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There’s to many whores for them to put so much effort into one
Lol you got downvoted. I agree but I think it’s more too. Look at society and how we treat men. Divorce and family courts overwhelmingly are against men and with divorce so god damn common is like why bother. And marriage overwhelmingly favors women. I don’t think men get anything out of marriage. Not now that sex is easy to get like you said. Also they’re tons of stories of men being destroyed by lies, used by women, and no consequences for the women responsible... I myself got yelled at at Walmart for holding the door to the milk open and saying excuse me about 10 years ago...
Because of my work and hobbies I don’t get many chances to date in person limiting myself to online dating, I don’t drink so bar are out and there’s no women in my line of work and that’s where 30% of relationships start! As you can imagine with no women in my life physically and the only comparisons I see online being... well who’s among other things... is easy to not have a good opinion of women.
Exactly lol
Your right it goes for men and women neither one tries and I agree with u most men do get the shit end when it comes to divorce and family court my husband got divorced almost 10 years ago and he got nothing plus lost all custody and rights to his daughter just cause his ex is a bitch the hole time after she left him he paid her rent bills any time she called for anything he gave it he did any and everything for his daughter and now can’t see her talk to her nothing it’s horrible how the system is
No actual good guy will put hard effort for a girl who hooks up every now and then with hot guys. You will get either bad dudes or dudes who pretend to be nice but not inside. Actual nice guys either avoid hookup women or can be shy. And it’s 2021 a lot of girls put efforts too , instead of compiling why hot guys not returning their effort. Perhaps , review your life , and dating choices. I am not saying this in a judgmental way...
Without context it's hard to say, but it seems like whenever a guy wanted more then just sex, you ran immidiately/ghosted him, because there is no way you only met 7 guys total.
Do you want to have sex only hookups, or are you looking for a relationship?
Why would anyone try hard when your goal seems to be to just have sex?
Almost all your "partners" you rated them based on if you had sex or not, why is that relevant.
I met 7 guys in last few months
I never had this problem.
Since starting dating i had a total of 4 bfs 5 first dates. Only 1 of them didn't get a 2nd date.
My current boyfriend loves me and puts in lots of effort.
Keep texting only for meeting in person.
People, specially guys, are not aware of how they act except if in front of the other person.
Maybe I could give it a try
Our society is going to shit with people no longer able to communicate properly. Those of us who got together with SOs in a time before online communication have a much better chance. It’s a sad state of affairs. Literally.
@loves2learn
Agreed, online communication as a whole (texting, social media, dating apps) are ruining basic communication skills, which are required to have any sort of meaningful relationship.
@spartan55 exactly. It’s sad but true.
Because guys who actually try get thrown aside at some point. So guys usually do a green light/red light thing with you to let you know, yeah we like you. But we're not gonna let you think we'll do anything for you.
There are many men that are trying. Your claim of men not trying is false.
You just need to find the right man. Either you are choosing your men wrong, or you need to set better standards. This is not all men's problem.
Smart for such a young age.
@azura_88
Just like some women think with their cunts. Fuck off, feminazi.
@joeblow123 Precisely. It isn't just men thinking with their dicks. Women do that too. People who say otherwise are uneducated morons.
Because there is still a 60 or 70% chance roughly of us getting rejected no matter what we look like or how nice we are.
But why do they even agree to meet in the first place then
Because they like you but they don't know how you feel about them so they aren't going to make a move unless you show him you really want to be his boyfriend at least otherwise if he does it could easily be misconstrued as harassment which is what Guys are afraid of.
Ide say with good reason. In the uk is a hate crime to harass a woman. And harassment can be as simple as leering.
@VanillaSalt Exactly.
I put as much effort into it as she does. So if she's not showing any back then why bother?
So after u go home from a date, u expect her to text u?
