How come so many young women end up dating these guys that look like or are similar to this?

[Anonymous]

Why! I’ve noticed it heaps in Australia where I live but why!

[blank_expression]

So far the tats haven’t let me down. They are not usually associated with high paying professional jobs (less the media circus); and to date the ones that were in an office, ended up with sexual harassment and one extreme, stalking a coworker. Low-end women seek these low-end guys out of some dopamine high brought on by their lizard brain but pay the price down the road. These guys end up in the toilet long term—I have many personal examples to back that up.

[Anonymous]

Is there a girly-girly non-tattoo squeaky clean early 20s female equivalent direct opposite? Probably. A fair amount of women like what they like. And similarly a fair amount of men well they like what they like, in a their version of attractive women. But tatts on women or biker women doesn't always equal = love hearts or vice-versa does big boobs always equal a happy man.

[iseekpinetrees]

First picture looks like a daddy second guy just looks like a fuck boy. Girls like tats. Makes guys look like bad boys. I personally never cared. I always was weird n looked too closely at tattoos n how they're bleeding into the skin not looking fantastic lol I dont have tats nor does my hubby. It's just a thing some women like.

[kidvid80]

i am far to distracted by the first guys horribly tight too short pants to even remember the question?

[Asker]

Pure gold

[kidvid80]

thank you, thank you lol

[JesseJayNeak]

Have a like lol

[AnggieGirl]

Not all women care about looks, as long as he has clean clothes socks underwear teeth face hair hands and personality is on point & how he copes in life as well as his intentions in his morals. When I have come across males of this stature I find them self absorbed and their insist I’ve need for very useless and very toxic attention that cannot lose any of his sleep over.

[AnggieGirl]

self absorbed and their insisting need for very “

[TwinTonyz]

Is that first statement satire?

[tatianamay]

I don't know what's people's obsession with Stephen James is. Im not into tattooed guys. I have tried to find them attractive, believe me, but naw, they'll never be my thing. Im allowed to date only when i turn 21, so as i get older, you've gotta see past looks

[HawkPerception]

21? Your parents are a little too strict. You're an adult and legal at 18. You're literally free to do what you want. Some parents let their kids date as young as 14 as long as they're safe and have a good head on their shoulders.

[tatianamay]

@HawkPerception woah 14? im 15 now and my parents didn't really let me date when i was 14, but I've never really been approached by guys here and my brother's friends did call me ugly loll. But yeah, my parents are strict according to American standards, but in terms of Indian standards, they're very very liberal lol. In some conservative families in india, parents don't allow their children to date and there's arranged marriages and stuff. My mum's conservative and im pretty sure she'll be against me dating, but i sure as hell do not want to marry a complete stranger even though he comes from a "good family." My dad was the one who told me I could date whomever i want (even non-indians and girls, eve though im not into girls) when i turn 21 loll. My dad's really open minded

[HawkPerception]

I'm amazed that your parents are as strict as they are in this day and age. Trust me, I know how it is. I have a quite a few indian friends (girls) that have had to sneak their relationships pretty much their whole lives while they live with their parents. I just thought things would have changed a little with your generation a little more.

[tatianamay]

@HawkPerception lol as i said, my dad's way more open-minded than most parents in india

[tatianamay]

@HawkPerception dating someone who's not an indian is frowned upon. Premarital sex is frowned upon. Everything is frowned upon here. In the name of "culture" I don't really think there's much freedom for people to do anything they want. I asked my dad if he's okay with me dating anyone i want and he was like: Yeah, its your life, honey, as long as i approve of the guy, you can date anyone you want. ill support you even if ur mum doesn't

[HawkPerception]

If I was in your culture, I'd just have my relationships secretly. It's a little more than overbearing to prevent your kid from having a potential love life. We're all humans and all have the desire to be with someone.

Not trying to convince you to do anything, but as long as you're practicing safe sex, I say do what your heart says.

[tatianamay]

@HawkPerception lol, my dad's not really preventing me from having a love life. Since im in 10th grade now and all the years after this till i graduate college are important (since im going to study pre-med) he believes that boys would be a huge distraction. He is okay with me dating after i finish med school haha

[HawkPerception]

Dating can be a distraction or not. It depends on how mature you are about them. Waiting until after med school wil be a while. Your dad has good intentions and clearly just wants the best for you, but if you find someone that clicks with you my advice would be to not pass them by. Anyways, you seem to be okay with your dad's path set for you so I wish you the best!

[tatianamay]

@HawkPerception Thank you! Yep, I won't let them slip haha. I'll take up on your advice. Thanks :)

[natured]

Why not? What if they are happy? What if it's not even the looks but it's actual chemistry?
my partner also has tattoos and i love it, but i value him as a person way more than the tats, because it is with HIM who i have to live eat and sleep. But if it's just a trend then it's stupid just saying.

[Marioz86]

The problem with tattoo guys is that someone somewhere in past told them they look to cute or to much boy like so they put so much ink on their body to look tougher then they are. When I see someone like this I know right away he is a poser and weak character. Women always want a trough looking guy that will protect them. It's in their nature.

[Splatzonelover1]

I am only went out with learning disabilities men that has autism. I from uk and I have a learning disability and will be meeting a guy at McDonald at his own town. very near to my town. both in uk not truth for some. other women maybe.

[ChrisMaster69]

The same reason guys go for girls with Tats.

they can look great and show a level of originality as a person.

[Tiptoetamm]

I don't know why but neck tattoos are just super hot and add the accent mm please I'd be puddy

[Alyssa11]

Well it happens in Australia but not so much over here in the UK.

[Adam1978]

He look like shit and has an average face. You must have better looking men then that in Australia.

[pink_and_inlove]

My boyfriend looks completely different than that lol I guess girls that end up with those guys are more into the bad boy type meanwhile I like the sweet boy type

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Preselection bias and most women consider men accessories and not people. Every time you’ve ever heard a woman complaining about being objectified it’s because that is how she views men.

[Slartybartfast]

Neck tattoo lol, most people who have them are in prison.

[Alpha09]

The top one I wouldn't look twice at but Stephen James absolutely 👀

[AlexanderAnttila]

So the look is popular there then. Why does that bother you?

[Anonymous]

Because they find them to be attractive. Don't judge a book by its cover. They might be very kind lads.

[OutWestBandit]

thats the style now

30 years ago it was mullets - now its tats lol

[Anonymous]

Fully tatooed guys aren’t and never will b my thing.

[Anonymous]

Because these guys are usually sweethearts on the inside. My boyfriend is that guy. Rough on the outside, but sweet on the inside and everywhere.

[yourbabygirl921]

I don't know but I love tattoos lol

[TessCasie]

I don’t date these guys even for fun