah i def wouldn't do it for that. Mine is more so, if i say it, its not that i can't land them. Its that i dont wana work to “keep” them. people like that you kinda have to go out of your way to keep them impressed
I'd say it's insecure because it's about your competition and you don't feel up to being better than the competition. Or to put it another way, you don't like guys who have options and actually chose to be with you. You want the guy who is desperate and has zero choice. Like he's homeless and living at the YMCA and you offer him a free place to live and a hot shower with a cup of coffee.. some Netflix and a blankie. Am I warm? Ha ha.
Lmao no. Im fine with competition but not like celebrity or model competition
Okay
I do not know on this one.
Narcissistic and arrogant would be more accurate.
Narcissitic how
Because being narcissistic is being cocky and patronizing.
Is it not cocky and patronizing (narcissistic) to think your above or better then someone else because of your position, wealth or whatever the reason is. And deny them based off of that?
No the question is saying that theyre turning you down because they think you're too hot for them
O ok, ok I was just focusing on the title question I thought the person was saying you're out of my league in the way I said above.
Oh nooo. If theyre cocky, they’d say “im out of your league” lmao
True, I just misread it.