Feminism has taken every role away from men and given it to women. Men don’t try anymore because we’re told we’re not needed for any function in society and that where we do try to make a difference only makes things worse because women do better and are better than men in every way.
because we are finally realizing that life is not what porn and Disney movies have been trying to convince us is all about
I don't think it's just men. I think people in general have the feeling that there are 100 more people on Tinder, POF, whatever. Relationships are much more disposable than they used to be. Now ghosting is a thing. Seriously? Have some class people.
Your answer sweetheart... You keep going after bad men. And because of that, you think ALL the men are that way, thus deterring the men that would actually try.
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That's kind of life isn't it? No one can take constructive criticism regardless of gender. You can know someone badly overweight who talks about how they are a "sack of potatoes" but they will still get mad if you point out they spent 5 hours a week on netflix and 1 hour a week max exercising.
A lot of guys just feel like the potential rewards for putting in the work isn't worth the amount of effort it takes. 'Tis a sad state of affairs
Yep why should I spend time pursuing or trying to find a woman? It's like trying to find a grain of sand in the desert. I have more important things to do with my time.
@HamburgerFries I would like to think that they are worth the effort, but I certainly understand why a lot of men feel the same as you.
the feminism has destroyed dating for all genders, men obviously hate it because it's not equal and fair and quite disgusting actually so no man (including me) wants to go through the whole, just a little time relationship and sex. And tbh im glad that boys are finally understanding this and respecting themselves and their bodies.
Have you ever thought that maybe you're only interesting in a sexual way? What kinds of things do you talk about on your dates?
Actually we talked about everything, but it’s true this is all tinder but still
Maybe you aren’t talking about the ‘right’ kind of everything. Do you ask them is they are looking for a relationship or just dating casually? Do you ask them where they see themselves in 3 years, 5 years, 10 years, both professionally and personally? Ask them what their dreams and aspirations are. 🤔
"Talked about everything". Everything to you isn't everything to everyone. But if you can talk about "everything" over a two hour date, I wouldn't consider you very interesting at all
Generally speaking, women made it a chore.
Pile that on with the modern technology and culture, then what's the point?
I mean look at you, you just listed a bunch of guys -- that would be a nope out from me right there. That would put you more in the category of "seems like she could be fun for a fling, but I'm not investing in her".
Not even for a fling. Not worth the effort
Well then how much effort it took would be the deciding factor. But either way, the point is that considerations of longer terms or "trying hard" are already off the table.
Honestly you sound toxic as hell, I wouldn't wanna date you either.
Might be a problem with the people you're selecting?
You hooked up with 2 guys out of 7 losers. Raise your standards.
😂 they were hot tho
They’re out there but it’s good to keep your options open and date intentionally so you can come across a man who is genuine.
Simple, men who get picked only want sex and paint all guys in a negative way.
The guys all females claim to want and go after, are the ones they aren't picking and now we're just going to let you have the guys who just want sex because you're the ones who get to decide who to date.
As for the females who pick the guys they end up in relationships with, good on you, this comment obviously excludes you.
Its not worth it anymore, women bring almost nothing to the table yet act like they are the catch of the century
Nobody tries hard anymore. It is easier to get out your cell phone and find somebody new than actually putting in the work getting to know somebody and actually cultivating a relationship.
I am the cute workaholic guy. I just like my work and am not anywhere near where I need to be in my career before I start worrying about fun and relationships
I told the ladies during their interviews about the product their interviewing. Most of the time they either rejected the product or given me their fake businesses cards also most of the time
Because women spent too many years rejecting guys for the fun of it, you reap what you fucking sow.
another entitled bitch that has nothing to offer except her vagina puts all the blame on men.
What do u have to offer, little d
You not responding is you ghosting them not them ghosting you.
So you fucked the 2 obvious fuck boys and then wonder why they aren't interested in more?
Sure is a fucking mystery this dating business.
The right men will try. The rest either aren’t very interested or aren’t very invested in keeping up the effort.
Wow, @MzAsh. This is one of the rare times that I actually disagree with you!
