I called my boyfriend and a woman answered his phone?

A woman answered his phone and said “he’s busy right now”
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- Well... that obviously sounds suspicious.
So, clearly you need to confront your boyfriend, see what he has to say, and then determine whether or not you believe him.
There could possibly be an innocent explanation of some sort. But whatever that might be... won't be something that people on GAG are likely to think of.
So try not to freak out until you talk to him. But definitely talk to him.
With the information you posted and nothing more... you are likely to get a bunch of responses that confirm your worry that "he is clearly cheating".
Listen, you will literally never find anyone on this planet who is more against cheating than I am. I still think that talking to him is the ONLY way you're going to gain any actual insight into what's going on.
I think that people's answers to this particular post are not going to be helpful. They can't possibly be. Be careful about taking to heart other people's reactions to this post. There is not enough information for anyone reading this to tell you ANYTHING aside from what you already know "hmmm... a woman answering your boyfriend's phone... sounds like he's cheating to me"
That is not helpful to you. All it can do is to solidify your (understandable) prejudice that this is him cheating. Maybe not. Make him look you in the eyes and explain. You'll be able to tell if he's being honest. I really hope there is some other explanation. Good Luck. 🙂
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38100- Why get so bent about whether you're number 1 or number 2? That's really what this question boils down to. You wouldn't be asking if it was an older woman who answered, rather than younger sounding.
He's seeing someone else, and you're not sure if you're the girl on the side or she is. What difference does it make? All aspects of poly relationships aside, he was boning down with another woman and didn't think it was relevant to tell you about that.
You're willing to accept that there's another woman, but not willing to do so if it means that you aren't number 1. If you aren't in the know, you aren't number 1.
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