Did he lose interest- I want opinions specifically from people who have done this (but if you were on the other side, share what you learned is ok)?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this guy since March. We didn't start going on dates til April though. Last week he went on a trip for a week and every moment leading up to the trip he sounded like he really was interested. He told me he would see me when he got back from his trip and while he was away was sending me snaps of his vacation. We were mid convo last Thursday when he just disappeared. I thought maybe he was busy and didn't think much of it until he popped up online posting a lot of pics on snapchat and instagram. Because I didn't wanna seem desperate, I never asked him what's up until I saw him flirting with a girl on her instagram post. by this time, 3 days had gone by since he stopped messaging. THREE. So I asked him if everything was okay? He said "Yeah, just got back tonight"- I replied "OH, glad to hear you made it safe, by the way was wondering what was the name of that recipe you cooked me so I can make it." Now I haven't heard back from him for over a day. I hate feeling like this buthow should I confront him without seeming pushy or rude or clingy? Do you think he lost interest? And if so, how should I handle this?

[kyleelyn199723]

Sounds like he isn’t interested in you. I’ve been through this and a guy interested wouldn’t be flirting with other women while ignoring you.

[Asker]

It's just weird because he told me before he really liked me. And we haven't even done anything physical so I felt like that was really authentic. Is it bad that I've fallen and if he randomly hits me up I'll answer...

[kyleelyn199723]

I don’t think it’s necessarily a bad thing that you answer him. It’s normal, you like him. I just don’t see how a guy that is interested in you would ignore you and entertain other women on social media.

[allthesttars_]

he’s not interested in you, block move on to someone else. if a guy is interested he will text no matter what.

[Asker]

But he never did this before. Just since the last two days of his vacation. And he told me he really likes me. Maybe he lost interest? In that case , still just block him u think?

[allthesttars_]

if he’s active on ig and takes days to reply that definitely means he’s not that interested. if a guy is interested he won’t go days without replying, especially being on social media. i would block and move on to someone who won’t ignore you.