Why is that?
Well those 7 guys tried. Some guys who didn't try, single, shy, bad communication, maybe just busy at work, workaholic, or fully invested to achieve their goal so have no time for social life at moment. Many more reasons out there.
@MzAsh Because a guy can be very interested in a girl, but he will only try as hard as she does. One-sided relationships never work.
i think she is just no good well if you take look of her list she fucked the hot ones and complains one of them won't text if she wont😂why should I make a effort with her to into a relationship if she is banging the hot dudes on the side if she wants a relationship stop fucking loads of dudes on the side pick one guy go on a date or 2 have sex with him if you feel like and go on more dates and see how it goes although my thought are kinda moot since I suck at relationships😅
You also suck at stringing a proper sentence together. Start with that and then you can talk about qualifying a woman later.
well sorry for speaking English *good* my dear female
and I have no romantic interest in you and I am on my phone so dont really care if I write like shit but you can't expect a relationship if you are fucking the "hot" dudes ok the side while jumping the good dude through many hoops before being intimate (i feel we could be serious so I want to take it slow) just say hey I want to get to know you better first simple as that
“Expecting” a relationship is never a good thing. But this has nothing to do with who a woman is sleeping with vs who she is qualifying for a relationship. A woman can do both and still get the good guy. Although, I’d suggest just avoid giving attention to anyone who isn’t relationship material all together but that’s just me.
@jspl90 No shade, bro, but she's kinda right. I struggled being able to read your sentences as well.
@MzAsh “A woman can do both and still get the good guy.". I actually disagree. Good men don't want to marry a woman who sleeps around just for fun.
I think if a woman shoved it in his face that she’s slept around, then I can see how it would put him off. But if she didn’t do that and kept her past personal like an adult should, it doesn’t have to be a big deal.
True. Attitude is a big factor.
But my main point is why would you treat sex like a recreational activity when you could actually be seeking a genuine romantic relationship? A lot of guys are turned off by that.
(And it's even worse if you do both at the same time, because then you just seem like a two-faced person.). (By "both at the same time," I don't mean having sex with someone that you want to fall in love with. That's actually morally reasonable. What I'm referring to is fucking a certain type but dating another.)
@jamie05rsh yeah i know usually I take my time (sometimes) write them out but I was at work🤔and even then my grammar is kinda bad
@MzAsh I'm not sure if I'm interpreting your statement correctly, but I disagree when women think that if a guy isn't trying hard or at least trying enough it automatically means he's not interested in something more than just sex. Sometimes, the woman doesn't show enough signals or puts in effort and the guy would interpret this as disinterest.
@MzAsh So much cope in your comments. And the fact you resorted to becoming a grammar Nazi goes to show you're arguing from an emotional rollercoaster. Start with trying to understand someone's point of view rather than discard their comments altogether because of grammar mistakes lmfao
Also, the "right men" aren't going to invest in a woman who gives herself to others for free. The men who would invest in her, I can bet my arm that she wouldn't want them back. It's obvious that she wants the Chads
The type of men she met up with is definitely questionable and could have easily been disqualified from the start, along with guys who judge her for her body count and who can’t type a coherent response.
well maybe she is the one that should be disqualified
That depends. Women usually qualify the man first.
Well, everyone does seem to be disqualifying each other these days. But it is what it is.
@MzAsh No men with self respect is going to invest in a woman who has been giving herself for free to others. I love how you try to make such men out to be devils, yet all they do is excercize their preference. It's in a man's biology to be turned off by promiscuous women. Same as women get turned off by short men. It has nothing to do with being a bad person, it has everything to do with biological programming. Deal with it, hun.
The question comes to mind, what do you consider promiscuous? I don’t think the original poster was promiscuous given the information she gave here. Just dating. Slept with a couple. Her biggest flaw I see here is poor taste in the type she’s entertaining.
@MzAsh Many consider that being promiscuous. In any way, that's what a lot if not most people would consider slutty behavior. at least from the male perspective that is. Her taste in men don't help either. But good job pushing the problem to the male side. It's always the men, isn't it? Typical entitled female behavior. You're only validating the stereotype.
So who’s definition are we supposed to pander to? How do we know what is considered promiscuous and to who? Why should we care?
Well, the Asker should care, otherwise she can continue starting posts like this one lmfao. I mean by all means, stick to your mentality. Women like that who are still single shouldn't be surprised to actually be single. Fact remains: Men generally despise women who sleep around casually. Even if it's once or twice.
Well then don’t date them and leave them be. There are plenty of men to go around who don’t have such an attitude about it.
You think so ash? The population of men to women is a difference of 1%. For every man that don’t want you there’s a woman who don’t get a man. Consider other things now like mgtow where millions of men say no, consider the cheaters and the players, consider the men that just because don’t want a woman... that’s a lot of single women who may want a relationship. Then take out the men that you women say don’t meet your standards. Now you know why posts like this exist and why there’s so many where have all the men gone videos on YouTube... and it don’t help that women, like you said, don’t know “who’s definition to pander to.” Is obvious you pander to men’s perspective... after all your trying to attract men not the other way around.
I personally have always met men just by living my life the way I please and it happens by chance. They got my attention. I’ve never had to bend over backwards to attract a man. When women are attractive by nature, they won’t have to do much except qualify their options properly. However, many women don’t know how.
Ya see that’s part of the problem right there. Women don’t have to do shit and men still give them attention... awfully pretentious thinking you can get what you want with putting minimal effort. Men have dealt with this unfairness forever however that’s when women had something to offer. Now feminism screams at men that want a housewife. We’ll now men won’t try as hard for some cheap crap made in China...
I’m not saying women should be fat worthless slobs and expect to get Mr. Universe. Unfortunately, some have circumstances that put them at an advantage when it comes to being attractive to men, while others have to be more mindful. It just so happens that I was blessed with skinny genetics and a will be live a healthy, fruitful lifestyle that served me and satisfied me. That’s what I was raised to do. And I’ve enjoyed it. The effort I’ve made in my life was because I wanted to live that way. It just wasn’t for the sole purpose of getting a man.
Except even fat women are entitled. Even generic women think they deserve the hot rich guy. They use looks as an excuse to be ugly lazy people and then compulsion men don’t want them or just use em for sex.
I don’t think they should be entitled. But I understand why they are. And the reason is because a lot of fat and lazy women can still get a man. When men are lonely and horny, all their “standards” they talk about go right out the window. And they don’t even care in the moment because they’re just trying to get laid.
Getting and keeping a man are different things... look at the post total again.
Men will stick around a fat chick for as long as he has to. Even one of the other guys here admits it that men use women just for sex. Some of them pump and dump but a lot will stay and commit. And that’s why fat women have no motivation to get in shape. If they wait and flirt long enough, they don’t have to shape up. They’ll find someone willing to commit.
I dumped my ex because she wouldn’t get on a treadmill... I won’t date fat anymore... it’s literally the easiest thing to change of all things...
It’s simple. But not necessarily “easy.” I've lost weight twice in my life. Once I lost 20 lbs in 4 weeks due to a life event. The calorie deficit was brutal and very dangerous. I can understand why so many people fail at it.
She was 380 lbs and didn’t even try.. I don’t care how amazing she was I’m done replacing furniture and being limited never mind her unhealthy lifestyle
"So who’s definition are we supposed to pander to? How do we know what is considered promiscuous and to who? Why should we care?"
Whenever there is a disagreement on standards, it's best to refer to the more restrictive standard.
For example, when some people in a group think it's best to wear a mask, the proper thing to do is to wear one, even if you don't personally think it's necessary.
Ehh I don’t really agree with that as a principle across the board.
Women know what happens when they over indulge in sex... every partners a step towards that point... their willing to push that line in such numbers many many men have included most women in the box... or are you trying to tell me the odds of women cheating are low? Because of my 4 partners 3 I know cheated and 1 I suspect...
Any woman that’s complaining here shouldn’t be dating men. We don’t try remember. Same with you men. Don’t even think about dating. If you’re willing to say nobody tried then you go dating hoping for the best your a fucking retard.
I feel for me that a lot of women seem to expect me to carry the conversation which I just refuse to do, it's a two way street. THen you get the women who play games or attention seek from every guy going, that's things that I just can't be bothered with. Also, All I hear and see are people cheating these days so it's like why bother in the first place.
So, you hooked up with 29% of the guys you connected with. Why did you not hook up with the others? Clearly you were interested in sex with some guys and not others. What was the difference? And most importantly, why would you expect any of those guys to put in any more effort than you do?
I am continually amazed at the entitled attitude of today's women.
Why? Why should men put in more effort than you? We already get less out of a relationship then you.
How’s that going for you? How’s finding a long term man working for women? All I hear is wah wah wah where have all the men gone? Look at this god damn post! Why are men not trying hard anymore? Just cause it’s easier don’t mean it’s easy. And your pussy isn’t worth settling with when we can get it elsewhere. Without commitment. Hell I don’t date and I still get pussy!!! Had a friend over Memorial Day.., we had fun 3 times that day... and I’m hopeless and always busy. And yes chasing fun when it’s a game and your not facing sexual harassment charges for looking at her wrong... bitch you can go ahead and enjoy your privileged life because when it runs out you’re going to be alone a long time.
There’s no doubt I got a chip. I get asked all the time who hurt me... I’m not proud of it but a horse is a horse. I do what I got to. I Know women bring more problems then they solve. I know a woman could accuse me of sexual assault for helping her change a tire and I will suffer consequences innocent or otherwise. I know that more that 50% of marriages end in divorce. I know that divorce for men is far worse with alimony, child support, and that as a man I must be premade before a woman wants me. Divorce unmakes a man. And it’s damn difficult to recover from alimony and child support payments... but as a man I’m expected to stick my neck out... that’s not acceptable to me.
I have the right to be pissed about stupid feminist shit like #killallmen. I have the right to fear persecution from the side who’s almost always given preferential treatment by the law. And I do have the right to be bitter that I’ve been cheated on 3 times. And if I want I have the right to hire a whore with my money that I made without feeling like I’m a loser because after the whore leaves I’ve still got more money than you, I’ll still have my family, and I stop have no misunderstanding as to my place in this world. Your not special your just a woman. 50% of this population is female. Your just one of millions. And you can judge me all day if you want I really don’t care.
Oh I don’t want you to be confused. I’ve been out of the dating market for years prior. This woman hating attitudes from the last 3 years of being single. I see what women are like these days and I gotta say... not impressed.
That’s exactly my point... did you miss it? Men get painted with the same brush. You wanna argue men are the problem look inward. I’m sure you didn’t do anything wrong in your relationships ever. I’m sure you never judged someone based off something arbitrary like what they spent their money on (like whores).
And your a bitch for a woman what’s your point?
Talk dirty to me more!
Was it as good for you as it was for me?
@Giselleselfish Nope. We are done chasing. The egg isn't worth it.
Also you didn't answer the question. Why?
@Giselleselfish No he has developed. But you haven't. And it looks like you won't. Until it's too late. Too bad for you.
@Giselleselfish You may be aesthetically pleasing on the outside. But that won't last.
Your ugliness on the inside will slowly over time begin to manifest in the outside. And you'll no longer be aesthetically pleasing.
REAL men can already see that ugliness before you ever will. By the time you do it'll be too late and you'll be lucky to get attention from even the "hot" guys you're "attracted" to.
As for pussy. Yes we are biologically programmed to want it. But it's not essential. And we can get it anytime time we want. But not from parasite women like you. From hookers. From uni students. From whatever woman we want. You just can't stand the fact that the good men you claim to want aren't choosing you. Take a look in the mirror and you'll have your answer.
And now I wait for the generic female response. And go!
Because we are aesthetically pleasing, it’s easier for us to find someone else and replace you, we have pussy and you want pussy, we are born receivers and you’re SUPPOSED to really ENJOY chasing, UNLESS you’re a bitch (my main argument)!!!
@HamburgerFries @VanillaSalt Guys, don't waste your time on @Giselleselfish. She is a POS who has had many different accounts here on GAG and has used every one of them to express her hatred toward men and her deep sense of female entitlement. She is the type of human garbage that gives all of today's women a bad reputation. Just ignore her, she's not worth your time.
What is GAG? Never heard of it.
Oh I know what kind of person she is. Her posts have been deleted. She probably broke something in the TOS.
My responses are to educate those that are unaware of how women are favoured in today's world.
@HamburgerFries GAG - Girls Ask Guys
Truer words were never spoken.
More like Girls Against Guys.
@Opinion owner
Exactly bro. I've debated her too and you are right. She's a psycho feminazi.
I love that girls who have hooked up on here get messages of praise. When a guy hooks up, apparently he’s filth. I love toxic feminism.
Ide say it’s the opposite. The main thing across all women they look for overall is looks and money. Even the feminazis want a hot man with a lot of money... men on the other hand ide argue looks as well but honest and faithful are at the top of most guys lists... so basically women cheating effects their ability to be wed more than men in the eyes of the opposite sex... wrong either way but worse when women do it if ya ask me.
You can not have sex with someone right away abd expect them to respect you. You have to make them want and make them chase. Show them you value your body. No guy wants to wife a girl that has been sleeping around or has the image of that.
My dad always taught me to treat women like queens. Try not to start anything sexual unless she has hinted she wants it. That's at any stage. I never kiss a woman until I've asked her permission. Treating women with respect is important. Some men just want to get right to what they want. The art of courtships is lost in some men. Courting a woman makes her feels special and not like just another fling.
Why should men court women?
Courting is more respectful. It's like slowly getting to know each other and sometimes makes women feel more appreciated. I'm just going off of the women I've talked to it's not necessarily all women but apparently enough like to be courted.
They like it sure and when men were getting wives and marriage was until death do us part and it was a good thing to be devoted and faithful to your man then courtship was the least a man could do...
But these days is always men that are fuckups and women can’t do wrong. The balance of power shifted to women in both society and law yet we’re still supposed to give them everything? At what point is it their turn to yield something?
There is something to what you're saying and your intentions are good, but the truth is the nice guy gets to pay for dinner and the bad boy gets laid. I am not into games and I am not going to try and act like a bad boy, so I am very selective when it comes to who I will go out with.
Hopefully you have or find a woman that appreciates you for being chivalrous and being a good guy.
Honestly I just get the impression women don't know what they actually want... thats not an insult its just human nature the amount of times the goal posts move to win affection can be unbearable. I had this one girl I spoke to who actually tried turning the conversation into a interview! She asked me what made me special over the other guys she was speaking to... didn't go down well when I told her to go swivel, attitudes like that switch people off straight away
@Kiranosaurus
I would just turn it back on her and ask her what is so special about her. If she really pissed me off with her words alone I would just get up and walk away. I may even delete her number although I will definitely discontinue communicating with her.
You hooked up and got what you payed for. Man whores find like minded partners. Unless you turn away you are headed for destruction. The only path to redemption and freedom is in Repentance to God and accepting Jesus Christ.
You only go after hot guys, you hate they have options and you're not one of those options.
Men detest women who love too much and unwisely.
Just saying.
I'm sorry that the moment women realise shit it's automatically labelled Nazi shit.
Looks more like you have a shitty taste in men, to be honest.
The sort of men you allege to have "dated" seem the sort of wierdo's your friends would be asking you to avoid.
The simple yet harsh truth is ladies, these days your just not worth trying hard for.
Because women have too many options nowadays and they will call it quits on the most minimal incomvenience in dating and go on to the next guy, so what's the point in trying hard anymore
Women wanted a 'leveled' playing field. Now both genders should chase and initiate.
It just happens to be the case that most women never wanted to chase.
Too bad 🤷🏻♂️
You fucked up on no. 5
Because what's in it for us?
It's a very gynocentric world.
Because you don't deserve it.
You never did. No one ever did.
This. Exactly this.
there are just too many slutty women out there its hard to stay focused even if you want to
And there are a lot of good women, too, believe it or not.
@Jamie05rhs never said there weren't... but its hard to bother putting in the effort when there are so many easy options
Wait- why would you put in effort to an "easy option", though? That isn't a wise long-term strategy. Easy options usually are not GOOD options.
women are too demanding, too much work and now they are mostly Not worth the effort. If a guy wants sex he can have it and never even needs to know her name. So SEx is not a "Hook" you need a decent personality
Sex workers are cheaper in the long run. Women like the OP think that hookers are dirty. But they aren't. I used to think the same way. But after having seen dozens over the years they are just people. They do a job. Because dumb bitches like the OP don't want to even consider a good man and they think that we will tolerate their bullshit. We won't. I can't speak for other men but for me it's much more enjoyable to go see a hooker. They don't judge. They don't play games. They treat us with respect. That is worth a few hundred dollars. And it's very satisfying because we both get what we want. She gets money. I get companionship.
I doubt you civilian women even know what that is.
some people say "try hard", some people say "don't try at all"
Too many mixed messages
So, I've just given up
I stopped honestly because I've been lied to so much, I lost trust in females making it hard for me to show signs of feelings
Because of this ''Only hooked up with 4th and 7th guy''. No respectfull guy wants an ''easy to some guys but hard for others'' girlfriend and even less, for a wife.
Most men want a piece of ass and if they can’t get it they move on but that’s not me
Feminism has created this mess... They have so fucked up the rules that Noone has a clue how to act anymore, so everyone is playing it safe. It's like comedy in the era or cancel culture. Boring and risk averse.
Makes you long for George Carlin and Richard Prior
The man in the photo is really good looking but the woman is ugly
lol I don't know what it is but you proved something valuable today.
She can see it too. Interesting.
@HamburgerFries she has small eyes, big face bones and her teeth look like they protrude because the lower face juts out a bit too much. She doesn’t have good symmetry and not even one “conventionally attractive” feature. Whereas the man seems to have a toned body. He has the typical conventionally attractive make features like bushy eyebrows, deep set eyes, good face symmetry, sharp nose, boxy and sharp jaw etc. The woman’s face bones look bigger and wider than the man’s tbf and her hands aren’t dainty. Her fingers look bigger than his.
It looks like her face is semi collapsed. Not good traits to pass onto potential children.
@HamburgerFries yeah if she had daughters and they looked like her then it would be unfortunate. Her jaw is really big and manly chin.
I got a chin that requires a beard lol. “Weak chin” whatever that means I’ve never be KOed lol.
Have you considered that its you? If you put out a sex vibe then surprise, surprise that's purely what all the guys you attract will want.
In a world with one night stands no guy going to put up with dating or serious relationship if he can just meet up with a random girl on Tinder smash and off to the next without any strings attached.
Outside of being even marginally attractive I hardly ever text first
Both guys you "hooked up" with you describe as hot. You state (No Sex) after the others and one you state only after sex.
If I said I only hooked up with girls who were hot despite everything else, I'd be labelled a shallow pig.
Well said. I smell double standards.
@RachelBrooke
Misandric double standards implemented by feminists.
@joeblow123 You got that right. I’m completely against misandrists.